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hey people. my name is Kristen and I love to give advice! Ask any questions...anytime. and i'll make sure i answer soon. i havent been really giving advice that long but i do give advice to a lot of my friends. feel free to ask anything that you need help on. dont be shy...Speak Up!hope i help ya!
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While picking out clothes to wear to school tomorrow, I noticed my sweaters in the back of my closet, and began to wonder if it was okay to wear them yet. The temperature has been averaging about 75 degrees here, but it's VERY cold in school...So, since it's after Labor Day, is it okay to wear sweaters yet?
thank yah much!
yea its okay to wear sweaters, i wore a sweater to school...everyone loved it. i'm sure that it'll be cool for you too
Hello, I enjoy making icons. I have made some good ones but I'm now realizing they can't get better. This is because I am using paint. Does anyone know *A GOOD* website to make icons on?No crappy doll makers please. Also is there any places I can get a free download of a good icon maker (one that isn't illegal to download freely)? Thank you.
go to www.iconators.com and start one and/or go to www.franksicons.com and check it out...both are free.
♥much Kristen
and check out my advice column if you need to...i'll answer any questoions that you have:-)
Lately I've found myself eating less and become more selfconcious. My boyfriend pokes my stomach a lot in a joking way and I'll think he's poking my stomach fat. My friend called me fat, but he was kidding, but I got very defensive over it. If I skip a meal, breakfast, lunch, or dinner I wont think anything of it. I'll lie sometimes to my mom and say that I did eat when I know I didn't. I'm always hungry, but I never want to go eat anything. Are these signs of anorexia?
well yes and no... but mostly your selfconciousness is getting to you. i've been doing almost the exact same thing lately. you need to eat at least a thousand calories a day to keep your body energized. and if you dont eat, you wont be energized so you wont be losing any weight. and your still growing. my advice is to eat a meal and then wait an hour or so and run around the block or something like that so you will lose the weight that your gaining when you do eat something. exercise is like almost the key to losing a few pounds. my brother has to loose weight for football and all he does is run wround everynight for 2 hours playing football. and so far hes lost 5 pounds in a week. your not fat and you are still growing, remember that, no matter what your boyfriend does or what your friend says. have confidence in yourself.
okay.. im sure you all know that the destroyed jeans look like... & anyways... i usually buy my pants like that .. but i bought a pair of pants like that today.. that didn't have the destroyed look.. & i reallly like these jeans .. but i want to add the destroyed look to them so i can wear them to school tomorrow. anyone have any idea how. k. i need to know asap. i'll rate.
k.thx.goodybe.
ok get some bleach and try to make it that bleeded look and cut the bottems to get that ragged look. then cut some holes in the knees if you wanna.
love much
Kristen
ok so i went to florida with my ex-boyfriend who i'm still crazy in love with! we hooked up down there but we still don't go out. he says he wants to be single because you can do whatever you want. then he says he doesn't like me cuz he wants to be single! i have no clue what to think. what should i do? how do i handle this?
cRazY iN lOve x3
cRazY iN lOve x3,
you really need to tell him how you feel. even then he still says he wants to be single try to get over him. i'm confused with you telling me this so dont feel bad. i get the same feelings for this guy that i've liked on and off for a while. i still think i like him but idk. so its either move on or wait till he wants to be toghether again.
okay this miht be a bit wierd but like wen ever i get my period i feel all wierd like its leaking thru my pants or something at skool and i really worry that it might be leaking! idk what to do? i mean if some one saw that there were blood stains on the back of my pants and especially if it was a guy i liked wat would i do? thats like sooo embarassing!
help!
well you could try using a thicker pad or tampon but otherwise theres really nothing to do. just think that your not leaking through your pants. i get it all the time but it never really leaks so dont worry!
Yesterday my boyfriend and i had sex and i bled on him, we thought that it was jusy my period coming because i am late...but it wasnt my period. He said that it could be possible that i contracted a std from my previous relationship or i could be pregnant. Im not sure what to do or what to believe~Im going crazy because i dont have anyone to talk to about this and if i do have a std he'll probably leave me...and i dont think that i would want to live without him; i'll be better off commiting suicide.
dont be dumb and commit suicide. if hes gonna leave you for that hes dumb. this sounds sick but depending on how much older he is than you, your clitorse might have split. go to a doctor and take an std test and see what happens. dont be ashamed.
Im 13 and im 200 pounds basicly and everyone hates me even my mom..Because im so overweight..my dad left my mom to go have sex wit another woman cuz theey wanted a "fit" daughter!!!!SO.....then like my mom had sex with another guy she waaas dating..and she took the pregnency test and shes havin triplets!!!!and she said shes givin me up..Cause im overweight..so im at my Grandmas house 4 now on.......so 2 make me happy my mom gave me 2 babys so..i was there NEW MOM!!! I feel like noone cares about me!!!Can you give me some things to say 2 my mom..about just dumping her children on me!!!
Oh my God. why would someone do that? just becuz your overweight. i would be screaming at her. look dont feel bad. i'm a little overweight too and i do everything i can to try to loose weight. and because your mom did that to you, you need to confront her and tell her how you really feel. and there HER children so she needs to take care of them. thats pretty sad if she doesnt like you b/c your overweight. tell her to go take her babies and take care of them by herself. she doesnt need to be a bitch to you just b/c shes just plain mean.
Ok i dunno what this would go under and alot of people look here so... I wanna know how to my face clean like no pimples or blackheads like what are some products or things i should do?? Thanks
i use this clineque stuff. it works really well so go to clieque in the mall and try a sample. you might start clearing up in a couple of days but you gotta use it everyday and night. try it...it works.
ok i had asked a question this morning buti have to say something else that i need advice on that happened tonight...
ok well i just gto home from a party and this guy tommy asked me to have sex with him and i said no and he called me a tesse and alot of other guys called me a tease b/c i wouldn't let them do ne nasty stuff to me the tommy took me into a room and put duck tape on my mouth and then un zipped his pants and mine...and then he took the rest of my cloths off and made me stand on the bed naked he was just lookin @ me...then he fingered me and raped me and he told me that if i told ne one that he would do it agian and kill me...there was no way for me to go b/c hes a football wresaler and really strong...by the way im 16 and he was 18...i don't want to tell neone because hes on of my moms ex boyfriends son and she treats him like a son and i would never think that he would do nething like that...HELP what should i do?
you have to tell someone. i read a magazine where these 3 boys raped their friend (who was a girl)but she didnt know b/c she was unconsious. when she found out what happened, she went to court and told them what happened. she was the same age you are now and they were sentenced 55 years in jail. you need to tell your parents and see what they might want to do about it.
Ok well, I`m on my period and I have to go on a boat Sat. Tampons are def. outta the question because I`ve tried them and they DO NOT work! Is there anything I can do?
you dont have to do anything if your in the water. cold water stops the flow. my advice is to do in the water first and the sun tan so nothing will happen.
My boyfriend just came over and I gave him head and he cumed and a little later I lost my virginity to him but he didn't use a condom. I'm scared I could be pregnate. Is there any chance I could be?
yea there is a huge cance that you could be pregnate. you should go talk to your parents and the see a doctor. also maybe ask for an HIV test. anything could happen.
Is 13 old enough to have a boyfriend...not like pair off and go out on an actual date or anything...but to really like a boy and have a first kiss or sumthin...it's not like I want to, but when I see kids in my grade kissing and holding hands and stuff and I'm just curious to whether it's right or if it's silly or if it's age-appropriate...?
of course your old enough if your trusted by your parents. i mean i've seen 11 yearolds go off holding hands and makin out
hi. Ive got a boyfriend and i luv him to bits but should i be worried about the age gap? im 15 and he is 12. Do you think its wrong or what?
help
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seems like he could be more of a brother that a boyfriend. jeeze...i mean what has a 12 yearold got on a 15 yearold. yea i do think thats wrong...maybe in a couple years.
i have like horrible sleeping problems...like sometimes i dont even fall asleep till almost 3 in the morning. does anyone have any like tips or something to help me fall asleep?
thanks ♥
try to relax, read or think. its not that hard so relax and just try
ok well i'm 13 and my boyfriend wants to have sex and i really dont think i'm ready for it.how do i tell him wiht out him thinking i dont like him anymore
tell him that your not ready...tell him you still love him but you really dont want to have sex at the age. your pretty young to have sex anyways so dont take the risk.
Today i was happy and ready to go to cheer camp. When i got there everyone was wearing the same color shorts eccept for me, i guess it was required. My mom drove me back home to change but i didnt have that color becasue someone borrowed them and never gave them back. My mom left to work and now im sitting home thinking of waether not i should of gone back. Its a three day thing, yesterday i went but i wore the wrong color and today im not going. they already made up the routine and gave me a spot but now they are gonna change it and i dont feel liek putting up with everyone askign me where i was and i just know that they are going to tlak behind my back.Everyone went besides me and liek 2 peple have areason bc they are on vacation. What do i tell people?
dont tell them anything...if they ask just laugh and say i forgot to wear the color or i didnt know i was supposed to. make it a joke and dont be ashamed of yourself.
is there ANY possible way yu can go swimming w/o a tampon. Like, any way. please help, i'll rate high
when you go swimming you dont have to use a tamp b/c cold water stops the flow...and it stops it for a while...dont worry i've done it before. no one will notice
School is coming soon and I need some sugguestions on where to buy clothes. Got any sugguestions?
^Thanks
well i'd need to know your style but i personally LOVE Aero or for other cool stuff go to kohls, target or anywhere else (Abrecrombie's good too)
My mom never lets me do anything!!! How can I make her think I am mature and responsible and desserve to hang out with my friends??!
well u gotta do something that will make her so happy she just wants to thank you for it. or try to persuade her into knowing that you are responsible enough to do the things you wanna do...oh and how old are you anyway? cuz depending on how old you are, there are things that your mom might not want you to do b/c of the "Consiquences"