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Blue Eyes*
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There's this guy...we'll call him kyle. My friend started to like him when we liked this other girl. The other girl like'd him back, but then he started to like my friend. So after she told the first girl that she n kyle like'd eachother they kinda started to talkin n what not. I go away for vacation for about 3 days n when i come back kyle tells me that my friend we'll call sarah told him she didnt like him anymore. Little did kno kyle started to like me. I didnt wanna like him at first but as i got to know him i started to. I havent told sarah about me n kyle yet b/c he said i shouldnt tell her just yet but we are gunna. I feel bad because now sarah likes him again. It sucks because its my friend and she talks about him all the time now. Sometimes i think that kyle still likes her because they still talk. I dont mind the fact that they talk n what not it juss sucks because she's always tellin me what he says to her n i get that feeling like he wants her still. He says he doesnt n i wanna believe him...im kinda hoping its just the way sarah makes it sound when she tells me about her n kyle. They dont hang out but neither has him n me yet since this whole thing started. What should i do...i kno i will tell sarah at sum times soon but i dunno if kyle's feels are all there or not. His mom calls sarah his girlfriend ...i take it she doesnt kno about her sayin she didnt like him anymore. I'm juss scared to have my heart broken cuz this type of stuff doesnt happen to me. Please help! (link)
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Well im ganna be honest you should tell sarah soon that you liuke kyle because if you don't and she finds out from some one else she will be really pissed and embaresed b/c she keeps going on and on about him when you really like him and stuff...hoped i helped
Blue Eyes*
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Hey guys. Well there's this guy that I like and the only problem is that it's my best friend's bro. He's younger than I am (I'm a 8th grader and he's in 7th) and I'm pretty sure he likes me too. Everytime one of my other friends asks him he denies it but he always flirts with me when I go to her house. I REALLY like him but of course I can't tell my friend or else she'd freak! PLEASE HELP!!!! I'll rate 5's!!! (link)
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So what if hes your borthers friend if you like him then yoyu can ask him out...And if you really like him then you should be able to tell your friend even if she does freak...Y should it matter?
Blue Eyes*
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my boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months and we're both religious and waiting for marriage before we have sex. recently we've been really open and getting comfortable with eachother. we've been talking about sex a lot on the phone, not us doing it, just positions and what feels good. last weekend I jerked him off, and afterwards I got really upset. then yesterday we had dry sex. it was just like the real thing just with our pants on. After every time we do that stuff we promise eachother we won't do that again, but everytime we're in a bedroom it happens. Please help I'm so upset & disappointed in myself and it's so hard to not do these things with him cause I trust him so much. But we're only teenagers and I dont want to do it, plus its against my religion. He never forces me to do anything, I just do it... help =[ (link)
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its a good thing that you and your boyfriend what to stay virgins untill your marraide (i know i couldn't) then i sugest that you talk to your boyfriend and tell him how you fell afterwards.
Blue Eyes*
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sorry if this is long but i could so use some advice. ok well i went out with this one guy about a year ago who well call joe and i really really liked him and then i had to go away for a week. when i came back we seemed fine and we went and hung out like we always did and then one night apparently he was talking to my best friend who well call sue. well i guess he told her he only wanted us to be friends and he had her break up with me the next day. well obviously it really hurt and everything and i didnt understand. it took us a while to get over the whole thing but now were best friends again and its been this way for about 10 months. i trust him with my life and tell him everything and there are times when he really trusts me too. my friends and i think that he flirts with me sometimes and in return i apparently do it back. we both know people think we like each other and he really hates what people think about him. so then he starts to be really mean to me and says im annoying and all this other crap we both know isnt true. i dont do anything back because it will always turn into a fight and we just have to many of those i dont want to add to it. well now i think that i have a crush on him again but im really afraid what hes going to do if he finds out. i dont know whether i should just try really hard not to like him or whether i should just let him know. he thinks i do like him but whenever he asks who i like i always say no one. also, if you think i should stop liking him is there anyway thats really easy to take my mind off him cause we hang out so much its not like i can stop going near him. thanks so much and ill rate high if its good advice!!
~Leah, 14~ (link)
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ok because yuo to are really good friends then you will probly not stop liking him for a while...I think you should tell him that you like him you never now he might still like you and if he doesn't atleast you still know that you can be his friend and still hang out with him.
Blue Eyes*
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ok so, last night i went to a party and met this really cool guy. he's a friend of one of my ex's. he said it was a birthday party when he invited me so one of my friends wouldnt feel lonely. well i found out later that the party is for his girlfriend. but he really wants to end the relationship. she controls him all the time. and so idk i just kinda like him. and he called me up last night and we talked for a couple of hours and he asked me out on a date tonight so we can get better aquainted. it seems fine to me but im just not sure, hes 18 and im 16, which isnt bad because ive dated 18 yr olds before, like all last year. i just dont really kno what to do. is being interested in him wrong?
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Its not wrong that you like him or that you want to go on the date with him but i wouldn't go out with him untill he afically ends it with hid girlfreand because some things can turn into others esspecial if you really like some one.
Blue Eyes
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OKay, so one thursday night I went over to this guy (muh friend) house wit muh friend and we all drank wit his friends nd smoked nd shit and well me and Ewell like eachother and I dunno..he wants to be wit me but Im juss scared b/c of past relationships..so we ended up havin sex and I was real scared b/c I was drunk as fuck and at first didnt realize shit and then I realized he NEVER used a condom but I know he pulled out and everything and he never said anything went wrong and HE WOULD IF HE DID soo yeah.. So then on the next night (Friday) muh ex (friend) picked me and muh friend up and dropped her off and I went back wit him to his house and we had sex..Now I might sound like a HOE but believe me IM NOT..I juss lost muh virginity this year and it was from the one guy I went wit Friday night..I loved him and still do nd shit soo yeah..but now when we get together we do hookup soo I dunno..I cant lt go..The other guy..Man I didnt even wanna have sex wit him but I was drunk and people do stupid shit.. I feel so fuckin down about it but I cant change it now..now when I chill wit him Im afraid to even kiss him b.c I don t want it to lead to sex..and he doesnt have a prob wit that soo yeahh.. but anyways back to muh whole point..well I knew I was gonna be gettin muh period between the thurs*Saturday.. Saturday I got muh period.. Now here it is aug 1 and I had a normal period and everything and it ended nd shit but now I feel sick (not in the morning) or im not hungry sometimes but I eat and I dunno..I feel bloated but I already had muh period..Is it possiable to be pregnant if I already got muh period after those 2 nights wit those guys? Could I have gottin muh period still and now that its over could I be pregnant? im scared as hell im only 16 and I dunno..im scared as fuck and need advice...QUICKKKKKK!!! Thanks (link)
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ok first your only fuckin 16 sencond don't make it seem like its not your fault because it is...So if your pergnet well to mad...and learn how to spell (muh) and get off those drugs
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i have this friend and she is going out with this guy that i happen to like...she doesnt know that i like him and i know that if she finds out she would be soooo mad because i guess at one point he told some of his friends that he liked me...so i dont know what to do, do i tell him? do i tell her?
*melissa 15 (link)
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ok you have to think about if this boy is more important to you then your friend. I have been in your place a few times and you just really have to think whos more important and i know it might seem hard to let someone you like go but if you and your friend are really good friends then you should just forget about it.
Blue eyes
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ok I have a pool and i go swimming like everyday but my hair is getting very damaged from it. Like I take a shower but my hair just look damaged in a way I can't describe its just not silky. Its kind of like it looks scragly and unbrushed. I don't want to stop swimming.
Does anyone know any products or things I could do to make my hair healthy again. Please help I rate high! (link)
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ok just put conditoner your hair everyday and in about 5 or 6 days it will look heathy agian
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