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Best Friend
sorry if this is long but i could so use some advice. ok well i went out with this one guy about a year ago who well call joe and i really really liked him and then i had to go away for a week. when i came back we seemed fine and we went and hung out like we always did and then one night apparently he was talking to my best friend who well call sue. well i guess he told her he only wanted us to be friends and he had her break up with me the next day. well obviously it really hurt and everything and i didnt understand. it took us a while to get over the whole thing but now were best friends again and its been this way for about 10 months. i trust him with my life and tell him everything and there are times when he really trusts me too. my friends and i think that he flirts with me sometimes and in return i apparently do it back. we both know people think we like each other and he really hates what people think about him. so then he starts to be really mean to me and says im annoying and all this other crap we both know isnt true. i dont do anything back because it will always turn into a fight and we just have to many of those i dont want to add to it. well now i think that i have a crush on him again but im really afraid what hes going to do if he finds out. i dont know whether i should just try really hard not to like him or whether i should just let him know. he thinks i do like him but whenever he asks who i like i always say no one. also, if you think i should stop liking him is there anyway thats really easy to take my mind off him cause we hang out so much its not like i can stop going near him. thanks so much and ill rate high if its good advice!!
~Leah, 14~
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ok because yuo to are really good friends then you will probly not stop liking him for a while...I think you should tell him that you like him you never now he might still like you and if he doesn't atleast you still know that you can be his friend and still hang out with him.
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well...since you guys are such good friends there is probably no possible way that you can just drop him and stop liking him, so you should tell him that you have some feelings for him but you dont want that to effect your friendship in anyway...hope i helped
danni <33
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hes not worth it if he is willing to bad mouth you to stop people from saying stuff about him then there is no use having him, you need a guy that that isnt affected so much by other peoples gossip, hope i helped.
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If you like him, you like him. Next time he asks tell him so. Say well, I like you but since you don't feel the same we will just stay friends. See what he has to say about that. Since he probably already know this I don't think it will change anything. :)
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