Hey guys. Well there's this guy that I like and the only problem is that it's my best friend's bro. He's younger than I am (I'm a 8th grader and he's in 7th) and I'm pretty sure he likes me too. Everytime one of my other friends asks him he denies it but he always flirts with me when I go to her house. I REALLY like him but of course I can't tell my friend or else she'd freak! PLEASE HELP!!!! I'll rate 5's!!!
hune1986 answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 5:26 am: you've just gotta think like this is they guy worth more that your friendship? at your age its almost a guarantee that it wont work out so why risk the friendship. and if you do decide to got out with each other ask your friends permission first so that you dont make her feel like she being left out or ignored. and when you decide to end it do so civilly since you dont want to loose your boyfriend and your friend in one day, personally it is a rule for me and for most guys not to date his siblings friends and not to date their friends siblings -did that make sence? and its in bad taste to do it too.
p/s its also in bad taste to date your ex's friends, hope this helps, hune 1986 [ hune1986's advice column | Ask hune1986 A Question ]
LiLHoOtYCuTii4U answered Tuesday August 2 2005, 5:36 pm: Well Ive never really had that problem but i would talk to him yourself and if he says that he likes you back then ask him what he thinks about goin out! Then after that happens tell ur friend! It shouldnt be too bad! I mean just think she may think it was the best thing! Hope I Helped!
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advicegiver789 answered Monday August 1 2005, 11:53 pm: hey being older than him isnt a very big problem and as soon as you stop thinking that it is thats when it wont be a problem anymore, and your friend isnt really your friend if she is gonna stand in the way of someone you like, hope i helped [ advicegiver789's advice column | Ask advicegiver789 A Question ]
AbsoluteCuti170 answered Monday August 1 2005, 10:26 pm: I'll be glad to help you. I'l give you some advice which will definatly help him notice you even more.. First off smile at him and yea if he likes you he'll smile back trust me.. then you could like look him in the eyes and hell look into youra and it'll feel like the perfect moment..(lol)Then u kinda gotta flirt, get close to him and you know just be around him.. he'll like that.. like when youre at your friends ask him if you guys can all watch a scary movie and if you get scared you'll have no excuse to not get near him.. and dont be scared if he likes you, he'll like that youre near him.. then if he responds in a good way you've got it in the bag and hopefully he'll ask you out or he'll at the least tell you he has feelings for you..
**Hope i helped, tell me how it works out**
*XOXO*
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xoxobabyblueeys answered Monday August 1 2005, 8:59 pm: So what if hes your borthers friend if you like him then yoyu can ask him out...And if you really like him then you should be able to tell your friend even if she does freak...Y should it matter?
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