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i have this friend and she is going out with this guy that i happen to like...she doesnt know that i like him and i know that if she finds out she would be soooo mad because i guess at one point he told some of his friends that he liked me...so i dont know what to do, do i tell him? do i tell her?
*melissa 15 (link)
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no, you really shouldnt tell either of them what would that accomlpish? they are together and that would only rock the boat it might/will hurt your realtionship with your friend because she will probably think that your trying to break them up, which is what you wanna do right? and im sure that at one point he did like you but now he is with your friend probably in love, so he is happy and if he is an upstanding guy he wont like you anymore cause only a sleez would go out with someone while sceretly liking someone else. i think what you gotta do is get over this guy and find someone else im sure that there is someone out there that is dying to go out with you and is actually single and attainable, good luck with the guy hunt, hune1986
p/s even after they break up its impropper to go out with your friends ex. and if he asks you out would you really want to go out with someone who has no manners and promptly goes out with his ex's friend? good luck hope that this helped a bit
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Hey guys. Well there's this guy that I like and the only problem is that it's my best friend's bro. He's younger than I am (I'm a 8th grader and he's in 7th) and I'm pretty sure he likes me too. Everytime one of my other friends asks him he denies it but he always flirts with me when I go to her house. I REALLY like him but of course I can't tell my friend or else she'd freak! PLEASE HELP!!!! I'll rate 5's!!! (link)
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you've just gotta think like this is they guy worth more that your friendship? at your age its almost a guarantee that it wont work out so why risk the friendship. and if you do decide to got out with each other ask your friends permission first so that you dont make her feel like she being left out or ignored. and when you decide to end it do so civilly since you dont want to loose your boyfriend and your friend in one day, personally it is a rule for me and for most guys not to date his siblings friends and not to date their friends siblings -did that make sence? and its in bad taste to do it too.
p/s its also in bad taste to date your ex's friends, hope this helps, hune 1986
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okay.. i cheated on my ex and he found out and broke up with me. Now.. hes threatening me and everyone that knew and didn't tell him about it. He won't say what hes going to do to us.. he just keeps saying he knows people to "take care of it"
Hes overage and we had sex.. so if he trys to hurt me.. can i get him on a statutory rape charge? -- my parents dont know we had sex...
and also.. what should i do about the threats? (link)
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threatening you with bodily harm is a crime, and you need to take it serious since there are many horor storys of girls who didnt listen or see the warning signs and this my dear girl is a big one. talk to someone that you can trust and also your parents and the police, and since you were underage when you 2 has sex i suggest that you tell the police and have them press charges for stat. rape so that it will get him off the street and away from you and the others that he threatned. be careful and when around him or where he hangs out stay with friends so that your not alone just to be safe. and remember that cheating doesnt feel good to the person that your cheating on and please use this experence as a lesson so that you dont cheat on someone else beause it can enrage someone to the point that they will/can cause you bodily harm, good luck stay safe, hune 1986
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Me and my boyfriend (Greg)have been going out for almost 6 months.
Before I had no friends, and at the beginning of this year I started to hang out and become friends with his friends.
Then we started dating.
We are together almost all day every day,
because when I hang out with my friends, he is there too because they are his friends also.
I'm not saying I'm tired of this, I love being able to see my boyfriend all of the time. and I love him more than anything.
I can't help it if we have the same friends.
Is seeing my boyfriend every day unhealthy for the relationship? (link)
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no spending time with him is important to your relationship and its not unheathly to see eachother every day but its a little unheathly to not have other things to do that just you like, and of course its always good to have some time to yourselves and i know for sure that my boyfriend loves spending time with me and so do i, but we both love to hangout with different friends so that we have time apart to apreciate and miss the time we do spend togther and it makes the time we spend together all that more special. its also a good idea to have other friends incase it doesnt work out with him, and some guys also secretly annoyed that their girl is hanging out with their friends cause he wants to still have his own life so that he doesnt feel smothered or whipped, and also they might sometimes hate it cause their afaid that they're going to loose you or that there friends are ogling there girl cause he definitly doesent wanna share you. i know branching out and meeting new people is hard but wouldnt it be nice to hangout with some girls who share the same hobbies and interests as you? hope this helps, good luck with meeting some new people, -hune 1986
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sometimes i seriously just cant sleep...is it bad for an almost 15 yr old to use sleeping pills?
any suggestions on what type (if its not bad)? (link)
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you really shouldnt be useing sleeping pills if your still a young teenager (under 18) docotors usually say not to and you should never use sleeping pills for more than 7 days. also sometimes you cant sleep because of worring and i think it helps if you keep a notebook by your bed and wright down the things your thinking about eg: dont forget to bring calculator to schoool for the math test, or it could be that your sleep pattern is off from staying up late and sleeping in too long you can fix that by pulling an all night the going to bed that night at an apropriate time. but remember that even being relaxed, in bed, eyes closed with the lights off is better than staying up, sometimes reading for a bit helps but dont read anything too interesting that you would want to read for more than 25mis hope this helps, hune1986
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