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too much time with my boyfriend?
Me and my boyfriend (Greg)have been going out for almost 6 months.
Before I had no friends, and at the beginning of this year I started to hang out and become friends with his friends.
Then we started dating.
We are together almost all day every day,
because when I hang out with my friends, he is there too because they are his friends also.
I'm not saying I'm tired of this, I love being able to see my boyfriend all of the time. and I love him more than anything.
I can't help it if we have the same friends.
Is seeing my boyfriend every day unhealthy for the relationship?
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its not that its unhealthy but it may gat that way he may become to attached or you may be attached the reason people try to put space between them is so they dont get sick of each other if hes getting on ur nerves you should just talk to him and try to work the spending all the time together thing out if you dont mind all the together time and he doesnt then theres nothing wrong with it just dont let things get out of hand
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well i think it is in a way. i would get annoyed by that but thats my opinoin. but i think you should have your days where only you female friends go out to the movies or just hang out. maybe see your boyfriend every other day. but every day seems anoyying
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actually no it isnt as long as your also interacting with other people too...too much alone time could be unhealthy
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It's not unhealthy if you still pursue your other interests, and have time to yourself and are living your own life seperate from his as well, just make sure that you're not getting 'lost', like losing who you are and your own identity, in the relationship. If you think you're spending too much time with him, then you are, and just tell him that you think you'd like a little more time to yourself, and that it's nothing against him, you'd just like more time to your interests. Tell him that a relationship can be improved if you don't see eachother /every/day, because you won't know every little thing that happens to eachother right away and will have more to talk about and share feelings about. Hope this helps :)
Love,
Nevaeh
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no spending time with him is important to your relationship and its not unheathly to see eachother every day but its a little unheathly to not have other things to do that just you like, and of course its always good to have some time to yourselves and i know for sure that my boyfriend loves spending time with me and so do i, but we both love to hangout with different friends so that we have time apart to apreciate and miss the time we do spend togther and it makes the time we spend together all that more special. its also a good idea to have other friends incase it doesnt work out with him, and some guys also secretly annoyed that their girl is hanging out with their friends cause he wants to still have his own life so that he doesnt feel smothered or whipped, and also they might sometimes hate it cause their afaid that they're going to loose you or that there friends are ogling there girl cause he definitly doesent wanna share you. i know branching out and meeting new people is hard but wouldnt it be nice to hangout with some girls who share the same hobbies and interests as you? hope this helps, good luck with meeting some new people, -hune 1986
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If its been going on for sixth months and doesnt seem like anything bad came out of it, i doubt its unhealthy!
It sounds like you guys really love eachother!!!
Good luck with thatt!
Feel free to leave one in my inbox if you still need help.
x3Teresa
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I don't think it's unhealthy per sé, but you might want to start branching out and trying to get new friends. In case you two break up, you want to have someone that is not a link between you two. Hope I helped.
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It might or might not be unhealthy for your relationship. That depends on you two and how you act around other people. If you aren't fighting all the time, then you should be okay. Since they are your friends & your boyfriend's friends, you should be able to all hang out together. So no, I don't think it's unhealthy, but you should watch how much you're together, because it could make your relationship difficult.
♥ Melissa
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no its not unhealthy, try to plan special events to keep things spiced up. do things that he would want to do, not nessicarily what you want to do but make him happy, he will do the same in return for you.
p.s. sex helps :)
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it isnt unhealthy but you might just get not interasited in him faster.. i wish i could spend everyday with my boyfriend but i cant... hope this helps you out..
*~Stephanie~*
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It's not "unhealthy" But I would reccomend not doing it, because you both need seperate time to think, hang out with friends, and do what you want. You don't want him to think your clingy either, but if he is okay with it, then sure, it's okay.
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Thats perfectly fine. Its good that you see him everyday && that you spend time together. Maybe you could go out with your girl friends once in a while to the mall or something. But its not unhealthy its just fine. =)
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No it's not unhealthy for your relationhship. But I wouldn't reccommend it because it is unhealthy for your friendships. Hope this helps!!!
♥ Alyssa
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the only problem with seeing him every day is that you might get sick of him, you need your own time without him. but if u cant help that and you really love him then its probably okay, at least your not like me who barley gets to see her boyfriend, so consider yourself lucky. but try and take time for yourself and try and do things without him every once in a while...hope i helped
danni <3
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It's really up to you to decide if this is healthy or not. Are you getting sick of being around him this much? Is being with him so much causing pointless fights? Do you feel you need some more space? Would you like to hang out with other people, get some girl time maybe?
If you answered no, then it probably is healthy for you. Just be aware of your changes in attitude and don't be embaressed to ask for some alone time if you need it.
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