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Hey guys it's Alyssa!! I'm 5'1" and 14. I have green eyes and blonde hair. I give grrrrreat advice so ask me ANYTHING. I'm always here when you need me! When I do answer your questions please rate me! I want to hear your feedback! ♥






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Me and my boyfriend (Greg)have been going out for almost 6 months.
Before I had no friends, and at the beginning of this year I started to hang out and become friends with his friends.
Then we started dating.
We are together almost all day every day,
because when I hang out with my friends, he is there too because they are his friends also.
I'm not saying I'm tired of this, I love being able to see my boyfriend all of the time. and I love him more than anything.
I can't help it if we have the same friends.
Is seeing my boyfriend every day unhealthy for the relationship?

No it's not unhealthy for your relationhship. But I wouldn't reccommend it because it is unhealthy for your friendships. Hope this helps!!!

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okay.. i cheated on my ex and he found out and broke up with me. Now.. hes threatening me and everyone that knew and didn't tell him about it. He won't say what hes going to do to us.. he just keeps saying he knows people to "take care of it"

Hes overage and we had sex.. so if he trys to hurt me.. can i get him on a statutory rape charge? -- my parents dont know we had sex...

and also.. what should i do about the threats?

Yes you can charge him for threating you and for statuory rape. Hope this helps!!


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Is it normal to gain weight during or right before your period? I am 13 years old and I weigh 100 pounds. Is that normal? Now I weigh 103 pounds.

That's perfectly normal. Before and during your period you retain water so it will make you gain weight. Hope this helps!!!


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I am having some friends over today and there gonna be over for like 5 hours before our cheer practice and I have no idea what we can do I don't have a pool just a trampoline I mean I live in a place where we can go for walks and stuff but thats boring anty ideas on what we can do? I'll rate high

Why don't you go to the movies or the mall or somewhere where you guys could have a good time!! Hope this helps!!!


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I am applying for a job at clothing store, and on the application it asks why I am applying for this position. The honest answer is because I need the money, but I know you're not supposed to say that on applications. So what should I say instead? Thank you.

Just say that you like the stores clothing and that you want to work there. Hope this helps!!!


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ok I have a pool and i go swimming like everyday but my hair is getting very damaged from it. Like I take a shower but my hair just look damaged in a way I can't describe its just not silky. Its kind of like it looks scragly and unbrushed. I don't want to stop swimming.

Does anyone know any products or things I could do to make my hair healthy again. Please help I rate high!

They make a special kind of shampoo for swimmers that you can use. It works really well too. Hope this helps!!!


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ok heres the thing....
im getting adopted and my parents have alot of trust in me...........

well iwent to my friends house and then i was goin with her brother and i did somethings(for the first time)
an now i think i might be pregnant!!!!

i dont want them to find out if i am but of course im gonna get fatter (if i am)
and u kno they will notice.
please help me asap????
:(

Call your friend and ask if you guys could hang out @ her house. Then go buy a pregnancy test and take it @ her house. If it comes back positive then you HAVE to tell your parents. It will only make things worse if they find out on there own. Hope this helps and good luck!!!


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School is coming up soon, and im not sure where to shop for my school clothes every year i go to the mall and shop but i want something different..

Maybe try going to a different mall. All malls don't have the same stores. That's what I do. Hope this helps!!!


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Okay, my friend and I snuck behind our parents backs and met this guy she is in love with at the bowling allie, and some of his friends. I hadn't ever met the guy she likes.. until then. and i now, I REALLY like him.. and last night, he IMed me, and told me he likes me.. and so ofcourse I told him I liked him too.. and then this morning, I got online, and my friend told me that last night, he told her that he loves her. and she is so happy.. but me and him REALLY like eachother... WHAT SHOULD I DO!?

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Well if he told you that he likes you and he told your friend that he loves her than he's not worth it. He could end up cheating on you or something. Take it from someone who had the same exact problem. Hope this helps!!!


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I just started having my period i've had like 4 or 5. this one month it didn't come.(that whole week i spent it at the beach)is it normal to skip periods when you first have them? please help and no smart ass stuff i'll give 5's!!

It's totally normal to skip periods, especially if you have just started. Like even a year after you've started you could skip. Hope this helps!!!


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I would like to know the best ways to make my butt fit and not flabby.Could you suggest which exercises work best?

Squats and lunges will help. Trust me!! Hope this helps!!!


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I went to the spa and got a facial.The lady told me she was takeing all the black heads out of my face. Well she did but it left a red mark on my nose (its very noticable and it hurts) I dont know what she did.Can someone tell me what she did? maybe she squeezed it out to hard? my skin is very sensitve and im 13. Also how can i make the heal faster?! please help
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You just need to leave it alone because if you mess around with it, it will only make it redder and more sore. Hope this helps!!!


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how do you save a animated icon? I know you have to save it to gif but how?

You just right click on the icon and then click save picture as then it will be saved. Hope this helps!!!


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is it ok to shave next to your belly and your lower back?

Yea it's ok but I wouldn't do it cause it will grow back all black and gross. Plus if you don't do it constantly it will be all stubbly and people will know. Hope this helps!!!

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This is gonna sound confusing but, my best friend that i knew for about 6 years now has this really hot brother, hes about my age. He likes me and i like him! But she doesnt want us going out and she keeps making up excuses on why we shouldnt. She doesnt know i like him and im afraid if i do tell her she will get upset and be rude about it. And plus i think it will feel a little weird going out with my best friends brother! HELP i am soo confused

Hmmm..I know a lot of people have that problem. Maybe you could give her good reasons why you guys should go out. You could tell her that you guys could all hang out together and it would bring them closer as brother and sister. Or that when they hang out she could watch him to make sure he's not doing anything bad to you or something. Hope this helps!!!

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I'm 13, I've had very oily skin since I was 10 *including the black heads and pimples* I've tried so many products such as clean & clear, noxema, ponds, clearisil, (all those otc products) but nothing works to clear it up. I want to go to the derm. but we have no money for it, there for no money for Proactive either. What should I do, is there anything yall recomend ?

At like Walgreens and those kinds of stores they sell these acne pill things and I've heard that they work really good. You take them once a day and they're supposed to take away your acne. They come in a really big bottle and it's like $20 so it's not that expensive. Hope this helps!!!


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Hey Everyone, Whats up?

You Know Jessica Simpson's new "Dessert line" Of beauty probucts? I was wondering, Can you Really eat them? Or Not? I read the back of a Bottle to see the ingredients and I really couldn't tell. Anyone Know?

(Are they worth the price?)


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(If it matters, I'll rate and leave feedback!)

You can lick the perfume or lotion or whatever it is and it tastes good. My friend and I tried it at Ulta and it tasted good to us!! Hope this helps!!


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13/f someone told me that th eband gorillaz isn't a real band, they like use other singers voices and combine htem or something. anyone help me?

No they're a real band!! Hope this helps!!!


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what do they do when you get a facial?

umm I think they give you a massage and like put this mask thing on your face. Hope this helps!!!


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I want to get nice highlights for my senior year. I have light blonde hair & want something a little darker but not too much. Any ideas? Thanks. I rate high :)

Maybe you could get like a dirty blonde color of lowlights. I think that would look cool. Hope this helps!!!



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