This is gonna sound confusing but, my best friend that i knew for about 6 years now has this really hot brother, hes about my age. He likes me and i like him! But she doesnt want us going out and she keeps making up excuses on why we shouldnt. She doesnt know i like him and im afraid if i do tell her she will get upset and be rude about it. And plus i think it will feel a little weird going out with my best friends brother! HELP i am soo confused
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? TheTeenGirl answered Monday August 1 2005, 8:52 pm: You should talk with your best friend alone and ask her what bothers you about the thought of you and her brother hooking up, and ask for the truth. Tell her that she needs to tell you the truth pretty soon because you like him. If your friend is upset, then maybe she'll tell you out of anger. But if she does get upset, don't date her brother. You don't want to get yourself in that mess. But, I think you should just be honest with her, and she'll probably give it back to you.
advicegiver789 answered Monday August 1 2005, 4:24 pm: if your friend was really your friend then she wont get in the way of you two, and as far as you going out with your best friends brother i say dont worry about it it may feel awkward for a while but youll get over it trust me [ advicegiver789's advice column | Ask advicegiver789 A Question ]
babiibananax3 answered Monday August 1 2005, 2:11 pm: you*ve got to decide whats more important...going out w/ this guy...or you*re best friend
if you dont want to have to make that choice then your just going to have to talk to her and explain why it wouldnt be such a bad thing
LlYySsAa answered Monday August 1 2005, 1:52 pm: Hmmm..I know a lot of people have that problem. Maybe you could give her good reasons why you guys should go out. You could tell her that you guys could all hang out together and it would bring them closer as brother and sister. Or that when they hang out she could watch him to make sure he's not doing anything bad to you or something. Hope this helps!!!
babyemz answered Monday August 1 2005, 10:20 am: Well sweetie just tell your friend in an honest talk say that i know you might not like this but i like your brother and he likes me too and you want to go out with him.If your friend gets mad over that then she isnt a very good friend now is she?If she is a good friend she'll support your decision 100%. <3 [ babyemz's advice column | Ask babyemz A Question ]
Shy-girl answered Monday August 1 2005, 9:54 am: Be careful how you handel this, First of all do you realy want to go out with him because this could change your friendship with your best friend it could make things difficult and uncomfortable can you imagine if you dumped her brother? who would you normaly talk to if this happened?( your best friend?) If you realy want to go out with him i suggest you talk to your best friend and let her know how you are feeling. [ Shy-girl's advice column | Ask Shy-girl A Question ]
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