. . Watch your thoughts
They become words . .
. . Watch your words
They become actions . .
. . Watch your actions
They become habits . .
. . Watch your habits
They become character . .
. . Watch your character
They become your futur3 . .
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Truelove is when . .
You shed a tear,
And still want him
Its when he ignores you . .
And you still love him
Its when he loves another girl
But you still smile and . .
Say im happy for you
When all you really wanna
do is cry . . and you cry
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im am 13 i havent gotten im period and im afraid it will happen at the most embarrassing time like in class or something. i went to the doctor and she said that she etimated it would happen when im 17 but im scared that it will start and i wont knwo and ill be really embarrased :-( (link)
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you know what its natural to happen and all you needa do is relax cuz if ur always nervous itll happen faster try not to think of it and if it DOES happen then it happens its normal every gurl is gonna go through it
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Ok, I'm trying to lose weight but I get bored often and I've found that I eat when I get bored, even if I'm not hungry at all. What are some things to do when I get bored?? I mean, I live in a place where you have to drive 15 minutes to the nearest mall or movie place so shopping isnt an option. And I'm only 13 so I can't drive...What are some fun, random things to do around the house? (link)
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Well hun you could try doin some sports with the family you kno just have fun together or maybe draw or do some crafts or baking listening to music,watch movies, just enjoy being a kid.Hang with your family and call friends over too.
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If i run for 30 minutes every day on a tred mill, how much might i lose by christmas?
also, does running on a tred mill give the same results of regular running? (link)
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Hmmmm well if you keep running like that you might lose a good30-40 pounds probly i dont kno umm running i think is a little bit better than tredmile hope i helped u out
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i have this friend and she is going out with this guy that i happen to like...she doesnt know that i like him and i know that if she finds out she would be soooo mad because i guess at one point he told some of his friends that he liked me...so i dont know what to do, do i tell him? do i tell her?
*melissa 15 (link)
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Well If you dont want her to get mad you shouldnt however shes your friend and if you tell her you like him she shouldnt get mad at you because its juss how you feel and besides no1 can blame u for your feelings.
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Okay, the only thing that my mom lets me use to dye my hair is that Loreal Color Pulse stuff that only lasts for 8 washes or so. She also said that if I were to ever actually DYE my hair, I would get it profesionally done. She lets me get highlights profesionally, and instead of highlights this time, I'd like to get my hair dyed a darker brown. My mom is veeeeeery reluctant about this. What are some things I can tell her to convince her to let me dye my hair? (link)
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You could try telling your mom that maybe you two can agree on a brow nthat you two can both like.Tell her it wont look bad and well if it does tell her how much you really like it that way she'll see how happy you are with it and see your happyness and let you keep it.Hope i helped ya.
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i just took a dump before, and it was RED. I dont have my period, and it's not like i'm bleeding out my ass. the shit was red!! I'm like really freaked out, and i just want to kno if this is normal, and if it isnt, what should i do? (link)
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Well...lol sorry about laughing but thats a bit odd,but it might be something bad try going to your doctor this week,or maybe it just ripped through a little bit and bled lol.I dont think i really can help but i tried lol.
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ok so, last night i went to a party and met this really cool guy. he's a friend of one of my ex's. he said it was a birthday party when he invited me so one of my friends wouldnt feel lonely. well i found out later that the party is for his girlfriend. but he really wants to end the relationship. she controls him all the time. and so idk i just kinda like him. and he called me up last night and we talked for a couple of hours and he asked me out on a date tonight so we can get better aquainted. it seems fine to me but im just not sure, hes 18 and im 16, which isnt bad because ive dated 18 yr olds before, like all last year. i just dont really kno what to do. is being interested in him wrong?
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Hunny your heart cannot be wrong.If you dig this guy you should totally take the chance and see if you guys have a Spark between u 2.Try some dates out and if things go good you're gonna score with a bf. lol . Hope i helped yea.
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my mom and my doctor want me on birth control, and its up to me what type to use..so i was wondering whats better, the patch -- or the pill..please help me make my decision! (link)
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Well hun i would probly go with the pill.I just think it would be a better choice.
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I have a bad flu and have been coughing and sneezing a whole bunch my mom told me to just lay down but ever since then it has gotten worst do yall know any way that i can get rid of this cough
iwill rate high for good answers or enless you want a one you can answer badly but I really need some help on what I can buy so please answer this question (link)
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Well hun i would go and see a doctor and tell your doctor whats wrong. your doctor should have something to help you with your coughing and sneezing but eventually it should go away.Hope i helped
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Ok.....i think that black guys are sooooooo much hotter the white guys. i'm white. i would love to go out with a black guy cuz they are over all soooooooooo much better. but if i did my parents would kill me!!!! any advice? i give 5's!!! (link)
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Well hun i would first sit down with your parents and tell them what your into in a guy then say that maybe going for a change in dating black guys and tell them you really want their support in their decisions and hopefully it all works out hun.
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Hello. Well, when I make presentations at school or read a paper to the class, I always get nervous. I can't help it. I've tried everything: looking at the wall, looking at the people's noses, practicing a million times the night before, etc. My question is, are there any pills that help with that, or help with nervousness? If there are, are they expensive and do they actually really work? Please help soon because school is coming up. Thank you. (link)
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Well i would try picturing like no 1 was there or maybe juss sing a song inside your head while reading for your school i kno you proboly get shy and nervous up there but they're all listening to you and thats your time to shine:).
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help me i still pee in my pants my name is rachel jackson! but my friend lauren craps in her pants! were 13 is this normal??? (link)
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Well i would go to a doctor to get that fixed because that aint right lol but its not your fault try holding it in i guess. lol
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i have the hicups what should i do to get rid of them please help i really really need it and i need it bad because i have them for like fifteen hours (link)
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Well hun i would try drinking some water or maybe trying to get some1 to scare you i dont really know hun but try holding your breath too.It will eventually stop though i hope you get better.
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i need one good song about getting over a boy? like a pop song? or like telling a boy to get out of your life (link)
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I think i got a good one what about Jojo-Leave(get out)
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My friend is throwing a party and invited my crush. The thing is my friend said that I have to tell my crush by the end of the party that I like him or she will. I know I have to tell him I just don't want to deal with the potential heartbreak right now. Should I talk to my friend and hopefully convince her not to do it or just tell my crush? Oh and if I tell him his ex is probably gonna be close by since she's invited too... I rate high for good advice! Thanks! (link)
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Well i would tell your friend that you dont feel the time is right for him to know you like him.If your friend doesnt tell that means she'll respect your decision.When you feel comfortable telling him or when the right time comes you should.Hope i helped
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i am 18 years old i have been with this man for about 4 years now but he have been with other woman but i still love him i try to move on with my life but i can not i need help (link)
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Well hun you need to realise what hes doing isnt right I kno you love him alot but there is another guy out there who will not do that to you.You deserve better than that.Cause once a cheater always a cheater but thats just my opinion.I hope I have helped.
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ok, i had a dream that i was showing my friend my old house and we went into the ravine in the backyard and a fox jumped out in front of us and ran into a path in the woods. then the fox went running back because a wolf was chasing him. the black wolf bit his snout. then he ran back into the path. then there was a line of 4 wolfs but 3 of the wolfs disappeared. the one on the far right was the black wolf. he came running toward me like he was going to attack. but i kicked his head. then he backed off. but then he was really really friendly and sat by my side. then the fox came out from the path and and the black wolf (which i named Blaster in my dream) looked at me and i said "go ahead..get him" and he attacked the fox. he bit his snout again. but there was no blood. the fox ran away back into the path. and then i walked up the ravine with "Blaster" then we appeared in this yard that i've never seen. there was a swing set and i was on the swing. my brother and sister were in back of me and they took my stuffed animal dog. then i told Blaster to get them and he jumped and bit my sisters arm and my brothers leg. but they didnt seem to mind!! i got my stuffed animal back but it was all dirty and the collar broke off. i went into my dads house and sat at the kitchen table. i started crying just a little bit though. but Blaster was next to me the whole way...then i woke up. does this mean "Blaster" is my animal spirit guide?
also, i want to have another dream about this black wolf...does anyone know how i could possibly make myself have a dream about the black wolf? im very interested in this.
i will rate 5's for everyone! unless your answer sucks. well..if you really tried you would still get a 5. peace out (link)
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Well i would think he is your spirit guide because you seem to really care about him.
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i have this friend and she got sexually abused... i don't know exactly what happened but im really worried about her. she hasn't talked at all to me and shes acting like every part of her is gone! i dont know what i can do to make her feel ANY better. i have no idea what this man did to her but it messed her up really bad! she doesnt eat, sleep, or talk! im really worried!
What should i do!
signed,
brittany (link)
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Well first of all hun im very happy that your concerned about your friend.You a very good person to do that. Second you should tell someone like a parent and get some help for her because she is probly really scared and getting her help would be the best treatment.
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I'm doing some research on what teenage boys find attractive in girls, both in looks and personality for a creative writing paper. If anyone has any information for me, I would appreciate it. (link)
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Well teenage boys like girls who have alot of confidence and humour in their personality.They also would like girls who can keep a conversation going and ejoys sports.Now looks wise thats a toughy because everyone likes something different but probly someone who is in shape and just looks good and thinks they look good.
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ok so theres this guy and i like him so much and i know theres probably nothing i can do but...i need to, i have to, i hate being without him...its crazy and it all happened so fast and i dont know what to do...but look...i like him he likes me but he doesn't want a relationship...id like one, because i want that commitment. i want him to be mine and only mine....you know...what do i do !?!?! help please please help.. (link)
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Well hun kinda sounds like your getting too into him you should start off by being his friend then when you think its right tell him how you feel about him however use your words wisely you dont wanna sound like a stalker girl! so just take some time
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