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To tell or not to tell?


Question Posted Sunday July 31 2005, 9:25 pm

My friend is throwing a party and invited my crush. The thing is my friend said that I have to tell my crush by the end of the party that I like him or she will. I know I have to tell him I just don't want to deal with the potential heartbreak right now. Should I talk to my friend and hopefully convince her not to do it or just tell my crush? Oh and if I tell him his ex is probably gonna be close by since she's invited too... I rate high for good advice! Thanks!

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mooch789 answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 7:18 pm:
If you like him, you might try to get to know him better before the end of the night. Then when the timing is right, tell him. He may be flattered. And with the ex, try to get away from the party to tell him. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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jerryspringer answered Tuesday August 2 2005, 1:01 pm:
hi. you hould tell him befor the party. and act like you did not tell him then during the party do not tell him. so when she goes to tell him she looks like an ass. also if she is really doing this then she is not a good friend . please wright back and rate me.

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BrunetteBeauti answered Tuesday August 2 2005, 11:14 am:
hmm well if you dont want to tell him and you want to know if he likes you back you can get one of your friends to ask him if he likes you and if he says yes then you can go and start flirting and stuff without saying you like him and see where it goes from there. good luck. please rate.

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bl0ndiex3you answered Monday August 1 2005, 10:24 pm:
try flirting with him a lil bit at the party and see his reaction. if its good then try and plan a time where just the two of you can hang out - like at the mall or sumthing. maybe then you culd tell him how you feel. good luck

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X0C0URT answered Monday August 1 2005, 7:34 pm:
Wow your friend sounds pretty mean. Why would she want to embarras you like that? If I were you I'd tell him myself. Just casually talk to him and ask him if he wants to hang out 1-on-1 sometime because you really like him. That way you can make sure what gets said to him is exactly what you want him to hear. If you're friend does it, she might say that wrong thing. Who knows, maybe he likes you too! Oh, and don't worry about his ex.

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ShYbl0nD3 answered Monday August 1 2005, 1:23 pm:
well i would tell him when your ready. And maybe if you do go to the party you two might axidently be alone and then it would just feel right to tell him then. But i mean your friend shouldnt be forcing you wether or not to tell him or not.

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babyemz answered Monday August 1 2005, 11:22 am:
Well i would tell your friend that you dont feel the time is right for him to know you like him.If your friend doesnt tell that means she'll respect your decision.When you feel comfortable telling him or when the right time comes you should.Hope i helped <3

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tuttcutie answered Sunday July 31 2005, 10:34 pm:
talk to your friend does she have a crush well do the same thing to her if she still goes through with it who would you rather him find out you or your friend? tell me how it goes hope i helped please rate high

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t0xicParadiSe answered Sunday July 31 2005, 10:16 pm:
i think you should just tell your crush

you shoudnt hold it in because you wont know how he feels about you

until you tell him how you feel about him

and who cares if his ex is there just do what you gotta do

let me know how it goes hope i helped if you need anything else drop one in my inbox &hearts;

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Advicegrl4u answered Sunday July 31 2005, 10:04 pm:
I think you should tell your crush that you like him and say that its ok if he doesnt like you back just in case you dont want to be hurt!! And say that if he doesnt like you that it would be cool to hang out with him as friends sometime!
I hope i helped!!!!

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twistedsister17 answered Sunday July 31 2005, 9:49 pm:
I would tell him, because you definitely want to tell him yourself. Don't be afraid of rejection because its not going to kill you is it? Think literally. Good luck!

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hckypuck answered Sunday July 31 2005, 9:31 pm:
you make a deal with your friend. tell you friend thats hosting the party that you will hang out with him most of the time at the party. throw some signals and see if he sends them back. if he does then NEXT time your with him you will consider telling him. see if they will buy it.

hope i helped :)

keep me posted

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