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i have a friend
i have this friend and she got sexually abused... i don't know exactly what happened but im really worried about her. she hasn't talked at all to me and shes acting like every part of her is gone! i dont know what i can do to make her feel ANY better. i have no idea what this man did to her but it messed her up really bad! she doesnt eat, sleep, or talk! im really worried!
What should i do!
signed,
brittany
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Go to your friends home and talk to her about it. Even if she doesn't speak back tell her you are always there for her and if she would like to explain she can. Tell her she should tell her parents and they can get the police. They can help her. No one is going to hamr her. If she wants help she is going to have to help us too! Happy Typing
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theres not much you can do...but just try and be there for her and talk to her. try and find out if shes talked to an adult...if not encourage her to..or tell an adult you trust.
by the way..you seem like great friend, and shes lucky you care! good luck sweetie!
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Try really talking to her. Sometimes as friends, you have to get them talking and open up or else they're gonna stay depressed. If that doesn't work, try informing her parents or police. What happened was absolutely wrong!! And i firmly believe in justice being done with that kind of stuff. You NEED to get her to open up with you. That's the first thing you gotta do. If she holes everything up, it'll only get worse!!! Hope i helped!!!
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Well first of all hun im very happy that your concerned about your friend.You a very good person to do that. Second you should tell someone like a parent and get some help for her because she is probly really scared and getting her help would be the best treatment. <3
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heyy you should try consulting her an tell her that your always there fo her and that she needs to tell somebody becuase there is a guy roamin around town and if e doesnt tell somebody it might happen to another girl...if she doesnt tell you then tell her parents when she isn`t home that about the best advice i can give...good luck hope i helped
my love michelle
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You should tell someone that your friend was sexually abused because it could be rape and thats illegal. You friend should go see someone like a sychatrist(i dont know how to spell) I hope I helped.
~Claire~
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wow ..this has got to be very hard for her..what you do is talk to her..let her talk to you and cry on your shoulder..try and get her to open up to you because talking about it will help.
do some research for her..hotlines to call..local clinics that has free counseling for sexual assault victims..i think one time there was a guest speaker from planned parenthood or somewhere about sexual assault counseling..so check out your local planned parenthood
try and get her to tell authorities about this so they can lock that dirty bastard up..tell her this will bring closure to her and give her peace in a way. keep letting her know this is NOT her fault.
if she refuses to talk to authorities or parents..i would consider telling authorities myself..she might be mad at you at first, but as she recovers she will appreciate what you did
-melissa-
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