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i like my friends boyfriend
i have this friend and she is going out with this guy that i happen to like...she doesnt know that i like him and i know that if she finds out she would be soooo mad because i guess at one point he told some of his friends that he liked me...so i dont know what to do, do i tell him? do i tell her?
*melissa 15
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well grl that is your friend. i think you need to get over him because there cant be nothing between you two.not now bcuz they are going out and not after bcuz thats yo friends ex. your friendship is more important than some guy. find a new crush.
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if your truly loves this guy more than she does and u loved him longer you would tell her and him keeping it a secret wont get you to a point of accomplishin anythin so if your heart is set out for him she would understand that he likes you and you like him..
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no, you really shouldnt tell either of them what would that accomlpish? they are together and that would only rock the boat it might/will hurt your realtionship with your friend because she will probably think that your trying to break them up, which is what you wanna do right? and im sure that at one point he did like you but now he is with your friend probably in love, so he is happy and if he is an upstanding guy he wont like you anymore cause only a sleez would go out with someone while sceretly liking someone else. i think what you gotta do is get over this guy and find someone else im sure that there is someone out there that is dying to go out with you and is actually single and attainable, good luck with the guy hunt, hune1986
p/s even after they break up its impropper to go out with your friends ex. and if he asks you out would you really want to go out with someone who has no manners and promptly goes out with his ex's friend? good luck hope that this helped a bit
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How long have you liked him? If you liked him longer then she has then tell her. Its not that she will be mad its just she might get jelous that he might end up liking you more then he likes her. Just wait a while and see if you continue to have those feelings towards him and if it continues let him know also. If she gets pissed well too bad. You cant help who you like and she needs to understand that.
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I think you should keep it quiet until they are no longer a couple. If you tell him and he does like you it will cause a break up and your friend will be mad. Same if you tell her. Then there is the fall out you will get from other friends who think it was wrong of you to do. Play it safe and just wait and see what happens. :)
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OK, ive been in sorta the same situation. Talk to the guy be like 'I heard you like me do you?' If he says 'yea' then ask 'then why are you going out with ____' if its along the lines of getting closer to u id tell ur friend. hope i helped ♥
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ok you have to think about if this boy is more important to you then your friend. I have been in your place a few times and you just really have to think whos more important and i know it might seem hard to let someone you like go but if you and your friend are really good friends then you should just forget about it.
Blue eyes
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Melissa,
Right now what you need to think about is if this guy is worth losing your friend. I have been in your position and what i did was just let it go. It may be hard. But there has to be other fish in the sea. They maybe when they break up, wait a few months then ask your friend if you want what she would think or say and or do if you liked he so much you wanted to go out with him.
I hope my advice was good enough.
Good Luck
Barrysbabygirl
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either way its your friends boyfriend, and true friends dont take boyfriends away from eachother. You may like him but your better off just keeping it quiet and not telling ANYONE. not one soul! cause you dont wanna loose a friend over a guy.. guys never last friends do. Best of luck dear<3
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either way its your friends boyfriend, and true friends dont take boyfriends away from eachother. You may like him but your better off just keeping it quiet and not telling ANYONE. not one soul! cause you dont wanna loose a friend over a guy.. guys never last friends do. Best of luck dear<3
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either way its your friends boyfriend, and true friends dont take boyfriends away from eachother. You may like him but your better off just keeping it quiet and not telling ANYONE. not one soul! cause you dont wanna loose a friend over a guy.. guys never last friends do. Best of luck dear<3
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i think you should tell her if you're really into this guy -- that's what friends are for, right? and if she truely is your friend, she won't get mad.
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In a matter of time this decision you make will be forgotten. Possibly within a week of you doing it.
Why would she get mad? He'd still be going out with her and you'd sit in lust. She has no reason to be mad. You should be mad you weren't fast enough to go out with this person.
Just remember what you decide to do wont matter within a year.
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Well If you dont want her to get mad you shouldnt however shes your friend and if you tell her you like him she shouldnt get mad at you because its juss how you feel and besides no1 can blame u for your feelings. <3
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you can tell her and if she is truely your friend then she will not freak out or anything but no matter what you do do not tell him, as that will f up your friendship with her for a long time, trust me. hope i helped.
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