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Hey!!!! It's Alyssa!!! I'm currently a level 1 moderator!

[a]ge: 14
[b]irthday: March 27
[c]andy choice: CHOCOLATE!!!!
[d]rink of choice: Coke or Gatorade
[e]xciting things happening:Pennsylvania
[f]ood of choice: Chinese or Mexican
[g]reastest acheievement: superior @ theatre fest!!
[h]ottest guy on the planet: Sean Faris!!!!
[i]ndoor activity: dance
[j]unk food of choice: chips and dip!!!
[k]oolaid of choice: grape
[l]ove: GUYS!!!!! and Dance!! duh!
[m]usic of choice: POP!!!!
[n]icest friends: Chelsea!!!
[o]bsession: DANCE!!! duh!
[p]izza place of choice: Pizza Hut!!!!
[q]uestion most asked: about styles!!!
[r]adio station: 96.7 kiss F.M.!!!! duh!!!
[s]aturday activity: mall or friends house!!!
[t]ake out food: chinese!!!
[u]r favorite movie: Mean Girls!!!
[v]ery best friend: Chelsea!!!!
[w]hat you wear: everything!!!
[x]yz??? look down idiot!!!
[y]our favorite singer: i have a lot!!!!
[z]odiac sign: ARIES!!!!!

I'm always here when you need me!! So ask me ANYTHING!!!

advice

Well my bf of over six months is leaving for the summer. Im not gonna be able to talk to him or see him all sumer till he comes back. So I'm thinking do we stay together or should I just tell him well see what happens when he gets back (not necciseraly breaking up)or should we just stick it out all summer and stay together. we both love each other very much Im confussed what should we do? I rate 5's!

I would just let things the way they are and if you guys still find that you are wanting each other, then get back with him. Hope this helps!!!



~Alyssa

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After my boyfriend & I broke up, I started hanging out with my guy friend a whole lot. We got really close & end up having sex a few times. He was pretty much my rebound guy and it was a huge mistake. He thought that it really meant something & told me he loved me. Now, we are just friends. I told him I was sorry, but I didn't like him like that & liked being single. Everytime I flirt with a guy, he gets extremely mad/jealous and brings up what happened between us. I could never tell him it was a mistake because he's too sensitive & I just want to forget it ever happened. How do I tell him I want to be single & flirt without him getting all mad and saying I'm a slut? (20, F)

Well first of all he needs to get the picture that your a young woman who needs to explore with other guys before she picks one. He needs to realize that he doesn't control you and what happened between you two is in the past. Hope this helps!! And if he's calling you a slut, then he's so not worth it!

~Alyssa

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My best friend has this boyfriend (Hes a real pervert and a jerk to her friends but she doesnt care) , wen shes goin out with all she does is talk about how he gets in to trouble (which she like) or how she wants to break up with him, when he breaks up with her she cries and threatens to commit suicide! Then they get back together and the pattern continues! IM SICK OF IT, !!!!!
Sry its long, but i rate 5s

No offesense to your friend, but she's stupid! I mean to get back together with a trouble maker, and a guy who's always breaking up with her? I mean what's done is done! You need to tell her that the next time he breaks up with her it's FINAL! Hope this helps!!!


~Alyssa

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When my ?'s are answered, people say "Inbox me if you still wanna talk" or whatever. How do you "inbox" a person.
May sound stupid but hey! Im kinda new...


5's for anything thats correct

When you go to there advicenators page, there's a button that says ask a question and you click that. That's inboxing...LoL. Hope this helps!!!



~Alyssa

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ive have AIM for about 2 years now but currently it has been acting up and not letting me change the "preferances". i dont want "notifications" so i check that then click "apply" then "ok". after the window is down, it wont do what i checked off for it to do. i cant change my font either unless i do a right click while in the text box. how do i change this? i tried redownloading it and nothing changed. thanks for any feedback!

after you hit the apply button, wait like 10 seconds before you click "ok" so that the system has time to recieve the information. Hope this helps!!!


~Alyssa

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This might sound strange, but I need tips on how to fight. I know how to hold my fists and how to swing, but I'm scared to break my knuckles or fingers when I swing at someone. I shouldn't be fighting, but I need to learn how to defend myself when someone starts with me, which has happened before and I didn't know how to fight. Also, where is a good spot to hit the person so they back off?

Well there's really no way to avoid breaking your knuckles or hand when your fighting, but when someone starts something with you just calmy ask them to stop, if they keep it up, and they're starting to get physical, then you say you really need to back off. Then if they still are bugging you, you can defend yourself. Hope this helps!!!



~Alyssa

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ok i play the guitar and i need to know chords to some songs because i lost my book with all these songs in it so does anyone know like the chords and strummingn pattern to any good songs because im bored as hell with the like 10 i can play, i just keep playing them all over and over and over again so if you could help that would be great!

Go to google and do a search on Guitar lyrics and they have a ton on there. I know cause I'm trying to learn guitar. Hope this helps!!!



~Alyssa

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Since last night I have had a pain in my chest. It hurts just as and after I swallow, and whenever I take deep breaths. Sometimes I just feel the pain when I change posture or even move. It feels as though there is something there. The pain comes from right in the centre of my chest.
Does anybody have any idea what this could be?
If it helps I'm 14 and female!
All help appreciated!

You might have some kind of a respiratory infection. You should see a doctor before it gets worse! Hope this helps and feel better!



~Alyssa

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how do i talk to a girl that i dont know and i wanna get to know her but im a bit shy?

Maybe you could get one of your friends to ask her for a screen name and you could talk to her there. Hope this helps!!!


~Alyssa

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i wash my face twice a day (once in the morning, once at night) but after i was my face it gets really shiny. and its really noticable (a few people have asked me why my face is so shiny...which is really embarrasing.)....is there any product that wont clog my pores but will make my face less shiny?

thanks.

Maybe you could wash your face at night everday, but wash it in the morning every other day. It works for me.(Or if you wear make-up, try wearing a powder) Hpoe this helps!!!


~Alyssa

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ok i had a best friend rachel and we were the bestest of friends then one terrible day she moved and we kept in touch but then she moved to indianna and she never called when she was in indianna and me and her havent called eachother since (we werent mad at eachother) i miss her so much i had a dream i met her again, and i was crying when i found out it was a dream i need help please! i will rate 5's on advices that arent mean!

Well if you know her phone number up there, you should call her. But in this case it sounds like you don't, so maybe ask another one of your friends if they have her number and call her. Hope this helps!!


~Alyssa

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I have a friend who is heavily into drugs. She isn't doing it to have fun, she is doing it to escape problems in her life. She has had a very difficult life, so it isn't like an emo thing. I am too close to her to help her. I have been through this with her many times. My question is, what can I do to try and get her away from all of the drugs without making her mad at me. Also if there is anything you could suggest, where I could help her, it would be much appreciated. Thank you all so much in advance. This problem has really got me down.

~Nokomis~

You SERIOUSLY need to tell someone! She may appear mad if you tell someone, but if she were a REAL friend she'll thank you eventually. Hope this helps!!

~Alyssa

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Does anyone have a good idea as to what I could get my boyfriend for our 6 months? I want to do something semi-creative (as in not trite) and semi-romantic.

For Christmas, I made him a book of pictures and magazine cut outs that said sweet stuff.

I need some ideas. Good ones are appericated.

I'll rate.

Hmmm...maybe if you have some pictures of you guys you could make a collage and frame it in a big frame & at the top make a sign on your computer that says like "Together forever". Hope this helps!!


~Alyssa

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where can i get the code for filling up the whole entire page with the backround for myspace?

just click on the button where it says use this or something and it automatically puts in the code for you. Hope this helps!!!



~Alyssa

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Ok I'm scared to kiss my bf. I'm pretty sure he wants to kiss me too, but we're both really shy. How do I get him to kiss me or gather up enough courage to kiss him myself?
I'm 13/f by the way.
Thanks I rate 5's

Next time you guys are alone somewhere, and the mood is right, just go in for it! Hope this helps!!!



~Alyssa

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i think my parents are looking into how to read my instant messages. i really dont want them to do that. they'll find out everything they dont know about me and that i curse and that i talk about some thhings they may not want me too. plase help

Well you should ask them if they're doing that and if they are then you should tell them to just ask when they want to know something just ask instead of prying into your personal life. Hope this helps!!!


~Alyssa

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is it okay if my dog ate some cheerios? will she be alrite? please answer asap it was a bout a handle of cheerios

Yeah we give my dog cheerios all the time! LoL!! Hope this helps!!!


~Alyssa

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okay, i really need tips on how to get better sleep, and wake up feeling refresed

Ummm...well maybe you could go to sleep earlier and then what ever time you have to wake up in the morning you won't be AS tired! Hope this helps!!!


~Alyssa

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hey... does any1 know how to make icons on iconator... i went to the site to download animation shop 3... but they only gave me the option to pay for it... not download it... can someone help

well I know if you g2 dollsnow.com there's a thing where it says make icons and then it takes you through the process! Hope this helps!!

~Alyssa

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ok..on my lower buttcheeks i have little red bumps..i dont know if theyre pimple(they dont have heads) or if its just a rash from my undies..im realli not sure what it is..does anyone know or even have a remote idea what it could be? thnx

It's probably just a rash from your panties. Sometimes your skin may get irratated from your under pants rubbing against your skin. Hope this helps!!!


~Alyssa

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