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What should I do?
Well my bf of over six months is leaving for the summer. Im not gonna be able to talk to him or see him all sumer till he comes back. So I'm thinking do we stay together or should I just tell him well see what happens when he gets back (not necciseraly breaking up)or should we just stick it out all summer and stay together. we both love each other very much Im confussed what should we do? I rate 5's!
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no need to rate im here to help. but i was in the same situation, except my boyfriend went to jail and he'll be there til november, anywho. The summer really isn't that long if you think about it, I think you'd be able to wait, but perhaps if you think you'll make a mistake relationship-wise, a break may be necessary, not so you can go out with other guys, but just so that there's less pressure, and less pressure on him as well. I would suggest a break, because it will be a lot easier than having to think about eachother all the time and such, but you really need to follow your heart on this one, as cheesy as it sounds. Hope I helped, keep me posted -Angel
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I would just let things the way they are and if you guys still find that you are wanting each other, then get back with him. Hope this helps!!!
~Alyssa
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well where is he going? are there no fones.. not even to call every week just to tell you he is alive? if there is No way of staying in touch with him i would be like hey, i want you to know i do really like you. but just so we can enjoy our summers and not have to worrie what the other person is doing i think we should take a break. and see what he says. but i think taking a break would be the best thing to do.
hope i helped
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My boy went to Vegas last summer and we stayed together. If you don't really have a reason to break up with him, then stick it out and stay together. It's only gonna be a couple of months. Time flies like you wouldn't believe. It sucks at first but it gets easier as the time goes. Then when he comes back you can just talk about how you missed each other. Trust me, if he loves you, he'll be faithful. Mine was. His mom told me he totally snubbed any girls that tried to talk to him.
Think about it, though - you love each other. One of you is going somewhere. You're considering breaking up, why? A couple of months is not nearly an eternity in our lives. Tell him to call you and write to you and you should both be totally fine. We were, and we're still together after 17 months. Don't break it off because of a temporary distance.
I hope this helps!
-Siren =)
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Well, this all turns to the question, Do you trust him? If you trust him, then you should stick it out. If you don't trust him, tell him that you do want to see him, but you'll have to see what happens when he gets back.
Hope everything works!
-Trin
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Sweetheart if y0u love him stay together.
would you want to lose him over the summer to some other girl? I wouldn't want to see someone i love see other poeple. I mean come on hun so what if he goes away for the summer i know its gonna be hard.
But if you both love eachother it will be ok.
A true love should last no matter what. True love has its ups and downs so if in the end ur still together and so much more in love you know it made it!
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well you should just wait untill he gets back and hope that he does not break up with you and make sure you have a backup plan incase if he does
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I live in a different state then my best friend, and we still managed to be good friends. One summer won't hurt and you will stay together if you are in love. Stay together, when he gets back he will have tons to tell you and you'll have a good new topic to talk about especially how much he missed you. Hope it works out between you too good luck
Daisyswim
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Wwll, do you trust him enough to let him go away for the whole summer w/o seeing you? If so totally stay together.. but if you don't feel like he will be faithful or you won't be faithful then end it ! Hope i could help!
*SjS*
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if you love him that much you should deff. stay together but if you feel maybe you should stay together but really like bf n gf like stay open to other pepl to c wut happens but thats hard because you wont be able to talk to him or anything..
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