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ok well i'm 13 and my boyfriend wants to have sex and i really dont think i'm ready for it.how do i tell him wiht out him thinking i dont like him anymore
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im a fourty year old virgin... im too young stil.. so that means so are you .. so tell him you cant cuz your parents told you not to beacause if you have a baby you will a bad mom and you have no life... i have not had sex and im turned out just fine... wait untill your in menapause!!!!
i hope i helped
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Just say, I'm not ready to do this. You're way too young and you have your whole life ahead of you. You don't wanna end up married at 15 and having kids at 18. Good luck! Hope I helped!
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Ok, hun .. Boys think with there penis. And if.. all he wants is SEX then he is prob gunna break up with you.. Depends on the guy.
Tell him..
Because he doesn't realize that we can get pregnent with or w.o a condom.
If your not ready don't do it and if he doesn't understand.. I would just break up with him..
A tru bf would understand.
*soraa.
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don't tell him.. if he tries to get in your pants just take his hands off and start making out with him instead.. or if he asks tell him the truth just be like i odn't think im ready just yet.. you have to give me a little bit of time ... hope i helped if you need antying else ask
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your dumb. god your dumb. god. your so dumb. god i cant even stop saying how dumb you are.
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First off your too young for sex, both physically and mentally. Tell him you really like him but your not ready for it (which you aren't) and if he truly likes you then he will agree to wait. But if he gets mad at this then that sex is probably all he wants from you. Sad to say that seems to be how the world works these days, which tears me to pieces. So my advice is simply this, let him know how you feel and that you don't feel your ready for it. If he truly likes you he will have no problem with it and wait, but if he gets mad then I think that would be an indication his feelings for you aren't very true and that should be an indication to you to kick him to the curb. Hope this helps!
-Ryan
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well you are too young to be sleeping with him. and if he cant respect your desicion then he aint worthed to be with. there are many other guys other who will respect you.
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Tell him you dont feel ready to have sex.. tell him you want to be older and want to love this person alot alot alot.. and you want to know your not going to get hurt.. and tell him you do like him alot and want to stay with him and that when your ready you'll let him know.. tell him that you hope he respects your decision on what you want to do.. and by the way if he doesnt respect that then you need to get rid of him.. ♥ Dez
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you need to tell him straight out that your not ready and when you say your not ready..if he thinks you mean you dont like him anymore, then hes a total idiot who probably only wanted sex anyway. be strong about it, there is no way to sugar coat it or anything..just say it flat out.."im not ready". if he doesnt accept that..all he wants is sex anyway. so get rid of him if he cant accept that
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If you're not ready, I would say dump him. Its up to you what to do, but if I were you, I would say hes gotta go and ship him out the door. You dont know if hes done it with any other girls and how many- If hes got a disese. And dont even think its not possible, because anythings possible in this messed up world. Dump him.Hes a loser, especially if you just met weeks ago and now he told you that. He may be using you.
Jessica x3
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just say youre not ready. its the easyest way, and its truthful.
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you are only 13 you should not have sex with him! you should tell him and as your boyfriend he should understand! what if you get pregant i mean you will have a abortion then just cuz you wanted to feel something good you would be killing another human being so plz dont have sex with him
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You tell him: I'm 13, I'm not ready to have sex.
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Tell him. Say that you're not ready for sex, you're just too young, and you don't want to compromise your beliefs and values. Assure him that you still like him and have a lot of fun with him, but you want to wait until you're older or have a more concrete relationship for having sex. It sounds kind of like he really doesn't know what a real relationship is or should be based on, but if he does and he loves you he will understand if you're not ready, and that 13 is too young to lose virginity anyways. Tell him to think about it: Does he really want to lose it now, when you guys are (no offense) probably not going to stay together forever? If he still pressures you to have sex even after you explain your reasons for not wanting to, you should end things with him, he's not worth it. Hope this helps, good luck!
Love,
Nevaeh
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tell him that your not ready...tell him you still love him but you really dont want to have sex at the age. your pretty young to have sex anyways so dont take the risk.
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your 13. your boyfriend shouldnt even be thinking about sex. god. just say your not ready, you like him alot but your just not ready to take it to that level yet. 13 is way too young to be having sex. and might i point out... it's illegal too. in most of states you have to be at least 16 in order to have sex. you can be fined for it.
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Just tell him that you aren't ready. If he ACTUALLY likes you, then whether or not you're ready for sex shouldn't change anything.
<b>♥</b> Melissa
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Well just tell him that your not ready for sex. And if he loves you so much he should be able to wait for you to feel ready if not hes not a great boyfriend.
roxie
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Well if you tell him this he should understand if he really loves you and its not just his choice to have sex its also yours and if you dont wanna do it tell him he shouldnt think you dont like him!! Maybe your just not ready yet!! Your only 13!!Ok hope i helped!!*~*MUAH*~*
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Start out by telling him that you really like him, and you want to stay with him. And then tell him that you don't feel ready for sex, and you hope that he can understand that.
I think you're making the right choice, by the way. At thirteen, you're really NOT ready. You have the physical equipment for it, and you could even become pregnant (and that would be more of a disaster than you can imagine), but mentally, you're not ready. Your brain and your body still have a lot of growing left to do, and you'll find that it will be a lot better if you wait until you feel totally ready to have sex.
Don't let him pressure you; if he does, that's a signal that he cares more about sex than about you as a person, and you deserve better than that. You're only going to have one first time, after all! So give it time, until you know that you're ready. And if your boyfriend can't wait, don't worry: the right boy will be out there for you when the time comes.
Honestly, it will be SO MUCH better if you wait for the right time. You have no idea.
One more thing: I have to tell you that when a boy pressures his underage girlfriend to have sex with him, the relationship usually ends before very long. The boy moves on, looking for new girls to add to his score. The truth is, I think that hurts the boys almost as much as the girls; once a boy gets used to treating girls as nothing more than sex objects, they can never really connect with a girl or a woman in a meaningful, adult way.
And that's really sad.
I wish you a wonderful first time (in a few years), and a happy life.
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How long have you been going on? How old is he? But first off... Your only 13... your not even ready to have sex yet... your not even fully developed yet... but.. for your question... If the guy really likes you... Then he will understand... You just need to tell him that you arent ready to have sex yet.... You arent comfortable with it... You'll know when the right time comes... But for now.. Please DONT DONT DONT have sex until your ready.. Because... There are many factors to having sex... not only a good time.. Pregnancy... Diseases... Which there are alot of those now a days... So just tell him that your not ready yet... That its nothing to do with him... That you still like him.. and when you feel the time is right.. You'll let him know...
Hope This Helps.. Good Luck Sweetie..
**Jackie**
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You could be like : "I like you alot, but i dont think i'm ready for this." If hes okay with it then you guys can still go out and you can do it whenever you feel comfortable but if he gets mad or is disapointed then talk to him. If he still is that way then forget about him. He should respect your decision.
Hope i Helped && G0Od luck!
♥ THINKPINK
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