Im 13 and im 200 pounds basicly and everyone hates me even my mom..Because im so overweight..my dad left my mom to go have sex wit another woman cuz theey wanted a "fit" daughter!!!!SO.....then like my mom had sex with another guy she waaas dating..and she took the pregnency test and shes havin triplets!!!!and she said shes givin me up..Cause im overweight..so im at my Grandmas house 4 now on.......so 2 make me happy my mom gave me 2 babys so..i was there NEW MOM!!! I feel like noone cares about me!!!Can you give me some things to say 2 my mom..about just dumping her children on me!!!
modelkate11 answered Monday August 8 2005, 10:34 am: if your mom can't handle the kids herself then tell her to give them up for adoption. a 13 year old is not ready to be a parent (although some of the girls at my school think differently). you haven't had the experience and the knowledge that perenting brings. if your grandma loves you then stay with her.
ganksters4lyfe answered Friday August 5 2005, 8:55 pm: its not your problem... your familie is discusting bitches that need to get lives... im surew your beautiful... if you hav a few extra pounds then its because of them and all the stress they put you through.. geez they have sum big ass poopie up their ass!!
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krh028 answered Thursday August 4 2005, 12:09 pm: Oh my God. why would someone do that? just becuz your overweight. i would be screaming at her. look dont feel bad. i'm a little overweight too and i do everything i can to try to loose weight. and because your mom did that to you, you need to confront her and tell her how you really feel. and there HER children so she needs to take care of them. thats pretty sad if she doesnt like you b/c your overweight. tell her to go take her babies and take care of them by herself. she doesnt need to be a bitch to you just b/c shes just plain mean.
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L_ANGEL answered Tuesday August 2 2005, 7:24 pm: Look it doesnt matter if your over weight, you are still a very nice person.You should tell your mom thats shes a slut and that it doesnt matter if i am 200 ibs or not and that it was wrong that you dumped 2 children on me and you also dumped me on your mother,and you should tell her that if she loved you enough then it wouldn't matter how muched you weigh its the kind of person you are inside.Thats what you should tell your mom.
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afro_timmy answered Tuesday August 2 2005, 3:55 pm: kill your self and then see how much they need you and love you as the babies.. no one has the right to do that to you. you should report her or something. [ afro_timmy's advice column | Ask afro_timmy A Question ]
hottie_blondie answered Tuesday August 2 2005, 2:35 pm: oh my god .. I feel so bad for you. I would be crying my eyes out. How could your parents do that to you. First ... well if your happy at your grandmothers then ok. But i would call the police.. but thats me. Any ways send your mom a letter.. on how much you lover her and how much you miss her. And tell her something .. like im gonna lose weight.. and i hope your happy. and stuff like that. and remind her of the memories you had with her. and tell her i thought you loved me for me. Try to write stuff to make her cry. and tell her that you probley hate me . and stuff like that. im so sorry if i can ever help
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jerryspringer answered Monday August 1 2005, 10:46 pm: hi. if you do not like your mom you can call diface on her . or the police what ever you have around there. becuase she laft her children. and if you want to lose weight so you can laught at her you can jump rope. start at 5 reps of one minutes for one week then ad on more minute aweak. do five reps of one minuets every day. bye if you and to talk im me at wilsonharley75 . please rate me. [ jerryspringer's advice column | Ask jerryspringer A Question ]
rikatree2375 answered Monday August 1 2005, 10:38 pm: First of all, if you're happy with yourself, then so should your family. Try talking to your mom about why the heck she's doing this to you. Tell her it just isn't right legally and morally. I think you should refuse the babies since it sounds like she doesn't want them. Make her pay the consequences. And God will always care about you and love you. So He's always there no matter what you look like!!! If you need some more help or just really need somebody to help you through this my email is e.sherhart@att.net Feel free to leave one in my inbox if you need more advice. I'll pray for ya!!! God bless.
babyemz answered Monday August 1 2005, 10:24 am: You should tell your mom that you love yourself the way you are and what she did to you made you really depressed and you felt like you didnt have someone there to love and hold you.A mother should NEVER do that to her child and the overweight thing, you kno what, so what, everyone is beautiful and it doesnt matter whats on the outside its all inside hunny dont worry and be strong <3 [ babyemz's advice column | Ask babyemz A Question ]
SocialSuicidex3 answered Monday August 1 2005, 7:22 am: You're thirteen and your mom gave you two children. DHS much?
crazy4him answered Monday August 1 2005, 2:40 am: After the mental abuse that you have gotten from your parents would you want those babies to live in that pain? Love them as your own and make your world and theirs a better place. Teach them how to love and respect others. Take and give them the love you never got and waych them give it back to you. It's more love than you could ever imagine. LOL and PRAYERS [ crazy4him's advice column | Ask crazy4him A Question ]
xxjabsbabigrlxx answered Monday August 1 2005, 2:04 am: Id turn her in to department of social services..They will put you guys in a foster home and find you guys parents that will take good care of you.. forget about yourm om, just because your a little over weight doesnt mean she should give you up..she made you and you didnt ask to be on this earth..she brought you into it..an if she doesnt want you theres alot of people that do care an would take you into their homes [ xxjabsbabigrlxx's advice column | Ask xxjabsbabigrlxx A Question ]
oNce2wiceThreetimes answered Monday August 1 2005, 1:05 am: tlak to her about it and tell her that she decided to make love to another man and have triplets but if she only wants one she is a douche bag and scum to give them up and you up sorry but your mom is fucked up...she doesnt deserve someone like you anyways your too good for her looks dont mean shit [ oNce2wiceThreetimes's advice column | Ask oNce2wiceThreetimes A Question ]
x0o-bluuee-x3 answered Sunday July 31 2005, 8:44 pm: Omgsh. I'm so sorrie hun.
You seem like your life isn't going the way that you want it to go.
YOu need to tell your mom that you don't wanna take care of her responceabilities.
Your not the mom. She is. But be nice about it. Don't get mad then make her mad.
cartergirl answered Sunday July 31 2005, 8:21 pm: OMG sweetie, that is kinda mean of them. Someone loves you don't feel that way. You should let your mom know that you don't appreciate the fact that she wants you to take care of her responsibities. It should be something you can do like DSS or something. Well you can e-mail me if you ever need to talk to me skool_girl_08@homail.com [ cartergirl's advice column | Ask cartergirl A Question ]
curliefrie92 answered Sunday July 31 2005, 8:05 pm: omfg!!!! just like go to her and be like.. mommy.. i love yo uso much and well.. if i am your daughter yo ushould love me no matter how i look.... or go on a diet.. or raise the babys.. and be like.. i don't care how they turn out to be.. and anyone who gives up there kids is a motherfucker.. [ curliefrie92's advice column | Ask curliefrie92 A Question ]
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