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alright.. not to gross anyone out, but i have a question. so i'm 15 & sexually active & have been for about half a year. well, me and my boyfriend stopped using condoms but when we dont, i guess you could say i "spit it out", but im not talking about with my mouth. i'm wondering, does anyone know why i do that?

It always comes back out, Your body doesnt keep it in there because its not suppose to stay there..at first it prolly makes that funny noise when you push on your stomach, sooner or later it will stop making the noise but it will still come out.hope i helped

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whats the fastest way to get rid of a white head(like a pimple)

POp it an put toothpaste or face wash or acne cleaner on it over night

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Hey! Me & my friends are making a video of pictures for all the seniors. What are some songs to use in the background for like graduating & just senior stuff?

Friends Forever by vitamin C is a really Good one to use!

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what is a REALLY GOOD face mask so my face is more clearer and causes less pimples? i need one that i can get at a store anywhere and is cheap. if you would tell me where i can get it and how much it is, that'll be awesome!

i use one called true blue and you can find it right at your local walmart for about 5 dollars. it realy helps me.

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well my boyfriend wants to have sex and im only 15 and he is 17 and i wouldnt want my parents to findout and if they did they would KILL ME!! and i dont know what to do bc i have been with him almost 4months and i love him alot! please help me!!!

If you dont want your parents to find out then do it somewhere they wont find out..My opinion though 4 months is not long enough to be together before you have sex..you wanna make sure he will still be with you after you guys have sex..make sure you also feel comfortable with it..dont let him convince you to do it. hope i helped

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My tampon gets stuck ALL the time so I need some good brand names so Im not soo embarassed when I go to the bathroom...HELP PLEASE!!!

beyond, playtex, kotex, pearl girl

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I keep having these sexual fantasies where I'm sexually dominated - the guy hits me or forces me to have sex; mostly, they revolve around rape. These are my most frequent fantasies. I'm a very strong-willed girl in my actual life, and what I can't get is, why is this the most surefire way to turn me on? Would this scare guys? (I've never had a boyfriend). Am I a sadist?

Alot of people have these..its not that you wanna get raped..maybe you are afraid youll get raped..or even when u do have sex..if it turns you on..have him strap you down on the bed..or use hand cuffs.. play it kinky..alot of guys like that kinda stuff

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I'm 13, I've had very oily skin since I was 10 *including the black heads and pimples* I've tried so many products such as clean & clear, noxema, ponds, clearisil, (all those otc products) but nothing works to clear it up. I want to go to the derm. but we have no money for it, there for no money for Proactive either. What should I do, is there anything yall recomend ?

I would recomend St.ives..black head scrub and facial wash..Or even do a facial mask once in awhile..Use the balck head stuff in the mourning an the facial scrub at night..it works for me

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Hey. I was wondering, what is the best way to get highlights done...at a salon or at home using the highlighting kit. How long would it take if I were to get temporary highlights? How long would it last? How long would it take for the highlights to appear on my hair? I have like dark brown hair that looks black (I'm African American), and I was thinking of getting brown or light brown highlights. What do you guys think looks best?

P.S.: If I were to use the home highlighting kit, which is the best one?

If i was you id go to a salon because not all high lighting kits work on dark hair yeah they say they do but they really dont. I would use a light brown..but you know gold would look really good also..think about it. Home higlighteing kit iw ould use herbal essence. if you go to a salon use foils they dont rip your hair like a cap does.

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I just started having my period i've had like 4 or 5. this one month it didn't come.(that whole week i spent it at the beach)is it normal to skip periods when you first have them? please help and no smart ass stuff i'll give 5's!!

Yes its normal..your cycle isnt regular yet..you could have missed peroids all the way up till a year youve had your peroid..Its normal..your body isnt used to your hormones doing this to you..You might get a little spotting within the time before you get your next peroid but its completley normal dont worry about it..and if it bothers you to much..even ask a phacian or take a pregnancy test if youve been active..but i am positive its normal it used to happen to me when i was little

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people say running is a way to lose wieght but can i just walk instead? if not, why cant i?

Yes running and walking does the same thing for you..besides running makes you sweat more and you loose a little more but not that much

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this is gonna be kinda long..sorry but me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a month! and went out last year off and on for a while! but anyways..there was this girl that was suppose to be my "friend" over at my house the past 2 days! she has done nothing but bad mouth my boyfriend and say how he treats me like crap and i always have to tell her to stop and it got to the point we'd start screaming cause id get so mad! well then today she decides that she thinks its ok to sit there and send my boyfriend all these pics of him..and i would think if she was my friend she wouldnt! but i was upset and called my friend well she didnt answer..so she calls me back and was like whyd u sound upset and i told her because that girl was trying to send my bf her pic and i didnt like that! well i guess my "friend" that was hear heard me and got all mad and started cussing at me like crazy! and telling me how she was leaving and how my bf treats me like crap and everything else! so we really got into it then and shes sitting there laughing go just wait im gonna mess up your relationship and make ur life miserable and lie and everything else! i told him about all this but the thing is im so scared that hes gonna believe her..i love him more then n e thing in this world and ive never felt like this before! and i wouldnt lie to him ever again ( ill admit i have in the past but i never would again) this girl is just sayin how shes goin to mess it up and have her friends say stuff to him when i know none of her friends cause they r all like 12-13 cause she got held back twice and i dont even go to the same school as her and im 16! my question is..what do i do about this? i dont wanna lose him and im so scared of it..does anybody have any idea on what i should do? i love him more then anything!!

The most you can do is talk to your boyfriend about this so he knows that you to got in an argument because what she was saying to break you guys up. Then tell him that you think shes gonna try to break you up some other way your just not sure how..Tell him not to listen to her..and if he really trusts you he will believe you..For the friends get rid of them..they cause drama and you dont need that in your life you need friends that are going to support you. IF he doesnt trust you theres no relationship..

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well school is starting up soon and i want to start wearing makeup. i havent worn any makeup before besies mascara. i need some tips on what colors and what i should where to get a natural look. i have dark brown eyes and hair, and semi tan skin. suggestions please?
-thanks

use a green eyeliner for the top or a blue and then use black for the bottom jane is a really good eyeliner...For foundationd id use cover girl

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Hi my friend got her cartillage peirced and it looks realy nice but i was wondering does it matter which ear is peirced? Is it true that depending which ear you peirce it means something?

Will rate high.

Thanks xxx

No it doesnt.. thats just little kids messing around

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is jessica simpson a real blonde??

yea

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hey..
I have kind of a darker brunette color and im looking to dye my hair blonde. i want like a golden blonde.. or like britney spears in her my perogative video. the problem is that my mom said if i go to a pro to do it i have to pay for it myslef. and i really had my heart set on getting some new things for school. So if anyone knows any good brands of "do it yourself" dyes that actually work to dye brunette hair blonde.. id really appreciate it. and please dont say im stupid for wanting to dye my hair blonde.. caz im sick of the same old same old.. and i really need this. So please please give me some good brands that will work! thanks in advance.

Fruitese in carmal its not a blonde but its like a medium blonde..thatd prolly look good..herbel essence is good also..just make sure u trust someone really good to die your hair

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i wanna get my nails done but i dont kno where they do them for cheap and do a good job. Any recomendations?

fashion nails..look around an go to the cheepest one..

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Im 13 and im 200 pounds basicly and everyone hates me even my mom..Because im so overweight..my dad left my mom to go have sex wit another woman cuz theey wanted a "fit" daughter!!!!SO.....then like my mom had sex with another guy she waaas dating..and she took the pregnency test and shes havin triplets!!!!and she said shes givin me up..Cause im overweight..so im at my Grandmas house 4 now on.......so 2 make me happy my mom gave me 2 babys so..i was there NEW MOM!!! I feel like noone cares about me!!!Can you give me some things to say 2 my mom..about just dumping her children on me!!!

Id turn her in to department of social services..They will put you guys in a foster home and find you guys parents that will take good care of you.. forget about yourm om, just because your a little over weight doesnt mean she should give you up..she made you and you didnt ask to be on this earth..she brought you into it..an if she doesnt want you theres alot of people that do care an would take you into their homes

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Hi i am Britney an im 14 i was wondering if my boyfriend fingered me and he had cum on his finger can i get pregnet from that?

nope..only if he cums inside you by the time it is on his finger its allready dead

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what are some really good, smudge proof, long lasting black eyeliners?

and what is a good mascara that you can layer and it gets like clumpy and cakey? i like that look.

and what are some tips for putting eyeliner on tje upper eyelid? i've never done it before.

and one more question, is liquid eyeliner really worth the hassle, and if so could you give me some good ones?

thanks. i rate 5's

I love Jane eyeliners there not sharpening ones no hassle..and easy to use..they dont smudge and they last long. I use mabelline masscara. I wouldnt use liquid eyeliner..theres no reason for it.. When i do my top lid i close my eyes and pull it so i kinda look chinease and then just do a thin line an it comes out good

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