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this is gonna be kinda long..sorry but me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a month! and went out last year off and on for a while! but anyways..there was this girl that was suppose to be my "friend" over at my house the past 2 days! she has done nothing but bad mouth my boyfriend and say how he treats me like crap and i always have to tell her to stop and it got to the point we'd start screaming cause id get so mad! well then today she decides that she thinks its ok to sit there and send my boyfriend all these pics of him..and i would think if she was my friend she wouldnt! but i was upset and called my friend well she didnt answer..so she calls me back and was like whyd u sound upset and i told her because that girl was trying to send my bf her pic and i didnt like that! well i guess my "friend" that was hear heard me and got all mad and started cussing at me like crazy! and telling me how she was leaving and how my bf treats me like crap and everything else! so we really got into it then and shes sitting there laughing go just wait im gonna mess up your relationship and make ur life miserable and lie and everything else! i told him about all this but the thing is im so scared that hes gonna believe her..i love him more then n e thing in this world and ive never felt like this before! and i wouldnt lie to him ever again ( ill admit i have in the past but i never would again) this girl is just sayin how shes goin to mess it up and have her friends say stuff to him when i know none of her friends cause they r all like 12-13 cause she got held back twice and i dont even go to the same school as her and im 16! my question is..what do i do about this? i dont wanna lose him and im so scared of it..does anybody have any idea on what i should do? i love him more then anything!! <3
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The most you can do is talk to your boyfriend about this so he knows that you to got in an argument because what she was saying to break you guys up. Then tell him that you think shes gonna try to break you up some other way your just not sure how..Tell him not to listen to her..and if he really trusts you he will believe you..For the friends get rid of them..they cause drama and you dont need that in your life you need friends that are going to support you. IF he doesnt trust you theres no relationship..
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dude the girls like hanging with 12 year olds....are u really intimidated by that???
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If he cares for you as you do for him then you won't have a problem. You have already told him what they are up to and you'll just have to hope hes smart enough to ignore them. You should to because so long as they are getting you upset they are going to continue their childish behavior. Friends that are going to act this way toward you are not true friends either. Sounds like you need to fire a couple of them. :)
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ok obviously this "friend" is a total biootch and you dont need her anyways. but you should try talking to her and ask her why she would do this. maybe shes just jealous. as for your boyfriend, talk to him to. tell him what you just told me about what she said and stuff and tell him not to believe anything she tells him or w/e. then if he does believe it then he needs to grow up and you deserve better. thats my advice to you, i hope i helped!
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Wow...this girl sounds like a real bitch. The only thing that you really can do is talk to your bf (like you did) and make sure he really understands what's going on. If you two really love each other then I'm sure he will trust you over some random girl he has never met. You could also get together with this girl, and talk to her one on one about what has happened. Tell her you love your bf, and you don't care what she thinks. But be very calm about it, make sure you are getting through to her. Yelling won't do much except piss her off some more. If I were you I wouldn't worry about it to much. Just make sure your bf understands. Hope I helped :)
~*~*~Lauren~*~*~
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you need to go to your boyfriend and tell him this whole story instead of just saying whatever they say dont listen they're lying. because if he doesnt know the story he might think that you really are lying about something and he'll get upset so its best if he knows how it all started. and you need to tell your so called friend that she should back off outta your love life because she has no say in it. and if she really was your friend then she wouldn't of done any of that in the first place
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you need to tell your so called friend thatif he treats you like crap then its your buisness and that she needs to stop trying to ruin your realtionship (sp?) just becauz she jelous just be clear to your boyfriend that anything she or her friends say is not true and to just ingore it
well hope i helped and if you have ne more questions just drop em in my inbox
-kelly
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