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Heyyyy! My name is Samantha. I go by Sam!
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hi. Ive got a boyfriend and i luv him to bits but should i be worried about the age gap? im 15 and he is 12. Do you think its wrong or what?
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well.. it seems sort of rong.. but i dont want to hurt your feelings .. but i have to give advice. Yeah it is kinda rong.. sorry to say. But you can still go out with him if you want.. i mean when your olllldderrr like in your 20s it wont really madder. But you could be friends for a while then date. Or if he likes you and you like him date now!
Hope i helped!
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my friend hooked up with this guy for the first time yesterday...he walked out of the room laughing 5 minutes after they went in and she locked herself in the bathroom...according to the guy...she didnt know how to french so he left her...is there anything i can tell her to make her feel better or any pointes i can give her...ive tried everything, but shes still devistated and i would like to know if theres anything else i can do....thanks!!! (link)
oh. that sucks.....
But .. tell her .. not to cry because. if a man walks away from you then hes not that speical. Alot of people dont know how to french.. its life... umm take her out with a bunch of friends.. like you and your friends plan a Huge fun night and go out .. it should take it off her mind alittle.
Hope i helped

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do u think my ex-boyfriend would get jealuse if I hag out with a guy that likes me and flrits with me in frount of him? (link)
i dont think he would really care... because hes your ex. But if you dumped him he would probley care a little. ..


Hope i helped
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im goin out with sumone right now and have been for 3 months he askes me if im ready to have sex but i have no clue what to say because im scared and at a young age (14) my body feels like its ready but i dont know if i am he says hes ok with whatever my choice is!i want to but i dont know if its the right moment sometimes?what should i do go on with it and deal with everything or forget about it???please i need some advice? (link)
Well.. I answered a questioned like a few days ago sorta like this.. but sorta not. Like this girl and her boy friend where very religous and she had to be married to have sex. So they have dry sex. like with there clothes on having sex. But.. thats not you... if hes ok with whatever you want to do then thats good. Hes not presuring you. Umm i would say that if your ready you can.... but you would probley get pregnet... so.. its what you want your future to be. HAve it .. dont have it. or dry.
I hope i helped...
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i see this every where what does this mean

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its like a heart..



Im 13 and im 200 pounds basicly and everyone hates me even my mom..Because im so overweight..my dad left my mom to go have sex wit another woman cuz theey wanted a "fit" daughter!!!!SO.....then like my mom had sex with another guy she waaas dating..and she took the pregnency test and shes havin triplets!!!!and she said shes givin me up..Cause im overweight..so im at my Grandmas house 4 now on.......so 2 make me happy my mom gave me 2 babys so..i was there NEW MOM!!! I feel like noone cares about me!!!Can you give me some things to say 2 my mom..about just dumping her children on me!!! (link)
oh my god .. I feel so bad for you. I would be crying my eyes out. How could your parents do that to you. First ... well if your happy at your grandmothers then ok. But i would call the police.. but thats me. Any ways send your mom a letter.. on how much you lover her and how much you miss her. And tell her something .. like im gonna lose weight.. and i hope your happy. and stuff like that. and remind her of the memories you had with her. and tell her i thought you loved me for me. Try to write stuff to make her cry. and tell her that you probley hate me . and stuff like that. im so sorry if i can ever help

send me a message and ill give u my real aim sn.. and fornow.. just im

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i hope i helped

godd bless you...

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Sam!


ok this school year is gonna suck because i aint gonna be able to buy that many clothes for school...we are broke and my mom has to buy school clothes for 3 kids so i know its hard for her..and shes a single mom...i was just wondering if yall knew any ways that i could make some money to buy my school clothes...i am only 13 so i cant get a job...please help!!...thanks a lot (link)
.. hmm since you cant get a job... i think i have some ideas. I wont say a lemonade stand .. (laugh out loud) it wouldnt let me type it .. anyways you could have a lemonade stande haha.. or

- a car wash.. wash peoples cars - even wash them with friends
-have a cookie sale ( ha)

Im sooo sorry if i didnt help. I dont really have any ideas.. im sorry

I hope i helped alittle..

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my best friend is moving to new zeland today she is 16 and really does not want to go. Her dad says she is not allowed to come back home to england till she is 18. What rights does she really have and could she come back before she # is 18.

Thanx nicki xxx (link)
omg thats sucks wickkkkeeeedd badddd...

.. i remember when i was younger my best friend valerie moved away.. and like we still went to each other houses because it was like a few towns away... and then a few months later i moved away to antoher state.. but yeah its a long story.. im suppose to be giving you advice
... anyways.. her dad doesnt really have the right to tell her what to do. Well he is her father but still. At least its 2 years not more.. anyways my advice is write letters, email, talk on AIM, and sometimes call each other. Stay in touch as much as you can

Hope i helped
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ok im skinny but i have big and flabby thighs. Does anyone know any GOOD excersise to make your thighs smaller and less flabby?

I rate high!!! (link)
yeah... same with me..

I jump rope alot.. and im a cheeleader.. so i strecch... which is really good.

So i guess those are good things to do..


my friend is coming in to visit from out of state..shes lik a sister to me but im worrie about her and my friends getting along...i just dont want nething dumb to happen bc she wont be here long


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Well.. intruduce them. Dont talk to much about ur old close friend whos coming up.. they will get anoyed. If your friends here... ask a question to her. Make sure its a good question. If its not then just inturupt like soo you guys want to hang out soon. And make sure it the questions never come up. That leads to bad!

If u need more advice.. ask me !!

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Sam


Hey, my best friend wants to have a summer party, before school starts, and we have no idea where to have it. We can't have it at her house, she said it won't work. We don't live by the beach, and we want to have it somewhere where we can be alone with some guys. Please help, we're totally stuck. Thanks.
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hmmm... Well have a party on the beach... and theres hotels. l0l. Or if you dont have a beach near your house. Maybe her or your house has a poOl.

Hope i helped
Have fun with the boyzzz

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Sam


Hi my name is jess my sister was going out with this kid named rob and they just broke. Well until after they broke she found out he was one of those stalker people. Today he broke into my house and my sister and i locked ourselves in my moms room and he kept banging on the door so my sis called the police. Well they came and caught hijm and we didnt press charges but they said if he steps one foot on this property again he will be arrested. i was crying when this happened cause i was afraid he had a weapon. Im really afarid he will do this agin. How can i get over this really scary moment im scared ut of my pants right now?
plz hurry love jess (link)
oh my god. He did.. I hope you and your sister are ok. Well my advice is .. if you have a relitive close by.. go live with them..
for like a week. He wont know. If you have a dog,.. thats really good. Because they bark and stuff.

I hope you and your sister are ok.. I hopefully know you will be safe.
I hope i really helped
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Okay so i have been talking to this girl for a really long time and she wanted to hangout really bad so she came over one night. I flirted with her a lot and we had sex. And i know this girl likes me A LOTT. but the thing is i dont like her at all and i tottaly led her on by having sex with her so how do i make it as easy as i can on her without dating her? (link)
wow.. ummm if u didnt like her why did u have sex..ummmmm tell her you had a good time...

then when she wants to hang out. say your busy

and if she vists you or something

Just dont flirt and have MORE sex.

lol..

I duno if i helped.. I hope I did

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Sam


okay so its summer and im really not in shape anymore. well cheerleading starts august 15th, what do you guys think i can do to get myself back in shape before then becuase the first 2 weeks are all condtioning and those practices are from 9-11 and 12-230..which is a long time and i dont want to be hurting bad after the first day because im so out of shape. any suggestions??..thanks a bunch.. ill rate high! (link)
heyy ... really your doing cheerleading tooo! me too.. mine starts sometime in august...!

Any ways my advice is .. well im trying to gett back in shape to.. here are some ideas
- run around ur neighborhoud
- eat helthy for a week
- excersise/strech...
- practice cart weels/roll overs/ SPLITS!
- even like have fun getting in shape with a friend..
- walk a dog...

that kinda stuff!!!

hope i helped!

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Sam


okay well im 13 and all my friends (they're 13 to) have like huge or big breasts and i feel left out cuz like i only have alittle of them and like i wear a bra n everything but like it still looks like i dont have anything... what can i do?? is there any way to make them grow faster!!>>>well I RAT HIGH FOR GOOD ANSWERS!! MUAHH!

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Lol.. im the same way.. alllLLLL my friends have huge breasts

So i randomly asked my friend haley.. how are your breasts so bigger than mine ...
shes like " Sam.. your like 2 months younger than me!"

" Im like sooo.... Saras are HUGE and shes like 27 days older than me .. my birthdays June 29... then shes like " Eat Corn.. i ate alot and alittle aprooved.."

So0o every night my moms like Sam you must like corn... (hehe*) ... like 2 weeks later nuthing happend.. they got like a littttle bigger..
But all that corn made me very anoyed with corn..

Well my advice is eat a little corn.. .. and if it doesnt work then Wish they get bigger

or in publice stuff ur bra..
i do that sometimes.. like last night hehe* .. i was with a bunch of friends .. lol.. and every ones liike .. oh my god!sam!!!!! wow!

hehe*!

Hope i helped

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Sam




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