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i have a question bout my parens ...... well dealing with them. I am 15 years old. My parents argue a lot and i cant take it. i hate it so much and they dont understand how much sress it causes me. i dont know how to deal. how can i deal with the stress and anger they cause me? please answer as soon as possible. thank you.

Signed,
Stressed and emotional

I usually just tune up my music volume or think of other things. I know the usual fights my parents have and they are nothing too serious.

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okay i am 13 years old...adn there is this guy that i really like and he likes me. the only thing is that hes 2 years older then me...to me it doesnt seem bad or anything but to everyone else it does. everyone keeps telling my that he does drugs and stuff but whne i ask him he says no. and people are telling my that he only wants to go out with me to make out and have oral sex. when i asked him about this hes like i would never make u do anything that you didn't want to. and i said good b.c i would never give you oral sex. and he said fine...
should i go out with him???

please help...thanxx

People could be telling you that stuff because they don't want you to get hurt OR because they just don't want you to go out with him.

Just go on and date him...but also watch out for things your friends have told you about. If they turn out to be false then don't worry about it
only the two of you will know what your relationship and eachother are really like.

it doesnt matter what they say in a jealous game people play! lol sorry about that =)

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Do u think im too young for sex? I WANT TO SOOOOOO BADDDDDDDD! uhhhh..hes 17, but he promises me i wouldnt get pregnant if we used a condom in he took it out before he cummed in me..is that true?

You're asking me (someone you don't know) if you are ready to have sex...and I say no.

Thats my first reason why. Also because you are under age... Do you really want to stress out if you are pregnant or not? Take care of a child 24/7? You're 14, you have a whole life ahead of you. But if you really think you are ready then go for it. For me, I wouldn't mind waiting a couple of more years.

Just remember guys will say +anything+ to get you into bed.

Stay tough & good luck

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i'm a girl, and i'm 16 and i never used to masturbate but i recently discovered it.

however i feel that i'm the only girl that does it and i am embarassed by this fact. do a lot of girls do it? i know no-one will talk about it, and its probably not as common as with guys, but i'd like to think i'm not alone out there. :(

also -- i think i get close to orgasm, but i always stop myself because i'm afraid of making too much noise (i live with my parents) i start to shake and feel a bit "dizzy" does this mean i'm close? should i just go with the flow when this happens?

sorry for all the questions. thanks for all your help.

A lot of girls do it but they don't admit it as much as guys do. I don't know any sites you can go to talk about it tho, sorry. I used to go to a site i think it was called called gurl.com Thats the first time I read someone talk about masterbation lol
Sorry this wasnt much of a help but maybe that site has other links to go to =)

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It really sucks how much my parents love my sister more. They buy her everything, they do everything for her and give her credit for...everything. If we both get 4.0's, my parents will look at me and say...you should work harder, but they can look at my sister and say "Good Job!" My sister has so many clothes that she doesn't never even worn half of what she owns, while I sometimes have to wear the same shirt or pants twice/three times a week. Today, my mom, dad, and sister said they were "Just going out" and would be home soon....3 hourd later I call and where are they? They're at the mall, buying clothes for her and getting her new furniture in her room while I'm doing nothing and being bored. I've tried talking to them about it, but they always say the same thing---we love you guys the same, we treat you guys the same, etc....but how come she gets everything while I'm always left behind?

She's 13 and I'm 14.

What to do?

Since you are the oldest they treat you more like an adult than they do your sister. Your parents probably feel they were too strict on you and want to go easier with your sister because of that, but they dont see that they are going +too+ easy on her.

I think you should try to talk to your parents again...but if that doesn't work try to let them SEE what they are doing

Hope you understood what I meant to say heh
Well I hope things go better for you =)

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I've been really good friends with this kid...Andy...for 5 years. We started having feelings for each other, and during the summer 2 years ago, we started dating. But at the end of the summer, I found out that we were moving, and so I moved to Ohio and he stayed in Michigan. We have really strong feelings for each other...we can't stop thinking about each other and we talk at least once a week on the phone. Whenenver I visit Michigan, we always hook up but of course, it can never last since I live out of state. Last year, he tried dating other people, but it never really worked cause I was the one he wanted. I also tried dating other people, and again, it wasn't the same. Our feelings for each other were just too strong. Lately, I've grown an interest in two guys...and I want to try dating them, but I don't want to hurt Andy. I could start dating other people...but the thing is--and i know how selfish this sounds--that would give Andy permission to date, and i don't want Andy to date other girls because there's a chance that he could feel just as strongly for them as he feels for me.

Things are so complicated--yet they could be so easy--but I'm not willing to let myself lose him. I could just stay with him...but what if we have to keep our relationshiop the way it is now? On the phone and on my few trips to Michigan?

Or if I do date, I could lose him to another girl.

I just love him too much to let him go.

Please help.

"...i don't want Andy to date other girls because there's a chance that he could feel just as strongly for them as he feels for me. "

To me, I think that you are (slowly) moving on... There is a part of you that wants to date other people but want Andy to be there just in case they don't work out. I say tell Andy what you are feeling and date those two guys...You never know what can happen after.

You dont have to do this but it's just what I think =) What ever it IS that you do I wish you the best!

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Im 13 in 7th grade and I want to be in the talent show and I've selected a really good piece---"Un Moto Di Gioia" from Marriage of Figaro. I know that I'm only 13 and all, but I've been singing for a really long time and my voice is plenty mature and operatic to sing this---my choir teacher assigned it to me as a solo last year at choir camp and I did a fine job, so don't give me a lecture on "your-voice-isn't-mature-enough" because it is. The only problem is, what if people, like, make fun of me for singing this in the 7th grade? I mean, everyone else will be doing stuff like rapping and pop like Mariah Carey and it'll just look...weird. Do you think I should lay back or go for it???

Actually, I find that impressive =)
I have friends that do that and I wish I could.

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Okay, this question is for guys only..

I'm 13/f and I am thinking about getting my lip pierced. This may sound dumb but guys do you think having a lip ring is a turn-on or a turn-off? Would you want to kiss a girl if her lip is pierced?? I rate high. Thanks a million!

Don't do it if you just want to make yourself "look hot" for guys. Do it if +you+ like it because some people might think of it as a turn off while others think its a turn on.

Take care =)

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I've been cutting for a while, and i have tried to kill myself before.And its all over a boy whos name is aaron and i think i'n in love with him. And the only time he notices me is when he wants something like sexual and then he goes to another girl when hes done with me and when hes done with the he comes back. And i wanted to know if you knew anything that might help me stop.Because everything i try doesnt work.

This guy isn't worth it... he only uses you and other girls to his pleasure... But that's what I am getting. As said, seek help from a professional. There are also hotlines you can call. I hope the best for you & Good luck =)

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ok my guy friend that i like a lot we are goin to hook up soon but i need to find a way out of the house... he wants to talk to my mom and tell her if she can drop me off at the mall to see him but i am scared to let him talk to her. i know he will make a good impresson but my MOM i am scared she goin to say something mean like usual.. both of my parents think he is my boyfriend and they dont complain about it but i dont know if they will let. my mom thinks boyfriends lead to sex. that is how it was back then and since i am the oldest i got to put up wit it can someone help me out... plz.. thanks!

p.s
my parents r really over protective they wont even let me walk outside the door without them comin after me.

I think it's better to meet your parents than talk on the phone to them. If he still wants to meet your family, just give him a warning of what *might* happen. Good Luck =)

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Does everyone find someone that they love and that loves them?

So they say...
But my great great aunt died "alone" as in...she never married or loved anyone to marry. My grandmother said she was very content, tho'.

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can someone please say what every color bracelet means. i know some colors have to do with sex, others with like anorexia, and others with like cancer and stuff. so can someone just say what all of them mean? thanks a bunch. hopefully this can stop all the jelly bracelet confusion!

Some colors have multiple meanings...


-Ribbions-
Link: http://www.designsbyleigha.com/ribbonmeanings.htm
Aids/Hiv -- Red
Alzheimers -- Purple
Breast Cancer -- Pink
Child Abuse Prevention -- Blue
Colon Cancer -- Blue
Cultural Diversity -- Orange
Diabetes -- Silver/Grey
Domestic Violence -- Blue
Environmental -- Green
Hope -- Yellow
Hunger -- Orange
Leukemia -- Green
Lung Cancer -- Clear
Lupus -- Purple
Military Support -- Yellow
Missing Children -- Green
Mourning -- Black
Organ Donation -- Green
Ovarian Cancer -- Teal
Pancreatic Cancer -- Purple
Patriotism -- Red, White & Blue
Pro Choice -- Light Blue
Prostate Cancer -- Light Blue
Salvation -- White, Gold, Red, Blue, Green, Black & Purple
Substance Abuse -- Red
Suicide Prevention -- Yellow
Victims of Terrorism -- White
Wedding -- White
Youth Courage -- Purple


-Sex Bracelets-
Link: http://www.gaycityusa.com/JellyBracelets.htm
Sex Bracelet Color Codes
Yellow: hugging
Purple: anal sex
Red: sex, coital or oral, lap dance, (alternate meaning: with no condom)
Blue: blow job
Black: sexual intercourse, coital or oral, (alternate meaning: with condom)
Orange: kissing, necking, bare breasts
Green: cunnilingus or outdoor sex
Clear: whatever you want
White: flashing or gay kiss or french kiss
Glow in the Dark: with sex toys
Red & Black: 69
Pink: licking butt or analingus
Silver: fisting
Gold Glitter: make out
brown: toss my salad ie analingus


I still get confused xD I hope this helped a little =)

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Im downloading some music into my IPOD mini and i was just wondering, what are song good songs i can put on it. I like everything except country and techno.i still like dance music tho.. So just gimme some songs people! THanks!

Hmm...Well right now *I* love the old Shakira, The (old) Sneaker Pimps, Bjork, The Dresden Dolls (Girl Anachronism), P+E (everything by P+E but her music is hard to find), Morcheeba, Garbage, and yeah I have more but I'm stopping there =P

*wait* You said songs xD Well right now I am getting into Bjork...
Bjork: Joga, All is Full of Love, Cocoon, Bachelorette, Hyperballad, Hidden Place, It's in Our Hands, & everything in Medulla

Shakira: Inevitable, Ciega Sordamuda, Si Te Vas, No Creo, Octavo Dia, Donde Estan Los Ladrones, Ojos Asi (Sorry for all the Spanish)

Morcheeba: Trigger Hippie, Otherwise, World Looking In

Sneaker Pimps: 6 Underground, Becoming X, Post-modern Sleaze, Loretta Young Silks

Yeah I'm stopping =P I'm not sure if you will like them but hey.

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im a freshman in like two weeks. i want to ask if its really going to be as bad as some people say it is (acedemically & socially)

thanks for the advice!!
x3 dw33bi3

I thought the same when I started high school...but it turned out to be just the same as the first day of middle school... Only people were much more polite =) I think it also depends where the school is located... Oh and some of the seniors try to get a freshmen boy/girlfriend because they're new to the school and don't know what they are like =P

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