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Hey guys i`ts emily on my secound Advice Column my first one i dont know what happened but if u wanna check it out its xD0UBL3xTrUBL3 but im a 13 year old girl i livee in New Yorkk !!!!!!!! i`m in 7th grade my best friend is Alana if u wanna check out her adivce column its Summerr Babx or something if you have any more questions feel free to ask or IM me on THATS LYK HOT x3 ...
Gender: Female
Location: NY babyyy
Occupation: Studentt !!
Age: 13
AIM: THATS LYK HOT x3
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yesterday i ahd a seirous talk with my boyfriend.. im 14 and he just turned 17 and hes pressuring me into having sex and i dont want to... i tried to break up with him but every time he makes me feel so bad i go back out with him for sympathy ... can you suggest a good way to break it for the last time ? and i have one more problem... im in love with his best friend.. him and his best friend arent friends cause of me .. do you think theres a way to have them be friends again, with me being able to be with his friend and not him?
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well if you do not want to have sex with him then just tell him your 14 your still young and you should just tell him im really sorry i`ve thought about this for a long time and i think we should just be friends i dont think its gunna work ... with them becoming friends its a hard thing like he cant force u to have sex with him u cant force them to be friends again respect there decisons and he should respect your`s for anymore ?`s just im me


hey im 13/F me and my best friend got into this huge fight over a boy, who happends to be my ex bf..and now shes going out w/ him we were acting all biotchy to each other and idk what to do (link)

well if your friend new that you still had feelings for him then thats not right. That could mean theres a diff. side of her. But then again u shouldnt be choosing a Boy Friend over a friend. I think you too need to talk and just express your feelings with her but be nice about it understand that you cant make them break up but you can tell her how you feel


everyone calls me prude because i wont make out with my boyfriend. i kiss him alot and i dont think youh have gto makeout with someone to be unprude but idk soo please help me
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well prude is not making out but its not the subject here what your experincing right now is sometihng called peer pressure if your not ready to make out with somone then dont and just dont listen nd if ur BF doesnt respect you for your descion then hes not worth making out with... if you dont have a problem with being prude then be it if its who u are wear it proud.

Good Luck & Best Wishes
Emily


my dad raped me when i was 13 and now im sixteen and know body knows what should i do about it should i just come out and say it or should i keep it too myslef.. he acts totally fine when were around eachother but its so much different for me.what should i do (link)

well its a tough sit. i don`t think you should of held in that big deal for such long of a time rape is a serious thing its a crime but you seem to be a strong person to be able to make it 3 years n have to live with your rapest everyday all you have to do is take it one step father... maybe you should tell somone you realy trust and someone you know will make the right descion

Good Look
Emily


IM 12/F well ive gotton my period like last year and everythings been fine until like last week when i had it the blood was like all chunky and food started to come out ..is this normal? i dont know what to do! helpp me out (link)

well the chucky would just be like a change in your diet or w/e but the food is not normal at all you should def. tell your parents and see a docter it could be serious..

Best Wishes ..
Emily




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