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I've been cutting for a while, and i have tried to kill myself before.And its all over a boy whos name is aaron and i think i'n in love with him. And the only time he notices me is when he wants something like sexual and then he goes to another girl when hes done with me and when hes done with the he comes back. And i wanted to know if you knew anything that might help me stop.Because everything i try doesnt work.
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If you ask me, no guy, especially the kind you're describing, is worth hurting/cutting yourself over. I'm sure when he does notice you, you like the attention, so you can't help it maybe. But he doesn't seem like a very good guy, well maybe as a friend but not more. As for the cutting...wear a rubber band around your wrist and just snap it and breath when you really feel the urge to cut. try to remove all sharp objects too. Hope that helps :-)
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first of all if this guy only likes you for sex then you shouldn't be liking him. try to look for someone else that you might like or just lay off the guys for a while until you get your cutting problem resolved. for that i would say to just hang out with your friends a lot to help keep your mind off of guys. find something you're good at and that you enjoy to keep you occupied. A GUY IS NOTHING TO DIE OVER
I hope you resolve this!
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i used to too, i thought about everything that could happen if i took it too far. how many more people i'd be hurting. and i read stories about people who killed themselves. they dont realize how much it affects so many people. i know 2 people who i was close with that have killed themselves and a few who i wasnt that close with..they all affected me in the same way. so i hope you think about that. when i did, it was also over a boy, but alot more too. i know you dont wanna hear it or believe it but boys really ARENT worth it. if he cant see how much he means to you then he doesnt deserve you. think about this, and if you need anything else drop one in my inbox. hope i helped, keep ur head up. it'll get better
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Tell your parents and get a therapist. Therapy will help you. I'm a former cutter and trust me, therapy helps.
IM me if you need anymore help: fatalxhaerts
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try puttin a rubber band on your wrist. wenevr you want to cut pull the rubber band. it kinda hurts but its better than cutting
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One of my best friends went thru the same exact thing with a guy, your not the only one who has these problems. If i was you I would try and realize that Aaron is just a waste of time, because the way you described him makes him sound like he wants a piece of ass, and cutting is really bad for you, many people die each year from cutting and i dont want you to be next...so try and talk to somebody who can help you with your problem. And you said u think you love him. I would be sure that you really do love him before you go doing something stupid and messing up your life all over some boy!Hope i helped!
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Thats HORRIBLE. That kid doesn't even realize what hes putting you through, which is totally sad. Im sorry to hear this.
I used to cut for about 3 months, for many different reasons. I eventaully stopped once my parents & friends got me some help from a professional pychiatrist. Cutting is a very serious issue, i know its hard to tell someone you do this, because its a shocker, but sweetie.. you need to tell someone whats going on EXACTLY. You need to tell them about this boy, what he does, and get some help for yourself. Because if you dont tell anyone, it will turn into many things worse.
After you get help, find a different boy. Take this dumbass out of the picture, and find yourself a good boy who respects you and loves you. Don't waste your time with this kid, always giving him chances. Because your just letting him win. Its not worth it.
Sorry about your condition. Take care, Hun.
♥ Alli*
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I don't know what you've tried.. but just get the hell over aaron and find a guy that deserves you. Obviosly you're a good person because he wants something from you so another guy will too!
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1 word! Counseling! I used to be the same way that you were. But I used to cut myself over a break up..I didn't go to counseling but I read a book and it really showed how badly suicidal ideas can get. It was Chicken Soup for the Teenage Soul on Tough Stuff.
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This guy isn't worth it... he only uses you and other girls to his pleasure... But that's what I am getting. As said, seek help from a professional. There are also hotlines you can call. I hope the best for you & Good luck =)
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Maybe you should see some kind of professional help for this. If you do that they may be able to give you some kind of medication to help straiten you out a bit. Also it would help alot if you stopped seeing aaron altogether. He is just using you for his own gratification and from what I can tell from your statement, he doesn't care about you at all and only wants to use you for himself. Definately go seek some kind of professional help and maybe check into going to clinics to get better. Also if you havn't considered it, pray to God and ask for help because if you ask he will help you (even if you don't see it at the time). But please check into some kind of professional help for this and hopefully everything will get better for you.
I really hope this advice helps and everything gets better, your in my prayers.
-Ryan
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