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Q: Hi 14/m i am starting to dress scene is it ok to wear a clip on lip ring and a magnetic stud? Or wil i prolly get sh*t for it-how could i make it look like i really have my lip and ear pierced and if i just get them pierced wil it be permant? Thanks 4 any help
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Normally I would say don't try to be someone you're not, but we all go through these types of phases.
Anyways, I honestly think you'll get shit from people if they know it's fake. You could try piercing it yourself? You're parents won't find out as long as you take it out infront of them/or say it's fake. You can always permanently take it out, the hole will close within a day or two, tops. Or you could look into getting a septum piercing. sooooooosceeenne.
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Q: I heard this song called "I still love you" on Vh1....The video shows a typical 70's lady murdering her husband and burying him in her backyard...Its a really cute song...Which group sang it??? Lemme know before i go crazy thinking about it...!!!
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http://youtube.com/watch?v=7b8AQPi-Ils
that's the music video
and I honestly tried all I could to find out the band but couldn't find a single thing. Sorry :(
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Q: im 15/f turning 16 in about a month. i think i have a serious problem, well serious for me hah. so i will think that one kid is like the hottest kid ever, and then once he shows interests me, im turned off completely. like i'll get really excitd for the first couple of days talking with him, but then after that i just get not interestd anymore. this has happened in many occasions before, and it's not like i DONT want a boyfriend, because i do ( i dont fear commitment or anything). it really weird, but like i would feel more comforatble if a guy was just like, hey lets hook up, instead of like, hey lets hang out so we can get to know each other. whats wrong with this?!
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Just so you know, I'm EXACTLY the same way, like, word for word. And as much as I'd like to say I have an answer to why you're like this and why I'm like this, I honestly have no idea. I guess it's somehow the excitement of wanting what you can't have.. Eh, I probably didn't help, haha, but just know that you're not alone
(:
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Q: Hi. You answered my question about if I should trust my boyfriend or not. I'm really thinking about breaking up with him now, because you had a really good point. But, I don't know what i would say. The last (and first) time I broke up with a guy, I didn't even know him, and I still freaked out and cried afterwards. So like, do you have any suggestions on what I should say?
Thanks :]
--Christina
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I can see how it would be hard to confront him about the trust issues, afraid of what kind of reaction he'd give, so you might want to just leave the reason for breaking up with him because of the distance (since he's going to move). Otherwise he might get mad at you and deny that there's a trust problem. So it might be better not to include that cause there wouldn't be as big of an argument between you two. You could reassure him that you really do care about him, but you know that the long distance thing wouldn't work out and it would be best for the both of you. I'm sure if you asked him what he thought of it, deep inside, he would agree (hopefully, depending on what kind of person he is).
If you haven't broken up with him yet, you should probably do it closer to when he's leaving also.
I hope this helped and feel free to ask me anything elsee
-liana (:
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Q: I am a 15 year old female and theres this guy that I've been talking to for a while. Apparently, I like him alot and I know he likes me even though hes too shy to say it. The thing is, my friends are on my case because hes a bit of a dork. Hes not bad looking, but hes not exactly Prince Charming. I want to be his girlfriend, but I'm second guessing it because of the remarks my friends make. What should I do?
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You're the one who would be dating him, not your friends. It's not changing YOU as a person. So you shouldn't care whether they think he's a dork or whatever. All that matters is whether or not YOU think he's a good guy, and if you like him. But you really should talk to your friends about this too, so they'll understand where you're coming from.
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Q: Ok. For starters, I am 14 (15 in a month), and female. I've been with my boyfriend for two months. So, my boyfriend is always kinda, I dunno, flirting maybe? with other girls. Like, they're our friends, but he'll go up behind them and grab their ass, or touch their boobs and stuff. He did this before we went out. But he does it when I'm right there. It really hurts. I'm not the kind to "confront" people. I just keep it to myself (bad, I know) and he wants to have sex. I'm not ready, but when I am, if I am, I'm afraid that he'll use me for it, or cheat on me or something, and I'll regret losing it to him. I'm terrified of that. He's moving in a few weeks, and we'll still be together. But, since he is how he is here, I'm worried about him doing it down there, and really cheating. What do I do?
Thank you so much.
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Okay so first of all he doesn't deserve you. It seems like he's just going to use you for sex and the second he moves he'll either cheat on you, or break up with you. Grabbing your friend's ass and boobs or whatever is disrespecting you as a girlfriend and even though you don't confront anyone, he should know and like you enough to not want to do that to other girls. What I'm getting at is you should break up with him before he leaves.. I really hope I helped in someway. Good luck bby!
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Q: This is terribly hard for me to confess - and its awful - but lately I've been fantasizing about someone close to me dying because that would give my ex-crush a reason to contact me, and comfort me, and for me to get close to him again. It's sooo bad, I know. Especially since I shouldn't even be thinking about him in the first place (he used me for third base) -- and I deinitely do not want anyone to die!! What can I do to stop thinking liking this?? Help me please cause I feel awfully guilty.
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I know exactly what you mean. I've felt that exact same way and it does make me feel different from everyone else, like a bad person. But don't worry, I know for a fact it's a phase. This has nothing to do with your friend dying, so don't feel bad. It's just a way in your mind to get closer to someone else. So you should get over it soon, or until you talk to him. Best of luck (:
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Q: okay well im not fat. i have like some stomach fat though, like when i wear shirts most of the time it doesnt show, its not much but im self concious in the summer when i go swimming and stuff. i cant go to a gym and stuff but what can i do at home to get rid of it
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I have the same thing/ it sucks and it's weird cause I'm considered skinny.
The best and simplest thing would be to do sit-ups everyday. It's a pain, but it targets your lower stomach.
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Q: are these called beanies?
http://community.livejournal.com/madradhair/29977993.html#cutid1
where did you guys get yours? (assuming you have one if not skip this question)
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yeh/ people don't really know what to call them, I guess you could call it a beanie although beanies are usually have tight fits
Yes I do have one (:
I bought a really cute/cheap one from Old Navy.
If you're willing to pay like 30 bucks theres reaally nice ones at Urban Outfitters! (: hope I helped
(oh, and might want to check H&M too)
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Q: I am getting bored of my songs on my ipod. Can you all please give me a list of songs to get. I'm interested in mostly hip-hop/rap (some that i already have- 2 step : unk, The way I are: timbaland, sexyback: justin timberlake etc. etc. etc.) Other than that genre, I like dance/techno (cascada, basshunter) pop (christina aguilera, rihanna) and like slow dance songs (stickwitu : pussycatdolls, so sick: neyo, apologize : timbaland)
so if you know any good songs that fall into those categories... please type them in here! THANKS
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techno:
Fischerspooner-Emerge
Fischerspooner- You're my disco
Justice-We are your friends
ATB- 9pm
ATB- ecstacy
Benny Benassi- Turn me up
DJ INPHINITY- kiss your lips
DJ Sammy- we're in heaven
DJ Tiesto- Love Comes Again
I am X-ray- pretty rave girl
Zombie Nation- Oh oh oh oh
Hip/Hop or Rap:
Nicole Scherzinger- whatever you like
DJ felli fel- Get buck in here
Eve- Tamborine
Lil Wayne- apologize remix
Mike Jones- turning headz
Pitbull- fuego
Pitbull- go girl
Self Scientific- Live n Breathe
TI- I like my beat down low
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Q: i need a free program that is for photo editing. a really good one too. if you know of any please tell me and remember they have to be free and not illegal. also include the website i get it from.
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Picasa is honestly really amazing for a free photo editor, you can download it at google.com if you type in Picasa. Completely free.
I also recommend editing pictures on online websites, for example www.pixenate.com or www.lunapic.com
hope I helped (:
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Q: O.k well what can i say. My "friend" is a bich. she caused my bf to break up with me(long LONG story) and she is such a winey baby.
Like she "hurt" her jaw(don't ask me how) but somehow she "hurt" it. and know she talks with her teeth like tottaly stuck together(i KNOW FOR A FACT that she is faking)she is such an attention junkie. she also flirts with EVERYONE(guys). that's how my bf left me(he was annoyed with her) and she also is abosolutly the MOST ANNOYING person in the WORLD....
You probly think that i am being harsh or mean or that i am somehow possibly jealous of her.....but i am not. she is that way. even my other friends think we should "dump her" as a friend.
WHAT do i do????
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confront her. tell her what you think, but not with anger, like without being mean about it you know? then if she doesn't care and says she won't change, THEN you should dump her. Just tell her you can't take it anymore and being friends would no longer be an option.
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Q: okay lately i learned from a friend that a really close teacher/friend of mine was a lesbian. She hadn't wanted students to know but she confided in teachers and told them not to tell ANYONE! But my friends mom, who works at the school and is a teacher, told her daughters all about it and how she went to her gfs home town to get married to her. Then my friend blabbed it too me. Now im furious and i hate my friends mother for being so unprofesional since i know how that could ruin someones career. But the mother also happens to be my scout leader and i have to see her tommorow. how should i handle this?
* by the way don't bother telling me that my friend had the right to know: its none of their buisness and the teacher has worked there for 18 years.
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It's really nice of you to be concerned for this teacher, nobody should treat her different because of her sexuality. People like your friends mom never seize to disappoint me because what she did really is wrong and like you said, unprofessional. Also, your friend had no right to know either. If this "gossip" begins interfering with that teachers career, then you really should consider confronting the scout leader and/or deciding if you still want to be a scout.. does it mean alot to you? Also, think if there's any greater authority in the school you could talk about this to? Could the principle help in any way if you stay anonymous? You have options, just do what feels right, I know it's hard to be furious with someone older such as a parent.
Hope I helped in some way! (:
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Q: Okay...im going to try to have this make as much sense as possible so there is this guy lets call him kyle =) well today kyle asked me out and he's really cool and sweet and stuff but im not sure if i could ever see him as a b/f...and i dont wanna hurt his feelings either and there is another guy let's call him matt =) well he's a year older than me and goes to a different school but i see him all the time at the park and we hang out and have a good time and he's like always hugging ma and sometimes we'll play tackle football and he'll run towards me making it look like he's gonna tackle me and he'll put his arms around me and his firnds will be like dude tackle her and let go already and he'll be like i dont want to and im going to see him tommorow at a game at his school so yeah but one more problem...there's a 3rd guy let's call him christian my ex-b/f...he broke up with me about a month ago but when he did he still loved me and really cared about me it's just a lot of "stuff" was going on and he didn't wanna drag me into it and he promised me he wouldn't get another g/f but when i was his g/f he wasn't a very good b/f and i'd alaways end up walking to class after brak or lunch crying so idk wut to do? should i wait for christian the guy i still kinda love? matt the sweet funny guys who's always hugging me? or kyle the guy who just asked me out and is really nice and seems to really like me thanx alot and i would appriciate if you would explain who i should pick and why it would help alot thanx!!!! love yvette
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You should go with the guy that would make YOU most happy. After all, it would be your relationship you're dealing with. I would say go with "Matt" for sure. He sounds so sweet, he must really like you and that should be enough for you to pick him. Think if you chose "Christian" or "Kyle".. don't you think you would sortof lose "Matt," he might get jealous and maybe you wouldn't get his hugs anymore? :( Well it's all up to you, I was just giving you my perspective, if I was in your shoes.
Hope I helped and good luck ! (:
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Q: This always happens to me, and im so bad at dealing with it.
Il be hanging out with a guy and a group of people, and well be flirting a little tiny bit but more just talking as friends. Some teasing but thats all. And then later, all the girls go 1 place and the guys go over another place and one of the guys always ends up texting me to see who i like. And i kno the guy i was hanging out with is reading what im gonna say.
And i cant say i like somebody else, because that would hurt him.
I cant say i like the person, because i do but not enough that i want somthing to happen.
And if i say nobody, they keep bugging me about it.
And in person i can laugh and roll my eyes but on text i cant do that. Plz help me!
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Well I would say that if you could txt something playful like, "idk..(:"
I actually think that's the best option if you don't want to say his name
hope i helped (:
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Q: what program to people use to make images such as these:
http://a589.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/107/l_bdae073108f7d33e42ea7293f0122abc.png
http://a646.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/95/l_bdb3c3ca4c024fb2bdbb77bb6f1dce7d.png
http://a139.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/22/l_52b12916ade1e2da3fd231547a9e85f2.png
thank you
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You could make images like that if you buy and learn to use adobe photoshop. the newest version is adobe CS2 and it's reallly good as long as you learn to use it..however these softwares aren't cheap.
hope I helped(:
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Q: okay so
i've been seeing this guy Jacob for about 5 months now .
he lives with his best friend robert.robert and his ex Lucy broke up 2 weeks ago
well Robert is a very jealous person.
Jacob promised robert he wouldnt do anything with lucy. but robert made sure all of his friends didnt do anything with lucy. well jacob and i were kinda official but now we're just like not as serious.
well i know jacobs password for myspace but he thinks i forgot it...anyway, i see a message from lucy saying "i hate how we have to hide our friendship"
he replies
"yah i know it sucks but wait til i move out"
so last week jacob calls me and says, "if anyone calls just say im with you." and i said "okay but why"
he then said, "i'm going to hang out with a few friends and lucy is in the group and i told robert i wouldnt talk to her "
so i was like "okay whatever"
then he texts me the next day @ 6AM saying "goodnight baby.if anyone ask i was with you til 6AM"
so he hasnt called since tuesday so i call him blocked and just see if hes alive
so from tuesday -thursday i call blocked and later on thursday at about 11pm i was with my cousin and he calls and says "i know its you thats calling, give up."
so i denied it and my cousin took the blame.
so friday i was with this my friends cuz they were making fun of jacob and how he got in an accident so i sent jacob a text saying "i'm with my friends right now and the story they're telling me about your last accident is pretty funny"
so like 2 minutes later he calls and bitches at me saying
"how is it funny that i got in an accident"
i told him
"i'm not saying its funny, i'm saying the story i'm listening to is funny, cuz its so different from the one you told me"
well saturday i go on his myspace and read a message to lucy saying
"heyy cutie im at my parents and im just misssin you thinkin that you should be in my arms its like 446 i called you and a older guy answered sayin i had the wrong number i think it was your dad well anyways ill c you on sunday
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I don't think you should confront Jacob because then he may just break it off with you, leaving him with Lucy (still). Which would mean that he hasn't changed. Currently he is just using you, so it doesn't sound like he's a good person/friend at all so you shouldn't care about him losing "trust" in you. You should tell Robert, he deserves to know and will thank you for it. If you were in his shoes, I think you'd want to know that your ex is having a fling with your best back stabbing friend? So all I'm saying is that it would probably be the right thing to do, and even though Robert and Jacob would lose their friendship etc etc he would mostly likely be kicked out.. it's what he deserves until learning his lesson (if he does?). And till then, you shouldn't feel bad, remember that you're doing the right thing by telling Robert.
hope I helped in some way (:
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Q: Hi. okay so i have like kinda dark, well medium brown hair.
i want a shadow box. a shadow box is like the under part of your hair. i want to dye it blonde. are there any non perminite dyes that you know about and like? i dont want it to stay in for too long. like about a week or two. any suggestions? get back to me as soon as you can.
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I'm sorry but the only way for it to be the blonde you want, would be to bleach it (permanent)
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Q: i have thick, wavy hair that is kinda coarse. i currently use a conair straightener and it works great, but it doesn't keep my hair straight for that long. the second i step outside my hair starts to curl & flip out at places.
i am considering either buying the chi turbo ceramic flat iron. does anybody use this and will it keep my hair straight throughout the ENTIRE day? even if it is rainy or humid?
http://www.folica.com/CHI_Ceramic_Fla_d6.html
and if that won't solve my problem what will? do i have to use a good product on my hair? i already use this but it doesn't seem to be working:
http://www.aveda.com/templates/products2/spp.tmpl?CATEGORY_ID=CATEGORY10538&PRODUCT_ID=PROD5835
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it's really not about the product, I've tried tons, and they've never worked they way i'd like them to ideally.. The chi turbo ceramic flat iron is definitely a good one, but i personally reccomend a Hai iron(the skinny kind). Best I've ever used (:
and as for humidity and rain, no flat iron can protect your hair from the wetness of the rain (:, and in humidness, your hair just might get frizzy, but stay traight. I use a product called Enjoi for that. It works pretty well (:
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Q: What are some good ska bands? Ones that, by listening to, i could get the idea of what exactly ska is.
Also, does reel big fish count as ska?
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No Doubt, gwen stefani's old band, is ska (:
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Member Since: August 16, 2006 Answers: 51 Last Update: December 8, 2007 Visitors: 3119
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