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Frog Prince
I am a 15 year old female and theres this guy that I've been talking to for a while. Apparently, I like him alot and I know he likes me even though hes too shy to say it. The thing is, my friends are on my case because hes a bit of a dork. Hes not bad looking, but hes not exactly Prince Charming. I want to be his girlfriend, but I'm second guessing it because of the remarks my friends make. What should I do?
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You're the one who would be dating him, not your friends. It's not changing YOU as a person. So you shouldn't care whether they think he's a dork or whatever. All that matters is whether or not YOU think he's a good guy, and if you like him. But you really should talk to your friends about this too, so they'll understand where you're coming from.
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I don't think you should care THAT much about your friends in this case because he is going to be your bf not theirs.I really think you should go out with him no matter what other people think about and Good Luck
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hello honey,
i have many best friends and they have always stuck with me even though they may not have agreed with my decisions. sometimes friends are right but sometimes they are wrong they think just about themselves just like all people so i would really look at your friends complaints against this guy and if they are in anyway right or on to something then don't but if they have no backing then give the guy a chance but you better know that you like him not that "apparently" you do.
good luck
grandma d
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If you want to go out with them then you should, if your friends are true, then they will support you no matter who you go out with, just remember that. When I fisrt started going out with my boyfriend, all of my friends thought he was a nerd and that he wasn't cute at all, some of them even said that he was a few steps down from people who I have gone out with in the past. I didn't about what they thought. I went out with him anyways, Our 2 month is coming up and my friends think of him as a best friend to all of them, even thought he isn't the cutest guy in the world to them, they learned to look past that and accept him. Hopefully your friends will do the dame for you.
Hope this helps,
AlyssaBT4T
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Who the hell cares what your friends think or if they don't find him attractive.
It's YOUR decision, he would be YOUR boyfriend and he would make YOU happy. Not them.
Don't be afraid about what other people think. That is no way to live. You are your own person who makes your own decisions. You like him, so go for it and forget the comments people will make.
Being shallow is just awful.
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Okay, for one if you really like him then no one should care. For two if they were really your friends they wouldn't care how he looked. For three No one can get in the way of your happiness. Trust me. If you really like him then don't care what your friends think. Your friends are not that great of friends then.
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ignore them. if they are actually your friends, then they will be fine with you two going out. if you like him and he likes you, you two should definiatly go out!
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