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Torn bettween not only 2 but 3 guys...
Okay...im going to try to have this make as much sense as possible so there is this guy lets call him kyle =) well today kyle asked me out and he's really cool and sweet and stuff but im not sure if i could ever see him as a b/f...and i dont wanna hurt his feelings either and there is another guy let's call him matt =) well he's a year older than me and goes to a different school but i see him all the time at the park and we hang out and have a good time and he's like always hugging ma and sometimes we'll play tackle football and he'll run towards me making it look like he's gonna tackle me and he'll put his arms around me and his firnds will be like dude tackle her and let go already and he'll be like i dont want to and im going to see him tommorow at a game at his school so yeah but one more problem...there's a 3rd guy let's call him christian my ex-b/f...he broke up with me about a month ago but when he did he still loved me and really cared about me it's just a lot of "stuff" was going on and he didn't wanna drag me into it and he promised me he wouldn't get another g/f but when i was his g/f he wasn't a very good b/f and i'd alaways end up walking to class after brak or lunch crying so idk wut to do? should i wait for christian the guy i still kinda love? matt the sweet funny guys who's always hugging me? or kyle the guy who just asked me out and is really nice and seems to really like me thanx alot and i would appriciate if you would explain who i should pick and why it would help alot thanx!!!! love yvette
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Hi.
I know it's not my place to say, but if Christian was not a very good bf to you, why would you want to put yourself through that?
If you don't see Kyle as bf potential, then I don't think you should even consider him. If you let it go on longer, you may wind up just hurting him more.
As for Matt, if you do like him and you know that he'll be good to you, then go for it.
Hey, if you do decide to wait Christian, at least make him work for you. Every girl deserves that. (obviously only do it to a certain extent)
Well good luck, either way you will end up doing what you know is best for you. No advice can help you with that.
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You should go with the guy that would make YOU most happy. After all, it would be your relationship you're dealing with. I would say go with "Matt" for sure. He sounds so sweet, he must really like you and that should be enough for you to pick him. Think if you chose "Christian" or "Kyle".. don't you think you would sortof lose "Matt," he might get jealous and maybe you wouldn't get his hugs anymore? :( Well it's all up to you, I was just giving you my perspective, if I was in your shoes.
Hope I helped and good luck ! (:
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ok yvette teh big question is . do you still love
christian with passion liek to the point you would go back to him no matter what... if so then pick him.. As for kyle, what do you like about him besides his charm and kindness and if you cant see yourself with him then just be friends,becuase a realtionship does not work all upon the nice cahrming type if you cant see your self with him. and Matt.... if you really like himand he has more to him than just being funny than give it a go
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first of all,FORGET COMPLETLY abouut your ex,hes past and you need to think of the future.He doesnt love you if he makes you cry llike that all the time and the reason he leaft you is because hes not ready for commitment not because hes going through alot of shit,thats bull man.Second of all...the guy that you just met...needs time to see if you like him so...if your in a rush then the dude that hugs you seems mad sweet,but DOES he like you?you need to put in mind hes not at your skool and what if he dont like you and is a player...and just randomly stops going to that park one day?you need to be sure of that be4 you make a decision....you need to look for the one who loves you not who you love if you dont want to end up heart broken..if you find that the dude that tackels u aint good...then give the new guy a chance(klyle)
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well....it's a toughie. first of all, think of your life. think what you want to do, not what guys want you to do, and think about which one would support you all the way. you need someone that shouldn't make you cry all the time, even though you may have feelings for him. you could have feelings for any guy, but it takes a real one to treat you right. if "matt" seems like the boyfriend type that could make you happy, go for him. don't go for one that says he likes you, but ends up making you emotionally confused. do it for yourself, not them.-
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hun tell the first guy your sorry but you dont want to reuen the friendship and for the 3rd guy, guys never change even if they promise they have or will if he wasnt a good bf then he wont be now the 2nd guy sounds sweet really sweet and sounds like hed be there for you and if you see him all the time that makes it so much better i think from personal expirence you should move on and find new lve with boy #2 good luck i hope this helps. your truly, Goddess
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