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Hey everyone, u can call me KOOLAID.... ima junior at my current school. I love to help people with problems about anything;evn if i cant relate 100% i still would like to give my 2 cent.I tell it like it is b/cuz y should i hold bac if that wont help a person face the truth and let them kno wut they can handle emotional. But EVERYONE feel free to come to me with ANY problem that u have...
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im writing my bf a poem about how much i love him and i will miss him when i move and that i wont forget him but i CANT figure out how to start it!! there is so much i want to say but i cant get it to go nicely when i try and write it out please help me!! (link)
well i wite poems myself.. but eitha u can use this one i wrote or try to get an idea of it..


Last night i slept dreaming
A vision came to me
It was you and I my love
A wondrous sight to see


And in the dream i had my love
I reached and touched your face
I clasped your hand in mine
And felt your woman embrace

I pressed my lips to yours my love
To taste you lips so sweet
You held me for a minute
In this minute that did fleet

I awakened from my dream
With a thought of you that stayed
With me throughout the day
And never did fade


my ex and i have been going on and off. and today he said he loves me. [[we're not going out, we havent been for about 3 weeks]] i think he means it. but i dont know. we were supossed to hang out at the movies wiht my other friend today. and it's always been both of our dreams to makeout with someone in a movie theater. [[ mind you that he brought up the conversation]] i kinda thought he liked me before he told me. but i dont knwo. he says he loves me. and i want to believe him because i think i like him. i wanna make out with him. but 1. i dont know how. i havent kissed anyone in a while. 2. i dont know if he really likes me or not. how can i figure out if he likes me or not before i kiss him. and if i do kiss him. how will i konw if im doing it right? (link)
Step up to the plate n just ask him does he like you..If you dont ask then you will never know.Just come out and ask him b4 you go anywhere that way you can change your mind about going and its less embarrasing.Now about kissing..dont force it just flow with the connnection between you and him. To me there is no right or wrong way to kiss;everybody has there own flow to it and aprroach. Dont be sloppy with kissing him though and forceful. Just be romantic.. hope i was help.. 16 f tx


my boyfriend and i dry hump (have sex with underwear and shorts on) and after i got home i was looking in my vagina kinda and there was this white stuff (cum-ish) and i wiped some of it out...should i be worried? is that a sign of anything? or is it just because i got excited? (link)
yes it is becuase of your hormones and excitment


Last night my boyfriend drove me home, before I left we started making out and then he stopped and said he thought we needed to be more open about "this" and so I asked him what he meant and he just said nevermind. I can't help but wonder what he was talking about. Anyone have any ideas? (link)
my idea is that he was talking about how you feel with having sex with him if u havent already..


I'm 15 and just recently got my period
(Yes, I know I got it pretty late.)
I've only had it about 3 times now, but I HATE it.
I can't stand it. It makes me feel like I can't do anything with it.
Since I don't like pads, I wear tampons, but they're always popping halfway out.
(Which is weird because I'm not using a big size or anything.)
I constantly have to go "adjust" myself and I never
feel like going anywhere because I'm afraid I will leak.

Does anyone have any advice?
Any kind words would be appreciated right now. (link)
i think you should give pads i try but u should get (always)... because they dont show through your clothes... but to make your periods better. try excercising because that reduces the pain.Also drinking a lot of water. 16 /f tx


what are good websites where i can watch videos without getting viruses or having to downlad anything!?

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you can check out
movie6.net
watch-movies.net
i use them but mostly eatch-movies.net


how do i delete the history on google so that when i type something in it doesnt have a huge list of words ive already used in the past??
Thanks:) (link)
when you type something and the list pops up just highlight it and click the key DELETE not backspace.. the buttion should be on your keyboard under the insert key..


my boyfriend's birthday is the 30th.
i have literally no money, so as my present for him, he's going to come over to my house and hang out for a while.
i plan on watching a movie of some sort, but since he's picking it out, i don't know what type it will be.
and i know the type it is will set a mood too.
but the point to all of this is, i want to kiss him (we haven't kissed before.)
i'm more nervous than i should be, and i don't really know how to go about it.
i'm kind of shy (getting a lot better though :] ) and he's a little shy too.
any advice helps at all, thanks.
(: (link)
ok well for starters; sit up under him(like cuddling) and while talking or watching the movie ..if there is a pasue simply go for a kiss.But dont,do it fast just make it slow and romanic since it will be yall first time.Or tell him happy birthday and smile a littl; while looking at him then slowly move your lips towards his like you see them do in the movies and kiss him.. Hope i helped!!!













me and my girlfriend were doing stuff and she gave me a blow job and swallowed most of it but there was some left on the tip of my penis so when i put it back in my pants could it have got on my hand and when i fingered her got her pregnant.

btw there was like a 2 to 3 minutes inbetween me putting it in my pants and then me fingering her (link)
she shouldnt shouldn't becuase when sperm hit the air it dies


when you suck a dick are you acutally supposed to suck it like a lollipop or something?
hahaha sorry this is grose but i wanna know! (link)
yea it is but i suggest you practice with something that is the boy's penis size like a pickle or something.


can your gyno tell your parents any of your information (link)
only if you want them to.. They should aske if you want to keep it confidential with the clinic


I am four months pregnant, and I am not showing yet. I was just wondering when I should start showing. People told me it takes longer to show if it is your first baby. I am about 5'2'' and I weigh about 130. I have looked at many links, so please don't give me any. I just want to know from personal experience or knowledge. Thank you. (link)
Well you should start showing around 3 monnths, but everybody is different because i kno it tok my friend 7 months to start showing, But you should see the doctor and ask them why..Thats the best way!!


I am pregnant and I am trying to predict if my baby is a girl or boy on my own. I have a doctor's appointment to find out on December 20th, but I just want to try and guess. I have a book that is called How To Pick The Sex Of Your Baby, but it is filled with things to do before conceiving to better your chances of male or female. I was just wanting to hear some ways you've heard of to tell (like someone once told me if your belly is low, it's a boy and if it's high, it's a girl). This is just for fun. No links please. (link)
Well i have heard that if you pick another baby up and if the baby starts crynig then your baby is the oppsite sex of the baby your holding. Ex. If you pick up a baby boy and if he starts crying then it is a girl.


I'm 23 and my boyfriend is 26. We've been together for 3 years.

He's always getting text messages from girls. Girls that I've never heard of, that don't live in our town, let alone our state. He watches porn when I go to bed (which I don't really care about, he is male.) He's just really secretive about things. Like when he's on his computer, he won't do anything when I'm around.. but as soon as I go to another room he's typing away. And I'll come back in and he'll close everything he's doing. I always ask him if he loves me and means it, and he always says yes. I just sometimes feel like he isn't being honest or faithful to me. I worry a lot. I feel like maybe this relationship has been a waste of time.

I don't know what to do. Like I want to talk to him about the girls and the text messaging and all, I just don't know how to bring it up to him at all. (link)
16/f/tx
Well i think you should get down to the bottom of it .That doesnt sound like a healthy realationship to me at all.Question him about his odd doings and if he gets mad that you are askings then he's doing something behind your back.Ask to look through those text messages that he gets from those girls.


i jsut downloaded the program that records. i am a songwriter and i do believe that i make great songs. so i want to add music now i have my piano and guitar and i want to play and sing at the same time while recording, basically i want a recording studio right in my house..haha. can someone please tell me another program that can do this and can fix my voice in case i dont like how i sound? also, can someone tell me how i can use audacity becuase i dont understand it. thanks i rate!! (link)
i have that same program ...but just record wutever u want and then click on what you have recorded so it will highlight blu-ish purple. Then go to effects tab and browses through to see what you would liek to enchance to your clip.. Hope i was at least somewhat help but hope it works out

16/f/tx


What are some ways to make you look thinner like right away? Like for example I was told that wearing black makes you look thinner... things like that... if anyone knows, please let me know.. Thanks so much! (link)
Firstly you should wear clothes of the right size.Ill-fitting clothes accentuate your bulges by being tight-at-the-right places.Secondly ,wear dark colour clothes like Black,Maroon,Bottle Green,Navy Blue,Dark Brown,Violet/Indigo and some other dark colours...1) Forget about dressing with very big clothes to hide what you don't like from your body, this only makes you look bigger than you really are.
2) Try no to focus on what you don't like or what you'd like to hide. Better start concentrating on your strengths and what you DO like about yourself. Then think on how you can accentuate those parts, this way you take out the attention from those you don't like, and show what you do.
3) Always try to use vertical lines, they make you taller and slimmer.
4) If you like patterns, try to keep them as small as possible. Big patterns give the opposite effect from the one your looking for.
5) Use a variety of colours, not only black, that's boring and not always the best option.
6)Try wearing layers, that way you can effectively hide your tummy and look good and fashionable.
7) Above all, always dress with what makes you feel confortable. Never wear something you don't like!


Im a 17 year old female and i want to know how can i pleasure my boyfriend without giving head ? (link)
you should give him laps dances or lick on his hot spots to get him all n that mood n feel on him then u coudl give him a hand job fi your not ready for sex...


16/f
Hi. I only like guys who don't drink, smoke, or do drugs, and are nice, smart, and a virgin... but it seems like there are no guys out there at all who fit my description. So I'm just wondering, are there any many guys who are like that? Or are my standards too high? (link)
noo im just the same way but i would like my b/f to have sexual expreience ,but it could be that your looking in all the wrong places. Or that opne guy that u always dont notice seems the be the one you need.


hey. im 15 and want to have sex with my boyfriend i have been going out with for a year. the thing is i have heard it hurts your first time. are there any masturbation techniques or objects i can use to make myself be able to be pleasured? this way, i figure, i wont be as tight and it wont hurt. please none of the " your too young to be having sex" speach. i dont need any of it.
thanks in advance. (link)
well u could have your boyfriend start off by fingering u some time or you could your self..Some sex toys would be great but they proly wont let you buy any but just try to finger your self;start with one finger then maybe add more along the way...hope i helpd a little


Is fastweb.com legit? If not, where can I search for many different, real scholarships all in one place? (link)
you couls try scholarships.com




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