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Lately I've been feeling pretty down. My mom is a nurse and thinks I have anxiety problems and depression. I've seen a psychologist, but that didn't really work, and she recommended I see someone else because I wasn't opening up to her enough.
I was talking to my boyfriend about it the other night, and he said seeing me this upset has made him upset too. He said the last time he had ever felt as upset as he does when he sees me like that was 3 years ago. And then he told me that he cut himself once. I cannot comprehend that. I know people who cut, and adore one of them (I hope I become good friends with her soon, and I hope I can make some sort of difference in her life to make her happier), but I knew she cut before I met her.
I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months, known him for almost 2 years. When he told me that I was just absolutely shocked. He said he doesn't do it anymore, that he only did it one time (but made 4 cuts) and then realized it made him feel worse and that there were too many good things to be that upset. I can't believe that he ever did that, it's so hard for me to believe that it's making me sick. I think about it all the time and the images I get in my head are so disturbing... I know it's in the past, but it really makes me upset.
What can I do? I can't stop thinking about this. =[ (link)
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Also, he keeps trying to downplay it as if it wasn't a big deal. He says what I'm feeling like is a lot worse than how he felt. And he said he did it mostly if not completely for attention, but no one noticed, and that now he would never do it because he has me and his friends to go to. I'm the only one who knows right now though.
I could never ever imagine that he did that, the thought would never have crossed my mind... I can hardly decipher my feelings right now.
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okay depression runs in me family, and i just feel really sad and im never happy or smiling or laughing and nothing makes me happy anymore. it has gotten so bad that i now cut myself, and that is just not me. idk what any symptoms of depression is or anything but i just want to no if i have it. so if you could help in any way that'd be great! thanks in advance. (link)
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Sounds like it probably is, but only a doctor could diagnose you. If you are inflicting self harm, PLEASE get help. It isn't fair to do that to yourself. I hope things get better.
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Okay so on Wednesday (Jan. 30, 2008) I'm getting 5 baby teeth pulled out. My dentist said he was gonna use novicaine (sp?) and laughing gas. I'm so scared! I don't care about the novicaine, but laughing gas?? Is it supposed to put me to sleep? I'm so nervous I feel like I'll freak out as I'm falling asleep! How does it feel? Do you just get drowsy and eventually fall asleep? Does this mean I'll feel no pain when they yank out the 5 teeth? AHH help me! I don't want to be so scared. (link)
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It feels like a legal way of being high. It's nice, I've had it when I had dental work done. Don't worry about it.
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When I was young I hardly had a crush on anyone in my life. I did short of but they were just a fling. I like guys they can be hot and cute and they turn me on but what I don’t understand that I had odd feeling to other women in my past. I always thought of my self being with them I thought it was just a phase but then when I realize I have a crush on my long term friend I know for 8 years from now who is a women made me realize I am bi sexual. It’s odd that it came out that way and I don’t understand it. I told her how I felt about her and she said she is unsure on her sexuality too but doesn’t feel the same way. I am cool with that because I don’t know what I am too. I mean yeah I can say I am bi because I have deep feelings for her but how do I know if I can go down on a girl or guy? I want to be more than friends with her but myself cant realize that I am not ready for something like that…I just have no clue what sexuality i am, so how can you know?
Go out with other people and find out? every time I think of doing that I want it to be with her so how can I not think of that? i want to know how do you know what sexuality you are..so if you are in my shoes please explain how you find out.
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To be honest, I think you should worry less about what your sexuality actually is, and focus more on being happy with a partner, no matter their gender. To me, defining your sexuality when you aren't totally sure is almost like labeling yourself. It doesn't matter what the name of the sexuality is, but if you like this woman and you would be happy with her then you should focus on that (although you said she does not feel the same way right now). I'm sorry if that wasn't what you were looking for... I tried. I hope I helped.
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Well i made cupcake two days in advance o fthe day that they will all be eatened and I can't decide whether which way will keep it mroe fresh and keep the taste so it tastes and looks as good as it did on the first day i made them:
-put them in the fridge
-leave them on the counter (air temperature) in/not in bags.
This is my first time making..any type of cakes so I'm really not sure.
By the way, they have no icing, I'm going to ice them on the day at the last minute.
Thank you! (link)
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If those are your only options, I would say put them in a fridge or in bags. If you leave them out with no bags, bugs could get to them. However, if possible, I have a suggestion that I always use which works great.
A tupperware container (any kind will work) can keep them fresh for at least a few days. I usually use a container for a cake if I make cupcakes, but you can use whatever you want/have available. =]
http://www99.epinions.com/Tupperware_Round_Cake_Taker_Housewares
Hope I helped!
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my grandma told me i was developing a hunched figure the other day, and now im trying to sit straight and trying to catch myself every time i hunch. Is there any way to rpevent this? (link)
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CHIROPRACTORS ARE AMAZING!!! Seriously. I strongly recommend one. You won't realize how uncomfortable your back & posture were before until after you have gone through the treatment. And it prevents worse posture from happening later on.
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Me and my boyfriend are real serious. We been datin for a year and 2 monthes.
Weve had a lot of problems.
Stuff in the beginning wasnt so great.
(stuff went around that he touched another girl... and about around our 9 months i found a note between him and her,talkin bout her sittn on his lap. etc.)
He used to hang out with a lot of people that smoked weed,and did a bunch of other stuff.
Hes always gotten on me for doing that stuff. And he said he wouldnt do it again.
One day his neighbor, and friend asked me if i wanted a puff (of his ciggarette) and i said no. he asked why. and i said because he (my boyfriend) doesnt want me too.) he said why he does it.
i asked my boyfriend about it and he said he stopped along time ago.
he stopped hanging out with a lot of the other people who smoked.
Thats when he started to hang out with his sister and her friends. (her friends smoke ciggarettes & weed & drink.)
well one day we were riding in the car with his sister,her boyfriend, and two other people. well his sisters boyfriend sat in front of us. he startd smokin a ciggarette and handin the pack back and my bofriend shot a look to his sister like "what the f*** is he doin" like he wasnt supposed to that when i was around or something.
so then he asked me if i minded if he smoked one. i said no when i really didnt mean it.
Then he asked me if i wanted a puff. (because he knew i used to smoke.)
Hes been hanging out with his sister and her friends a lot. i think he might be smoking with them.
i dont think hes been telling the truth. but everytime i bring it up and say something to him he says he wouldnt lie to me and hell say ive told you before i dont do that s***.
Then he gets all pissed at me.
but i think its because he feels guilty.
Im not sure if im just overreacting or something.
I dont know what to do.
should i tell him how i feel and risk fighting with him?
any suggestions on what to do??
Thanks in advance. (link)
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I'm just going to say from the way he acts, he is lying. He probably does smoke with them. People tend to get angry when they are found out and they don't want people to think that of them.
Either way of course you have to talk to him. If it means a lot to you then tell him he's going to eventually have a choice between smoking and you.
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okay, so i have sorta a lot of guy friends
and i dont know what them for christmas
some ideas.
PLEASE :[
thanks
btw. 15/f and my friends are my age. (link)
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I have a lot of guy friends and I am the same age as you. Last year for Christmas I got all of them something that kind of represented like an inside joke I had with them. Like, one of them said he HATED this one song, so I made him a whole CD of that song, for 15 tracks. He thought it was funny. But I got them "real" gifts too so it wasn't all joke-ish. Hopefully that gives you an idea or two!
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you know the compare people on facebook? i'm confused with the whole vote and win thing and the percentages at the end. could someone please explain to me how it works? thanks! (link)
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The vote part is how many times you were one of the 2 people who were being compared. The win part is how many times, of those possible votes, the person chose you as the winner. The percentage is just the percent you won out of all of the possible times you could have won (wins divided by votes).
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alright so. there's this guy, hes a good friend, &can get pretty sexual too. like with questions &what not. i like it though, so its cool. then randomly he was like you know what, you should send pictures. &i was like totally cool with it. &i sent a few, i had cloths on. like some were in a t shirt &thong &stuff. then he was like you should do bra &thong. or hed tell me exactly what to wear, what to do. &i like it, alot. then after a while, he was like these are so hot &i do stuff with them. so i was like whats the problem? hes like im really afraid im gonna get addicted. im like dont worry about it. its cool. hes like if your sure, we can break. im like alright. then i wind up all but giving him a hand job in class!! then later he was like that felt so good, i was so hard i just wanted you to jack me off. &we started again, picture wise. we text ALL the time, like i think the record is like 11 straight. &its not like hes using me, hes so sweet. like hell ask me how everything is, or when i have my period, hell ask how its going if he can do anything to help. &i dont know. like last night i sent him 4. it went from sports bra &booty shorts to like a thong with my hand in my underwear &then down to a thong &no bra, but with me covering &i dont know. then he was like the hottest thing ever would be a pleasured look on your face, hand in pants, bra or no bra &attached you moaning. i was like that is pretty hot. but idk what to do. i mean i kind of like him. &its not like im a whore because i dont do it with any other guys, &noone knows were doing it &neither of us have relationships.
so, from guy/girl point of view. what should i do? is this wrong? and advice is appreciated! :) (link)
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A reason I would be worried is I think that whoever pays for the phone bill (possibly your parents?) can get copies of text messages. I THINK. But yeah I don't know about the rest of it, haha sorry.
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