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okay i am 13 years old...adn there is this guy that i really like and he likes me. the only thing is that hes 2 years older then me...to me it doesnt seem bad or anything but to everyone else it does. everyone keeps telling my that he does drugs and stuff but whne i ask him he says no. and people are telling my that he only wants to go out with me to make out and have oral sex. when i asked him about this hes like i would never make u do anything that you didn't want to. and i said good b.c i would never give you oral sex. and he said fine...
should i go out with him???
please help...thanxx
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YEA... got for it as long as you make good choices with it him. Don't fall in love and have sex b/c you THINK your in love..okay! hope i helped!!
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People could be telling you that stuff because they don't want you to get hurt OR because they just don't want you to go out with him.
Just go on and date him...but also watch out for things your friends have told you about. If they turn out to be false then don't worry about it
only the two of you will know what your relationship and eachother are really like.
it doesnt matter what they say in a jealous game people play! lol sorry about that =)
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yeah you should go out with him he seem's like a good guy and its no big deal for him being 2 years older than you its normal to go out with older guys and you know he isnt gunna make you do anythin and he told you he doesnt do drugs so trust him and go for it and see what happens ..
hope i helped ..
x3 brooke
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1.The age difference really is no biggie, so don't worry bout that.
2. If you like the guy, and he likes you, trust him. Give it a shot, go out with him!
3. If it doesn't work out, break up with him, and try again.
4. But never let him take advantage of you. Make sure YOU are in control of what YOU do. Don't let him pressure you into something YOU DONT want to do. Because it's YOUR choice.
Making sense?
---Hope it helped---
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First of all, I think that the two year age diffrence is fine. Second of all, I definitely think you should give it a tyr but also be on guard. If tries anyting with you then you should immediately remind him that that's not what you signed on for. He seems pretty genuine to me because all the guys I know would have said "Nevermind!" after you said you wouldn't give him oral so maybe you should give him a try but don't be nieve about it!
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As long as you're going to stick to your resolve NOT to give him oral sex you should be okay. You seem like a pretty smart girl and you have to promise yourself to walk away if he DOES start to pressure you into doing something you're not comfortable with. Sometimes rumours are just rumours, but if people like his close friends warn you that he is doing drugs then they might be worth listening to.
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well i guess asking him is not working because everything he is saying is it's not true.
you never know, he could be lying to you.
and maybe the people that are saying all that are right.
or it just could be the other way around.
idk. what do you think tho? do you think he does drugs n shit?
when you asked him did it look like that he was lying ;; trying to make up a lie?
think about it. if PEOPLE[S] are saying he does and only he is saying that he doesn't then he probably does.
but anyways it's yur choise. i wouldn't go out w. him but yeah it's yur choise babe
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As long as you (& him) know your personal boundaries. If your willing to go out with somebody despite all of the horrible things people are saying about their charactar and choices, then you need to make sure you dont forget about your own limits. The second he tries to convince you to do something you dont want to do you need to leave him. It may seem like he's being nice about it, and not pushing you. But trust me, guys have a way of convincing with out pushing. Thats great that you've set your limits. Most girls your age try to score older guys without realizing that they have different views on sexual activities than guys closer to your age do. Everything comes at them so fast, and their having sex in no time. Just keep that wall up. If you dont want to give him head. DONT. never let any guy make you feel like you need to do something you dont want to do.
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I wouldn't... do what you want, but because of rumors about a bad reputation (people dont usually pick a random person to make stuff up like that about them) I would kind of be scared? Im 13 too, and if a 15 year old wanted to go out with me just to makeout and that other thing i would kind of keep space between him.. =/
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If you like this guy and think he's telling the truth to you then go for it. Dont listen to what others say, he could actually be a nice guy. And, if he isnt, and wants to have oral sex then I suggest you get out of the relationship immediatly. Dont always listen to what people think, if you think something, dont let others change your mind for you. You could probably tell if he was on drugs. Such as if his eyes were red and if he seemed out of it. Good Luck and be careful.
-Brina
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First off - get to know him.
And don't listen to other people.
Remember - Age is NOTHING but a number.
So, don't really worry about it too much.
Date who you want.
Why should other people care.
YOU have to date him, NOT them.
Tell them to get over it, they can't control you.
Or make your decisions.
&TiNA;
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For one thing this guy wouldn`t admitt to you he does drugs.. And another don`t believe what other people say.. Find out for yourself.. Start out as friends so you can get to know him.. I wouldn`t jump into a relationship with somebody you hardly know sweetie.. Age isn`t a problem or bad in my opinion..
♥Dez
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