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FRIEND IN TROUBLE
my friend hooked up with this guy for the first time yesterday...he walked out of the room laughing 5 minutes after they went in and she locked herself in the bathroom...according to the guy...she didnt know how to french so he left her...is there anything i can tell her to make her feel better or any pointes i can give her...ive tried everything, but shes still devistated and i would like to know if theres anything else i can do....thanks!!!
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Just tell her that the guy smells like ass, and he wasn't good enough for her anyway. Talk him down, and tell her that she's an awesome person. I don't know what her kissing problem was, so I can't really give any pointers... but if I were you, I'd just make sure your friend knows she's awesome in EVERY respect -- and who cares if the ass-smelling guy liked her, anyway?
♥ Hope I helped.
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oh. that sucks.....
But .. tell her .. not to cry because. if a man walks away from you then hes not that speical. Alot of people dont know how to french.. its life... umm take her out with a bunch of friends.. like you and your friends plan a Huge fun night and go out .. it should take it off her mind alittle.
Hope i helped
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i know you wanna help and all which is really cool..but if that happened to me and my friend offered some pointers, i dont know if i would like that..i would just want my friend to comfort me and stuff because thats really embarassing. if your friend wants some pointers, she can ask you. just tell her how much of an ass that guy was and he doesnt desserve her..all that kind of stuff. offer her a shoulder to cry on and tell her your here if she wants to talk.
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The guys a jerk if he would do that! Not only is that mean, but that's embarassing, and it hurt her feelings. Talk to him and get him to apologize. Other than that, give her some pointers, but there's really not much more that you can do. Give her time to get over it then find her a new and NICER guy!
<b>♥</b> Melissa
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well i think you should put your self in her shoes. how would you feel if a guy left u for not knowing how to kiss? dat might help a little. but tell her dat guy is a jerk and there are many other guys out there much better then him. y dunt you try to find a nice guy for her she might like dat. i think just talk to her n listen n shell get better. i hope i helped a little.
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Kill the guy because he's an asshole, then tell your friend that it's okay, everyone has a hard first time.
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tell her the guy doesent like her for who she is just her looks, why would anyone want to make out after like dating for 5 mins, not even dating.that guy must be a freak
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First, tell your friend what an absolute scumbag that dude was. Tell her not to feel back because she has no reason to be. So what if she can't do that? It shouldn't matter. She should know that the guy she just hooked up with is a asshole. He doesn't care for her and he really only wanted to get with her for the wrong reasons. Just keep letting her know that. Tell her she deserves alot better (because you know what, she does) and be a friend to her. Hope this helps and she gets better.
-Ryan
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If the guy ditched her for not being a great kisser..hes a dick and she deserves WAY better.
He must be a shallow SOB and tell her hes not worth her worries or tears.!!
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Best of luck!!
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omg what a jerk tell her that hes not even worth it if he treats your friend that, thats really mean and low and that shouldnt even bother him if he really liked her hopefully that works! hope i helped
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Tell her to be glad she found out he was an ass before she had invested any more time on him. At least she wasn't months into a relationship before finding out.
That's actually a pretty good way to weed out the tards and time wasters.
Tell her she didn't do anything wrong at all. She should rejoice and hope that ALL of the idiots she ever comes across reveal their true natures so easily!
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Well, obviously the guy was no good in the first place. Who would honestly laugh at someone and not even give them a chance just because they didn't know how to french kiss? All he was in for was a little kiss and maybe more. He just wanted someone to use. A real guy would care more about the girl's personality.
If your friend wants to read more about kissing she can check out my advice column and look it up under "FAQ".
Good luck!
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tell her that hes a complete jackass and that she shouldn't be wasting her time over someone if he can't respect how she kisses, she was probably just nervous anyways, tell her she deserves so much better, he only needed her for one thing and he was trying to make himself cool by making her look bad. Hope i helped!! a
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Any guy who would dump a girl over something like that was only after one thing and that makes him so not worth her time. Just tell her that and that she can do much better.
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