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heyness my names Regina im 17 and i live in VA i love jus helping people out and giving advice...soo lol ask me anything and i'll try my best to help!

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I have two best friends and now everything is changing between us. We all three have boyfriends. Amy is always like her boyfriend and I never get to hang out with her anymore and when we actually do get to talk it's always about her boyfriend. Andrea, my other best friend is not as bad its just I dont want to lose them. My boyfriend seems to be not interested in me or something. He never calls me to hang out and then always has an excuse. He would rather play videeo games, or cheat on me I guess. (he is known for cheating). But I dont know what to do because if I break up with him then I will be by myself at school with no one to talk to because my friends will be with there boyfriends.

i think you should break up with him if hes like that...you shouldnt stay with him if your only reason is that your worried who youre gonna talk to...make new friends and talk to new people...and your friends will be there for you and will still talk to you if they're good friends but dont stay with him if thats the only reason why...

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hey i was just wondering what part of virginia youre from. i just met someone new this year and hes from virginia. i thought maybe youd know him haha hes from manassas. and i wanted to know if maybe you knew how long it would take to drive from mass to virginia? thanks :]

manassas is in virginia...where in virginia are you comming from

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what does it mean when a guy offers to let you wear his jacket?

aw thats sweet lol...
he might be thinkin bout you as more than a friend but its not somthin as big as kissin you or anything...he might just be trying to be nice...unless you can tell he does kinda like you by other stuff he does...but other than that its no biggie...observe on the other sweet stuff he does ffor you if any cause he might be tryin to tell you somthing...ya never know lol...hope i helped! xoxo

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This is long, so I'm sorry for that. With that being said, let me tell you the story.

So, about 2.5 - 3 weeks ago, I met this guy. His name is Matt, and he's really sweet. He's 18. Well, I'm 15. Anyways, we slept over at my friend's house across the street, and we cuddled all night, and even slept in the same bed with each other. There was no sex included, I'm a virgin, and I wish to wait til it's with someone I love. Well, it was nice, and he said he liked me. We kissed, and I liked him too. So, since then we've been talking on the phone everyday, and recently hung out at the mall the other day. Things were weird, but he kissed me there too. Then, a few days after we hung out, his ex girlfriend Jamie messages me on MySpace asking if I had done anything with him, so I asked if they were together, and she said "Sorta." Well, I didn't know who to believe about the situation, so I asked my friend Joey, who is Matt's best friend. Joey told me she was lying. Then I later found out that her & Matt were back together. I was really upset because he said he was thinking about asking me out, and he thought I was pretty, and he liked me. Well, during the time that we talked, he'd blow me off, and lie to me. It made me mad, but I figured "What the hell, you're not his girlfriend, don't let it bother you so much." The only reaosn we didn't end up together was because he said he didn't want a girlfriend. Which is retarded, because he's now back with his ex. I don't get why they're together because if it didn't work the first time, it's not gonna work this time either.

Anyways, after they started going out, I threw my fits of cries/screams. And then I went for a walk while talking on the phone with one of my friends, because he knows how to calm me down & make me feel better. Well, I got home from my walk, and I found out that Matt only liked me because I had a nice ass & he thought he could get into my pants easily. And he said my chest was the size of Hong Kong. So, he pretty much used me for sex, since he wasn't getting any from Jamie, since they were not together.

Well, he's coming over to my friend's house today, and I'll be over there, and I'm just wondering what I should do? I have this gut feeling that he's gonna look at me, and that I'm gonna cry, and my feelings are never wrong. I know he probably isn't worth my time, but for someone who's hurt me so much, I really really like him.

So, my question is, should I back off & give him space to be with his girlfriend, or do I get to know him better & see what happens. Is he even worth my time? I really need to know, because I won't be able to do anything before I know.

Thanks for your time! ♥

girl he is def. not worth your time...i mean think of it...he jus did all that cause he thought he could get some...it may be hard for you to get over him but you gotta realize that what he did wasnt exactly right...you can get a better guy than that dont go round chasin this one guy thats not even worth it...good luck hun nd hope i helped!

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ok so me and this guy are bf and gf and it's only been like a week right. well he is amazing, like he treats me so good and it's like woah, calls me every night, walks me to class holding my hand yadda yadda yadda haha. well i heard from his ex gf from like 2 years ago and she was saying how mean and horrible he was and to not make the same mistake that she did. but everybody else that i talk to that knows him says the complete opposite. but i'm worried that since we haven't been going out long that i just haven't see who he really is...what could possibly be going on?

we're both 17 if that helps

yeahh definitley dONt listen to her...she prolly just doesnt want you two together and she could still have a lil thing for him...
besides it was 2 years ago when they went out...if what shes sayin did actually happen he might be different now so i say just give him a chance you never know what'll happen ;)...hope i helped hun!...

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I'm in 8th grade and we get A LOT of homework. i hardly ever have time to do it, cause i want good grades but i also want to have fun and not always be a book worm. anyone have any time savers or different ways to do homework? thanks!

balance your time between homework and having fun...i suggest you get all your work done before going out so that later you dont gotta worry about it...or if its on the weekend, what i do is i start it on friday then when sunday comes around finish it first thing so that your not up all night doing it...manage your time between homework and fun and you should be fine...hope i helped!

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what are sum good rap songs??? that you can play at parties

o0o these are good...

its goin down - young joc
i know you see it - young joc
shoulder lean - young dro
side 2 side - three 6 mafia
gettin some head - shawnna
concieted - remy ma
give it up to me - sean paul feat. keyshia cole
snap your fingers - lil jon
bossy (remix) - kelis
mic check (remix) - juelz santana
make it work for ya - juelz santana
holla @ me baby - dj khaled
suck it or not - cam'ron
wet wipes - cam'ron
i love my chick - busta rhymes
ugly - bubba sparxxx
spit ya game - biggie
murda murda - juelz santana
rdin rims - dem franchize boys

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whats the name of the song on "the simple life" the one that goes "miss hilton you must be worth a trillion bucks. get the feeling that you dont really give a F***." and who sings it?

The Penfifteen Club

"Hey Miss Hilton" =]

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So theres this guuy, lets call him "rick".(( we are both 13)so he always does this thing with me where he will start flirting like he likes me, then when i start liking him, he ignores me completley like he doesnt care anymore. well anyways this has happened about 3 times already. hes not even going to my school next year, so i was trying to forget about him. then he just starts texting me like saying "hey sexy" and stuff like tht. then i flirt back and after awhile its like he gets bored or somthing and just stops tlking without saying anything at all. i have no idea whats up. its like one day he likes me, the next he doesnt even care. i have no idea what to do. what happens if he does it again? should i flirt back or just ignore him? and im afraid to ask him upfront cuz i dont wanna like make it seem like i care too much or turn it into a big deal. what do i do!?!?!

oh lord...boys at 13...ah...
but yeah anyways lol...okay its either hes just messin with your head or hes playing hard-to-get... whatever you do dont flirt back...dont act interested at all...if he wants you to flirt with him he'll start it...if you stop flirting with him and you see that hes not trying to flirt back then he was just playing with your head from the beginning...good luck hun hope i helped! =]

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15/f -- me and this guy ["jack"] have been friends for about 4 months and lately weve both started to "like" each other more and he's been wantin to ask me out for awhile [he told me so himself] but he knew that although i liked him too, i was really enjoying the single life and wasnt ready to be in another relationship. his brother was talkin to me a lil while back and said that if/when i decided i was ready to go out with jack, i could let him kno and then he'd tell jack he should ask me out. but i wanna put a spin on things and just ask him myself. the prob is, i dont kno how. ive never asked anyone out before. we only get to see each other about once a week cuz he works almost every day and stuff but we talk on the phone every night. so i was wondering should i ask him on the phone like tonight or wait till this weekend when i see him in person? and what would be a good way to do it? like when he says i love you, should i say something like .. i love you too, wanna make it official? or something like that? i wanna make it good but not complicated you kno? :]

definitley ask him out in person...its just better that way...if you ask a person out on the phone or computer or something like that it might give the other the wrong impression like they might think you dont want a serious relationship...and try to see him more than just once a week it could help...yeah and let him know you love him too...aw good luck hun =] hope i helped...

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I have a lot of friends. But I have fights with a lot of them a lot. They don't have a lot of fights with their other friends. I know how to be a friend but still... I am not acting like a good friend and I really need help on that. Also how can I make people like me so I can make more friends? The other thing is how can I determine who is really my true friend and who is not? Please help!

why do you always get in fights?...think about it...is it somthing really worth getting mad over?...it might not be...before you start getting mad and fighting think about the outcome of the fight...will it solve anything or will it just make everything worse?...i know thats not always easy to do but now since you think that its been happening too much maybe you should start thinking about it...if you lessen on the fights maybe more people will start to like you...and on trying to figure out who your real friends are...think of the ones who've been by your side and try to help the situation whenever you fight...the ones who take you for who you are no matter what happens they'll always be by your side...hope i helped and good luck!

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My lips are really chapped and I'm using the jar of Carmex with the yellow lid. I've used it a lot and left it on, but everytime it wares off my lips start to peel and I'm tempted to bite them again and get them chapped. Should I leave the peeling skin alone? Any additional advice would be wonderful.

use vaseline...that stuff really works trust me

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do you know anything about foreign exchange students? i think i might want to be one but i need to know more about it! if you have anything please answer this question! anything will help! sorry i don't know wat category this goes under!

ooo i dont know anything about foreign exchange students....lol sorry....try looking it up or ask someone that knows of one that you could talk to...thats cool though good luck!

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16/f
i dont know how to cope with the loss of this guy who i almost could have said i loved. hes not dead but he might as well be. he doesnt treat me how he used to, infact we dont talk at all really anymore. i know he doesnt have any feelings for me anymore but that doesnt mean i still dont have them for him. no one has ever made me feel the way he did. i dont want him back though because it wouldnt be the same. i just want to get over him. i try but it always fails. i dont want to hang out with my friends and when i do i always think about him and when im on the raod to a softball tourny, all i can think about is him and im always depressed.im never happy or excited for anything anymore.
anyone have any ideas on how to get him out of my mind for good?
thank you much
xo

omg that must be so hard for you...ive gone through something like this myself...i think you should start seeing other guys and once you find a guy you like and who will treat you right youll totally forget about this jerk...dont waste your time thinking about him constantly especially when youre with your friends...dont let him ruin your fun like that...i know its soo very hard but later on you'll just regret it...hes a waste of time...
find better, nicer, guy and he'll dissapear from your thoughts...hope i helped hun...good luck!

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So a while ago, a few years now, I really liked this guy and I was sure that he liked me. We saw very little of each other through these past few years (we went to different schools). But I always saw him at camp. Now, I see him everyday for like 2 hours but we haven't really talked in a long time. And for some reason, I really like him. I don't know why. I am completely honest with my boyfriend (well, now ex) and so one night, I just told him. And because we are best friends and have dated on and off for a while, he told me to go for it, even if that just means just talking to this kid.
So ok. 1 question cuz i know this is getting long. How do you think I should talk to him--- like randomally go up and talk to him? and how will i know if he still likes me?!

randomlly going up to him would work...if you can think of somthing to talk about...dont stress over what you want to say just start off with a "hey hows it goin" or "hey havnt talked in a while?..." and just see how the conversation goes from there...if he wants to talk to you he'll come up with somthing to say too but dont let him do all the talking...if you "plan" what you want to say to this guy you'll probably forget all about it once you guys acutally start talking so dont think about it that much just see how it goes dont think just do. lol hope i helppped

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ive been friends with lisa sinc freshman year. she moved lasts umemr but we were together like everyday last summer. we chilled a couple times over the year but still remained close. she started going out with this kid. he seemed really nice but he was really creepy. he hit on me and christina (lisas bestfriends) multiple times. hes over in texas right now for training and hes just such an asshole to her, i know he must be nervous but hes so mean. hes parranoid and always calls her names and assumes shes cheating but she doesnt even give any hints that she is. he called my phone over 9 times one night and i didnt answer cuz i dont want to deal with him shit to her. he left a voice mail saying mean stuff about lisa. first off.. no one messes with my friends. they broke up but now shes like talking to him and it just pisses me off. i cant talk to her if she talks to him, he was trying to send me mean messages on myspace, he called me fuckin fat and that hurts, even tho i know im not its still annoying. what can i do, i dont want her to have anything to do with him. oh yeah he told her he had a gf wen they were goin out and she replied"i never even cheated on u " and he goes i was kidden i justw anted to try to get it out of u. i hate him like all her friends hate him

okay so basically...hes a jerk....
why does she even deal with him?! thats so confusing usually girls would just leave'em and like never talk to them again...tell her what you dont like about him and how much its bothering you and everybody else...introduce her to better guys ones that'll acutally treat her right...and respect her friends...nobody deserves to be treated that way especially if she didnt even do anything wrong...hope i helped

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So there is this girl. I've seen her at this resturant for the past 2 years but never said a word to her because i'm so shy. We had a picnic this weekend and my mom's friends daughter came and with her was this girl.After the picnic I was told that she thought I was cute and such a nice person. So I was invited back to the apartment the next day of these 2 girls. We watched 2 movies and ate dinner othing big. So when I got home I text the girls friend and asked if this girl even likes me or what. I got in reply She does but wants nothing serious. How do I go about that? Do I still try to become close and hope more happens or what? Any help is thankful.

still hang out with her and like still talk and stuff dont like backout or anything...when she told you she liked you but nothing serious or anything i think it might be because she doesnt know you well enough yet to think anything else...
when you guys get to know each other a little more maybe then will she start thinking about somthing serious...but for now i think you guys should just get to know each other and be friends since you guys just met

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okay..so there's this guy that i've sorta always liked..and we dated at this beginning of this year but we broke up after like two weeks..and he told me a few days ago that he likes me and he wants me to ask him out or something cause he'll have more respect for me..anyways i really dont wanna get hurt like i did last time and i want something that's going to last..and he says that he's tired of being single and he wants a relationship..but i dont know if i should believe him or not. so what do you think i should do?

why did you guys break up in the first place??
it depends on what happened the first time and if its somthing that he did then i dont think you should consider getting back with him if it hurt you too much...unless its somthing that you know he wont do again....and the whole thing about him wanting you to ask him out just so that he'll respect you more??....wow okay i've never heard anything like that before...even if you didnt ask him out he still should respect you and treat you the same way if he liked you like that...
when you say that he wants a relationship and is just tired of being single it seems that to him it doesnt matter who hes with...he just wants to be in one...
if you want to get back with him you should make sure he likes you and will resepect you AnD you know that it will last...
good luck! and hope i helped =)

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Okay so i know this was asked..twice i believe but i've looked and looked and i just CANT find the question anywhere so could someone tell me the names of the sites that let you get around the block at school and let you get on myspace..thanks alot!

there's
www.vtunnel.com
just type in myspace.com

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OK so like omg its me again from like the other like love handle question and like like, a love handle is like a handle shaped object that like she uses to have like pleasureable fun with. so like what should i like do?

what do you mean what should you do....let her have her "fun" lmao and ashish...get a lyfe LOL

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