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getting over it.


Question Posted Wednesday July 12 2006, 9:52 pm

16/f
i dont know how to cope with the loss of this guy who i almost could have said i loved. hes not dead but he might as well be. he doesnt treat me how he used to, infact we dont talk at all really anymore. i know he doesnt have any feelings for me anymore but that doesnt mean i still dont have them for him. no one has ever made me feel the way he did. i dont want him back though because it wouldnt be the same. i just want to get over him. i try but it always fails. i dont want to hang out with my friends and when i do i always think about him and when im on the raod to a softball tourny, all i can think about is him and im always depressed.im never happy or excited for anything anymore.
anyone have any ideas on how to get him out of my mind for good?
thank you much
xo


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EbOnY answered Thursday July 13 2006, 8:28 am:
LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING THERE'S GONNA BE BOYS EVERY WHERE NICE, MEAN . YOU NEAVER KNOW. BUT THERE IS ONE THING YOU GOT TO KNOW THEY COME AND GO. ITS NOT GONNA BE EASY FOR THE COUPLE OF WEEKS AND STUFF. BUT IF HE REALLY LIKE YOU YALL WELL BE TOGETHER RIGHT KNOW. RIGHT? BUT DAM GIRL IF YOU SOBBING FOR HIM FOR ABOUT A MOUTH OR TWO YOU NEED TO GET SMACK IN THE FACE. HE MAY GET OVER YOU HE MAYBE DID. BUT YOU HVAE TO MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE. YOU WILL HAVE SOME GOOD MEMERIS WITH YOU BOTH. BUT YOU WILL HAVE SOME BETTER NEW ONE.
HOPE I HELP
EbOnY nad if there's anything you need, dont be scard to ask. =]

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jumadel answered Thursday July 13 2006, 1:52 am:
Hi, usually a way to get a guy out of your mind is to start to know other guys. There might be other guys out there you will go for. It sound as though you had a crush on this guy and find it hard to get him out of your mind. You will never forget him, but you can move on with life by simply mixing with other guys. This can be through clubs, hobbies or nights out with your friends. You will find someone, just keep your options open. Daniel.

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LoveableHottBaby answered Thursday July 13 2006, 12:10 am:
omg that must be so hard for you...ive gone through something like this myself...i think you should start seeing other guys and once you find a guy you like and who will treat you right youll totally forget about this jerk...dont waste your time thinking about him constantly especially when youre with your friends...dont let him ruin your fun like that...i know its soo very hard but later on you'll just regret it...hes a waste of time...
find better, nicer, guy and he'll dissapear from your thoughts...hope i helped hun...good luck! <3

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