ok so me and this guy are bf and gf and it's only been like a week right. well he is amazing, like he treats me so good and it's like woah, calls me every night, walks me to class holding my hand yadda yadda yadda haha. well i heard from his ex gf from like 2 years ago and she was saying how mean and horrible he was and to not make the same mistake that she did. but everybody else that i talk to that knows him says the complete opposite. but i'm worried that since we haven't been going out long that i just haven't see who he really is...what could possibly be going on?
HighlandAmy answered Wednesday October 4 2006, 12:13 am: Ex-Girlfriends are not always the best source of information. It's possible that this girl still likes your guy and is jealous of how well things are working out for the two of you.
On the other hand, it could be entirely true that he was 'mean and horrible' to her. Although, I doubt that should have any impact on your relationship. Maybe he was trying to get her to break-up with him, maybe he just likes you better ergo he treats you better. Maybe 2 years ago he was a 'mean and horrible' person in general. Who knows? The point is: If he treats you well and makes you happy, there is no reason to listen to what anyone else has to say about your relationship ;)
Sherry answered Wednesday October 4 2006, 12:10 am: Dont listen to her. She's his ex! She's probably jealous of your relationship with him or something. And if she's not, still dont listen to her. Maybe he likes you way more than he liked her? Maybe he changed? If he's great right now dont worry about it! Sure you guys will get into fights, but thats just how relationships are. So dont worry about what she says and be happy with him! =) [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
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