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Is He Worth My Time?
This is long, so I'm sorry for that. With that being said, let me tell you the story.
So, about 2.5 - 3 weeks ago, I met this guy. His name is Matt, and he's really sweet. He's 18. Well, I'm 15. Anyways, we slept over at my friend's house across the street, and we cuddled all night, and even slept in the same bed with each other. There was no sex included, I'm a virgin, and I wish to wait til it's with someone I love. Well, it was nice, and he said he liked me. We kissed, and I liked him too. So, since then we've been talking on the phone everyday, and recently hung out at the mall the other day. Things were weird, but he kissed me there too. Then, a few days after we hung out, his ex girlfriend Jamie messages me on MySpace asking if I had done anything with him, so I asked if they were together, and she said "Sorta." Well, I didn't know who to believe about the situation, so I asked my friend Joey, who is Matt's best friend. Joey told me she was lying. Then I later found out that her & Matt were back together. I was really upset because he said he was thinking about asking me out, and he thought I was pretty, and he liked me. Well, during the time that we talked, he'd blow me off, and lie to me. It made me mad, but I figured "What the hell, you're not his girlfriend, don't let it bother you so much." The only reaosn we didn't end up together was because he said he didn't want a girlfriend. Which is retarded, because he's now back with his ex. I don't get why they're together because if it didn't work the first time, it's not gonna work this time either.
Anyways, after they started going out, I threw my fits of cries/screams. And then I went for a walk while talking on the phone with one of my friends, because he knows how to calm me down & make me feel better. Well, I got home from my walk, and I found out that Matt only liked me because I had a nice ass & he thought he could get into my pants easily. And he said my chest was the size of Hong Kong. So, he pretty much used me for sex, since he wasn't getting any from Jamie, since they were not together.
Well, he's coming over to my friend's house today, and I'll be over there, and I'm just wondering what I should do? I have this gut feeling that he's gonna look at me, and that I'm gonna cry, and my feelings are never wrong. I know he probably isn't worth my time, but for someone who's hurt me so much, I really really like him.
So, my question is, should I back off & give him space to be with his girlfriend, or do I get to know him better & see what happens. Is he even worth my time? I really need to know, because I won't be able to do anything before I know.
Thanks for your time! ♥
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girl he is def. not worth your time...i mean think of it...he jus did all that cause he thought he could get some...it may be hard for you to get over him but you gotta realize that what he did wasnt exactly right...you can get a better guy than that dont go round chasin this one guy thats not even worth it...good luck hun nd hope i helped!
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Do none of them!If a guy said he just liked me so he could get in my pants i'd kick his ass.I wouldn't really say back off just give him the cold shoulder.
~beebee69~
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