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Question Posted Monday July 10 2006, 10:45 pm

ive been friends with lisa sinc freshman year. she moved lasts umemr but we were together like everyday last summer. we chilled a couple times over the year but still remained close. she started going out with this kid. he seemed really nice but he was really creepy. he hit on me and christina (lisas bestfriends) multiple times. hes over in texas right now for training and hes just such an asshole to her, i know he must be nervous but hes so mean. hes parranoid and always calls her names and assumes shes cheating but she doesnt even give any hints that she is. he called my phone over 9 times one night and i didnt answer cuz i dont want to deal with him shit to her. he left a voice mail saying mean stuff about lisa. first off.. no one messes with my friends. they broke up but now shes like talking to him and it just pisses me off. i cant talk to her if she talks to him, he was trying to send me mean messages on myspace, he called me fuckin fat and that hurts, even tho i know im not its still annoying. what can i do, i dont want her to have anything to do with him. oh yeah he told her he had a gf wen they were goin out and she replied"i never even cheated on u " and he goes i was kidden i justw anted to try to get it out of u. i hate him like all her friends hate him

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xFeelxthexPanicx answered Wednesday July 12 2006, 11:34 am:
You should just sit her down and tell her what you think.
And if you try/have tried that, and nothing happened.
Then she's just gunna have to find out for herself that this guy is a total asswad.
But do your best to stay friends with her, and make sure you're there if she gets hurt.
But do as much as you can to get through to her and tell her that you think this guys a joke and she shouldn't be talking to him anymore.

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ilovehimxox answered Tuesday July 11 2006, 10:42 am:
you need to talk to your friend about this guy. he has no right to be saying all of that to you. and accusing her of cheating on him when it seems like hes cheating on her. she really has to ditch that guy & get away from him. he isnt worth anything she dont deserve him she needs to move on in life and look for a new & better boyfriend. the only way she is gonna know this is if yo talk to her about it. rather it be in person on the phone or on the computer but someway you have to talk to her about it. the best way i think to talk to her about is in person. so that way you know for sure that she is listening to you cause this could turn into something bad and tell her your doing it to help her. so she doesnt get all mad at you. i hope this helped a little
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Laura

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ladym answered Tuesday July 11 2006, 8:04 am:
You definatly need to tell your friend about this.first off,he shouldn't call you "f***in' fat".Second,he shouldn't accuse someone of cheating just so he can find out if he did.Third,he shouldn't be talking to you and harrassing you on Myspace.This guy is a total jerk!I don't even know why your friend is still talking to him!Just tell your friend what happened.

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caramella answered Tuesday July 11 2006, 3:12 am:
wow you need to talk to your freind about this.tell her all the stuff hes said about you and all the stuff hes said about her.hes obviously playing around with her feelings because he keeps calling her these names.i think he really DOES have another girlfreind and wasnt kidding about the last line you wrote.your freind needs a guy that knows how to treat her right and you have to be there and tell you freind all of that

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Risax14 answered Tuesday July 11 2006, 12:45 am:
I know what your talking about. My friend went out with this kid matt. He was so mean & he made her miserable. He was mean to me. He was always like your gay, get a life, you have no friends. I was like shut the hell up you faggot. & Then they broke up. Hahaha 0=) but yeah back to you. No1 knows why guys are like that. There jerks, talk to your friend let her know that he talks about her. & How he hurts your feelings and stuff. If shes a real friend she should understand

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LoveableHottBaby answered Monday July 10 2006, 11:11 pm:
okay so basically...hes a jerk....
why does she even deal with him?! thats so confusing usually girls would just leave'em and like never talk to them again...tell her what you dont like about him and how much its bothering you and everybody else...introduce her to better guys ones that'll acutally treat her right...and respect her friends...nobody deserves to be treated that way especially if she didnt even do anything wrong...hope i helped <33

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