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My name is Marisa. You can call me Risa. I absolutely love my friends & sports.Friends, Basketball & Softball are basicly my life. My bestestfriend in the whole entire world is Laura Jane =). i love her soo much =). shes always there for me when i need help. I'm willing to help anyone out so if you need help with anything or have any questions don't be afraid to ask me. I won't bite I promise =) hehe. Well if you wanna IM me my screenname is Sweett xo Summer - AIM. I'm basicly always on. If you have any questions IM me or leave something in my inbox. ♥

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I need help, really bad.

I lied to my boyfriend about something really big, not going to get into details, it's a VERY long story! He just called me & told me that he doesn't want to be in a relationship with me right now, because he just can't handle it.

& I have absolutely no idea what to say or do to make everything better. I can't handle thinking what it would be like without him, it's just WAY too much for me.

So, PLEASE. If you were in my position, what would you do?

Thanks in advance.

Well, i would deffently sit down & talk to him. Tell him why you lied. Be completely honest about it. Tell him what you lied to him about and everything, maybe he will understand. But who knows. Lots of people are different some forgive & understand easly, some just hold things against you forever. good luck :]
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Risa

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what is the best way and nicest way to break up wit ur boyfriend.i dont want any answers like there is no nice way i know that but i dont want him to hate me.he is way to clingy and i cant handle him geting mad when i just talk to another guy and im not flirting with him or anything just talking.he is raceist and i just cant take it anymore.i dont want him to hate me though.

thanxxx

Just tell him, you dont feel anything going anywhere & that you would rather just be friends although it is hard to be friends with someone that you dated. but good luck :]
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Risa

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Where can I download for free AIM + ? The site I downloaded it off of last time wont work. I use the old AIM. Not the new one. Thanks for the help.

www.download.com
search for aim+ then click download.
:]
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Risa

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how in the hell do YOU upload a pic of ur self??i have sat here 4 2 hours trying TO get a photo of my self on my column!!! HELP!!!!

go to profile settins then where it says upload a picture of you press browse then find the picture you want & double click on it. =]
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Risa

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Does anyone know a good place to shop for belts?
Thanks.

american eagle. - defently.
but then again, it all depends on what your looking for.
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Risa

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my mom is claiming that i was supposed to talk to the women i babysit for about how much she pays me, but that i never did & she had to do it instead. this was almost a year ago & i did do it. i remember the convorsation & my sister claims she remembers me having it too. my mom is claiming that i never did & she had to do it for me. she is screaming at me that i never did & it makes me upset that she is trying to tell me i never did something that i know i did do. (this came up now because the lady didn't pay my sister fairly either the other day). i know it's not that big of a deal since it was a year ago, but it really makes me upset that she is trying to tell me i never talked with the lady & she had to for me, because i know i did it! how can i make my mom admit she's wrong?

Tell her to talk to the lady herself. See what that woman says, & im sorry shes not paying you two fairly.
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Risa

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okay well my friend is going through a rough time right now. her boyfriend just told her that he is gonna kill himself cause he wants to but he wont tell her why. he was starting to but then he just stoped typing ( it was on AIM ) the ages are 12. do you think he seriously could of meant it. cause he said he really wanted to cut himself also. & she is so worried about him because she loves him so much and she doenst want to loose him. any advice that i could tell her to do. that would be helpful thankks
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Well, your my friend. and i know who your talking about. Have her talk to him, like really talk to him. & I know he didnt kill himself cause supposivly it wasnt him but idk. = ] i love youuu
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Is there a way to find pictures, documents, files, etc., after you delete them from the recycle bin?

No, unless you saved them somewhere else on your computer, or to a diskk.
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Risa

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My friend is leaving so me and some friends decided to make her a 'bebo' and 'myspace' flash box with pictures of everyone on. We just need a song. Can you suggest any good songs with lyrics relating to missing people/friendships.
Thanks

Friends Forever by Vitiman C
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Risa

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ok i am 14/f and my sister is 16 well i met this guy that i really like and i told my sister about it and well at first it was cool talking to her about it because she listened to what i had to say and didn't say anything to him about it but then i got grounded and wasn't able to hang out with my crush anymore or my friends so one dya they came over and asked for me and i was grounded so they decided to start hanging out with my sister then that same day i go and start babysitting for a friend and i stay there like one week and then i call my sister and guess what she is going out with my crush and i got so pissed but i told her i wasn't mad now my question is how do i get him to like me how he used to before him and my sister have sex

Thats extremlly mean of your sister. You told her how much you like him & she does that to you? Wow. Talk to her ask her why she did that. You should have told that you were mad cause now shes just gonnah stay with him. I'm so sorry she did that. Good luck. Stay strong =]
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well people i have been volenteering at the local pool with swimming lessons...and i recently had 4 classes and i got a sunburn and i need it to stop the pain...so what should i do....i hvent taken a shower yet but will it be bad if I do!please give me all the advice you can....

thanks,
meghan

Aloe Vera works great. =) hope you feel better
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what is the amount of calories per day that is healthy? like how many calories a day should you have?
please&thankyou

Somewhere between 2,000 - 2,500. =]
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I just asked a question earlier today about my white & light brown chihuahua. Here are the two names I have chosen.

1. Princess
2. Isabella (Bella for short)

What do you guys think? 1 or 2?

i would defently go with isabella. sucha cute name =) hehe
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well my parents just got divorced and i am 14 by the way and um well my dad cheated on my mom and now since there divorced he is showing me all to these diffrent women and i am really pissed about that what should i do



Help me!!!

Sit down and talk with him. Tell him how you feel and that your really upset about the divorce & that you don't want to look at the women with him. Good luck =)
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is that bad if you flirt with your friend's crush? but not exactly flirting
when people tell me who they like
i just want to say hi to them and talk to them..
and i dont know if im flirting but i just want to know how they act when i joke around with their crush

Nothing is wrong with that. You just want to get to know him. You probally are trying to see if he's right for her or something. Maybe trying to see if he likes her too. I do the same thing for my friends =)
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Okay, I feel like my friend doesnt need me anymore. Because a long time ago we used to talk like 24/7! and he used to call me all the time and he used to talk to me on the computer all the time. But now it just seems like he doesnt ever have time for me. I need help to get over this! And p.s-i forgot to mention that i like this guy more than just a friend!

Try to talk to him. The same thing happend to me. My best guy friend stopped talking to me. & Now I tried talking to him & we talk again & its just like it was before. so im sure if you talk to him it will get better =)
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ive been friends with lisa sinc freshman year. she moved lasts umemr but we were together like everyday last summer. we chilled a couple times over the year but still remained close. she started going out with this kid. he seemed really nice but he was really creepy. he hit on me and christina (lisas bestfriends) multiple times. hes over in texas right now for training and hes just such an asshole to her, i know he must be nervous but hes so mean. hes parranoid and always calls her names and assumes shes cheating but she doesnt even give any hints that she is. he called my phone over 9 times one night and i didnt answer cuz i dont want to deal with him shit to her. he left a voice mail saying mean stuff about lisa. first off.. no one messes with my friends. they broke up but now shes like talking to him and it just pisses me off. i cant talk to her if she talks to him, he was trying to send me mean messages on myspace, he called me fuckin fat and that hurts, even tho i know im not its still annoying. what can i do, i dont want her to have anything to do with him. oh yeah he told her he had a gf wen they were goin out and she replied"i never even cheated on u " and he goes i was kidden i justw anted to try to get it out of u. i hate him like all her friends hate him

I know what your talking about. My friend went out with this kid matt. He was so mean & he made her miserable. He was mean to me. He was always like your gay, get a life, you have no friends. I was like shut the hell up you faggot. & Then they broke up. Hahaha 0=) but yeah back to you. No1 knows why guys are like that. There jerks, talk to your friend let her know that he talks about her. & How he hurts your feelings and stuff. If shes a real friend she should understand

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I am thinking about trying out for fastpitch (softball). I'm really good at fielding. I was on the slowpitch team. But, I absolutely cannot hit fastpitch!! Can anyone give me tips on how to help hitting? By the way, I play basketball that's why I have to try-out so late. By the way, if you could, try not to suggest go to a batting cage. Because I live in Mississippi, the part affected by Katrina, and I'm not sure of many batting cages that are open.

I play fastpitch softball. If you have someone on your team pitch to you & have them get faster every 5 pitches or so. You should be hitting it. Most people in fastpitch dont pitch very fast. Well from where I'm from they don't at least. But I don't know about where you live. Good Luck =)
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Hi. I am a Cheerleader and i was wondering if anyone has any tips or things to do to jump higher. I need to learn how to jump higher so anyone could anwer this as long as you do somthing with jumping such as track, basketball, ect. Please anwer. My jumps are pretty bad because im not jumping very high so if anyone has anything for me to do please tell me.

thanks in advance..

megg.

If you do like knee squats everyday your legs will get stronger. I do that & I play basketball. I can jump pretty high =)
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I'm 16/f and I have an older sister (just turned 18)and an older brother (21). Well my sister and I used to be really close (we're only a year and half apart) but ever since a few months ago, she's started hanging out with these guys that are way older (like my brother's age)and I hate it because we used to do everything together but now her and my brother are always together.


She was a cheerleader in high school so she barely ever drank and she's never done drugs but ever since cheer for her senior year was over she's started partying a bunch more and I now she's gotten high a few times. I know weed isn't all that bad for you really but it just isn't her!


My family and I went on vacation to the Virgin Islands a few weeks ago and like 4 of the nights we were there my brother and sister went out clubbing and stuff with this guy that came with us. I love my brother and everything but he's such a bad influence on my sister.


She's moving to Austin after the summer is over (we're in Houston) to go to college and I know it's just going to get worse. She's really pretty so guys are constantly all over her and I'm just afraid she's going to get herself into trouble. I know she's had sex with 2 guys--one long term boyfriend and another guy she dated in April after she broke up with her boyfriend. In April she was still 17 and the guy was 21.


I don't know if I should say something to her or not because sometimes I just feel like I should mind my own business and not act like her parent but I just don't know.

Just let her know your worried about her. & that you don't want her to get hurt. cause you care about her. there nothing wrong with caring about someonee. =)
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