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Member Since: July 6, 2006
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Last Update: July 7, 2006
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I really want to gain weight, but the right way.
I don't want to sit all day and eat cheeseburgers to gain weight. And I wanna gain 15 pounds by august 26th. Any thing I can eat that is good for me that I could gain weight off of. Or any like things i could do.
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you dont have to resort to eating unhealthy foods just make sure you eat more calories then you are burning!

p.s. carbs and starches really help you gaing weight!!

GOOD LUCK!


How many calories do I need to maintain [sp?] in my regular diet if I'm 13, 5"7, and 127 lbs?

Thanks. (link)
ummm it really depends on how active you are!

if you are supper active or do sports then i would say around 2500 calorie!

if you dont move around as much then just try taking that number down a bit!

Good luck...and truley you shouldnt have to worry about it as long as you eat 3 meals a day and not alot of junkfood!


what are you suposed to do with your tounge when you are french kissing someone?

because i mean. yeah you stick it in the other person's mouth. what next?
it just feels awkward. (link)
i cant tell you exactly what to do because some ppl do it differently...but i can give you some tips!

for starters: dont ever stick your toung in alot...just a little bit (or you will choke the poor guy)

play around with him...put your tounge in and move it around a little bit...touch your tounges...then pull it out and just give him light pecks on the lips...then go back to tounge! guys love it...trust me! and good luck!


so my hair is super curly and frizzy.
i straighten it most days beacuse i dont want/like to wear it how it naturally curls. i think it looks bad. i have about shoulder length light brown hair.

my question is how do i get my hair to be wavy. like pretty waves. not super tight curls, but not straihgt. in between.

steps would be much apprciated. (link)
my hair is the exact same way!

try puting muse(sp?) or gel in your hair at night when you get out of the shower ( but not a lot...just a dime size sploosh on your palm). make sure you run it threw your hair really good...then brush through your hair and put it into a braid (not a tight one...or you will have that head line) sleep w/ your hair like that...and then when you get up lightly blowdry it on a low setting and a low heat. then take your braid out and ...tada! it should work!


There's this guy John that i met at camp last year
He was such a sweetheart, and so funny!
At the time, i was going out with a guy Steve...
and John liked my friend Laura...
but Laura was 4 years older, and had a boyfriend.
So this year.. i saw john again.
Same sweet guy..
except.. so much hotter! whoo!
So.. we're talking like best friends always do..
and he is putting his face really close to mine..
like, our foreheads are touching as a "joke"
But.. then he held my hand, in a "friendly" way..
So our hands are clasped together.
Everytime we sit next to eachother..
(wich is always..cus everytime i sit down, he sits next to me.)
he holds my hand,
but now he holds my hand so that it's laced in his
and holds our hands on top of our legs.. (cus their usually touching)
Then today he put his arm around my waist and puts his face really close to mine again and looked so deep into my eyes
i also always see him looking at me
When we hold hands.. people say "are you two going out?"
and he doesnt answer.. so i always have to say "nope"
and then they say "so why are you holding hands???"
and John says either "maybe we want to.." or "cause"
My heart races everytime we even hold hands..
i feel so warm when he does
like a warm rush of blood through my body
wich is crazy.. cus its just holding hands..barely anything.. but with him.. its like EVERYTHING. i always wish i wa holding his hands right now.. or him holding me.. but why?
My friend Shannon mouthed to him "do you like her?"..
pointing to me...
and i saw him nod his head yes
ah! whats going on?!
do you think he does like me?
Do you think i shud go out with him?
Do i love him..??? whooah.
So0o0o0o Confusiing!!...
XoXo.. Lexie (link)
wow...there is deff. something going on there...lol!

but yes, i think that if you really like this guy, and you know he likes you then you should give going out w/ him a shot.

i mean for all you know you could start dateing and have a really awsome and long relationship!

i think you should go for it...GOOD LUCK!


If you are sent an invitation to someone's Sweet 16 and the card says RSVP, do you have to call to inform them that you will not be attending? (link)
it is not required, but it is always better that you do so that they do not wait!(p.s. its a polite thing to do)


does anyone know the song that is rap/hip hop that goes... brattt ;; shut up just shut up ;; mi key losa

**sorry for miss spellings**

thanks! (link)
yea, if it is the one i am thinking it is; then it is by the yingyang twins and is called "shake"


My friend Sam got asked out by a guy she and I both HATE.(His name is Matt) She told him she wasn't allowed to go out yet. (But it wasn't true) He always flirted with her anyways, and it was creeping both of us out. Towards the end of the year, our school had a party at the pool. I guess Sam's hott bakini was too tempting and her started doing some really gross (definetaly innapropriate)(sp?) things. Then, after I slapped him really hard, he managed to surface and take my bathing suit COMPLETELY off. My friends helped cover me up while Sam went and got my bathing suit back. I was the one who had to tell the chaperone... But all I could manange to say was that he was bugging us and dunking us... stuff like that. How do I get over this and how do I make Matt leave us alone for good? (link)
just tell it like it is:

tell him he is a dumb jerk, and that he needs to leave you and your friend alone. that there is no need for him to be around because neither of you like him, and you have tried being nice and it doesnt seem to work w/ him so he needs to buzz off! tell him that you do not have time for imature guys who have to act stupid to try and get the attention of some girl who obviously is not interested!

GoOd LuCk!


ok, iam 14 and becoming a freshmen and i really like this guy, but whenever i try to talk to him online or text him he never replies. all my friends say he likes me and that we make the perfect couple but iam not sure... i dont even know if i would go out with him cause when ever were alone (or with a few friends) hes so sweet and nice to me. but when were around all his friends he brushes me aside. even when i try to talk to him not face to face (as in text or aim) he doesnt talk kor just says really short remarks, yes,no,ok and so on. so i was just really hoping someone could lead me down the right path with him, Thanks! (link)
i understand what you are going threw...and they advice i am about to give you is my sound like a wierd thing to do at your (and my) age, but it really helps.

gets this guy alone...just you and him!and tell him almost exactly what you just asked us for help on!

tell him that you like him alot and that you love talking to him, but when ever he is around his friends he tends to brush you off! tell him that you would really like for him and you to get together but for that to happen he has to be comfortable talking to you all the time...not just when you two are alone!

if he doesnt take you seriously then he is truly not worth your time...because every girl deserves to be treated like a princes!
GOOD LUCK...i hope things work out for you!


What fruits are the best for you? I mean I know almost all fruits are really good for you, but what ones are the BEST for you? And why? (link)
all fruits are good for different parts of your body! so the best thing to do is to eat all types of fruit(p.s. fruit salad = great snack)

but so far every where i go i constantly hear ppl saying that berries are the best for you!(expecialy bluberries) they do the most to help every part of your body!

best advice i can give you...eat alot of fruit salad(extra blueberries):)


okay the rest of my body is perfectly fine i like the ways that it is there is nothing wrong with it except the fact that i have really big arms how can i get them to be more slim and muscular.thanks:)(: (link)
there are a lot of different easy exercisizes you can do for your arms!

a great website that i go to for things like this is aol.com

1.go to aol.com
2.scrol down to aol directory
3.click on diet and fitness
4.near the top of the page there are the word "get fit" w/ an arrow next to them
5.click on that
6.you will see "arm toners" on the list
*there are a buch of great and easy work outs to do*

p.s. its not gonna magically start to shrink after a couple of times...so you really have to stick to this (just set aside 10 mins every day for a little arm excersise)

GOOD LUCK!!!


my parents are really strick, i'm a 14 yr old female and my parents wont let me talk to a guy on the phone. i've told them they were to stick and i am responsible enough to talk to a guy on the phone. and all they say is "no dating till your 17." which is toatlly off topic from talking and dating. how do i get my parents to let me talk to a guy on the phone? cause i have guy friends i cant even talk too. my dad likes to yell a lot so i'd like to say it as easy as possible. how do i say it without getting yelled at? please be specific, thanx (link)
I know exactly what your going through...my father was the same.

here is what i did and it really help...get your father at a good time (when he is not angry or had a bad day at work). Mack sure no one eles is around because fathers hate it when they feel they must answer a certain way.

say to your father "dad i understand that you dont want me to date guys untill i am 17,and i am fine with that, but talking to them on the phone is different. It is strickly friends; and i know you think that i am not responsible enough to talk to guys, but if you just let me i will show you that i am. I promise it is stricktly friends...please trust me"

and as you say this keep an easy tone...dont raise your voice or get irritated. it will only make things worse.

I hope this helps!




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