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Dad problems
well my parents just got divorced and i am 14 by the way and um well my dad cheated on my mom and now since there divorced he is showing me all to these diffrent women and i am really pissed about that what should i do
Help me!!!
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auh hunny you need to talk to him about it. this is no ones fault but thiers and if you are uncomfortable with it you have every right to tell him. Its like when your parents remarry you should also have some say in women or man who is would be in your life i hope it works out
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Darling,
Half of America is dealing with the same pressures and stress and anger you are. Hard to believe me. Find someone dealing with the same issues you are....talk to them. Be optimistic, i know thats hard but nobody like negative people. Surround yourself by happy people that make you feel the same way. Talk to your parents about how you feel, nicely. Hard i understand. Also find an outlet, such as dancing writing punching the heck out of a pillow. Lol It will help when your angry go to that outlet. Maybe if your scared to tell your dad or dont want him to inturrupt you write him a letter and tell him you need to talk give him the letter. Then listen to what he has to say also. He is probably recovering from the hurt of the divorce and he likes to surround him by women that make him forget about that pain. Think about that also. Keep me posted on how your doing.
SIncerly,
Vennessa.
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I know how you feel when my parents got divorced my dad used me to meet woman...it pissed me off so much. So what i did is that i told my dad that if he wouldn't stop useing me to meet woman then the next time i would as rude as i could. he didn't belive and the next time he did i was so rude. then my dad stoped using me to meet woman. i would try that if i was you. hoped i helped
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If I were you I would tell my dad how I feel and I would ask him to keep his love life to himself and not make me meet with any more wimen. If it makes you uncomfortable then you should definately do something about it. Good luck!!!
Alli
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tell your dad that just cuz he left your mom and everything between them are over doesnt mean that you can show me to other women...tell him how you feel and how it bothers you and hell stop when he sees that it bothers you
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Sit down and talk with him. Tell him how you feel and that your really upset about the divorce & that you don't want to look at the women with him. Good luck =)
♥ Risa
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Tell him that it hurts to know that he'd rather have other women in his life then your mom and you'd rather not meet these other people. He should understand & if he doesn't I'd tell your mom about this and maybe she can talk about it to him.
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Accept the fact that he's being inconciderate of your feelings and move on with your life, i know your pissed but forgove him and let it go and if you have to just dont speak to him. . .
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You need to tell him how you feel. If he doesn't respect that and still brings them around then don't go around him for awhile, then he will see you are serious and after a few days you two will make up. He will realize how his actions have consequences. He probally will respect that you don't want to see them beacuse you love your mom and everything.
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Tell him you don't want to see it. It upsets you and he has no right. < thats all I know what to do. I'm sorry bout the divorce.
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Explain to him that you dont want to be a part of this, and that youre still very angry about him cheating on youre mom. And that its best for him not to show you all these women.
Good luck
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