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My sister
I'm 16/f and I have an older sister (just turned 18)and an older brother (21). Well my sister and I used to be really close (we're only a year and half apart) but ever since a few months ago, she's started hanging out with these guys that are way older (like my brother's age)and I hate it because we used to do everything together but now her and my brother are always together.
She was a cheerleader in high school so she barely ever drank and she's never done drugs but ever since cheer for her senior year was over she's started partying a bunch more and I now she's gotten high a few times. I know weed isn't all that bad for you really but it just isn't her!
My family and I went on vacation to the Virgin Islands a few weeks ago and like 4 of the nights we were there my brother and sister went out clubbing and stuff with this guy that came with us. I love my brother and everything but he's such a bad influence on my sister.
She's moving to Austin after the summer is over (we're in Houston) to go to college and I know it's just going to get worse. She's really pretty so guys are constantly all over her and I'm just afraid she's going to get herself into trouble. I know she's had sex with 2 guys--one long term boyfriend and another guy she dated in April after she broke up with her boyfriend. In April she was still 17 and the guy was 21.
I don't know if I should say something to her or not because sometimes I just feel like I should mind my own business and not act like her parent but I just don't know.
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Just keep telling her how you care about her and try to get her mind of weed for a while. Ask her to do stuff with you. The more you get farther apart then the less you will know!
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well she is like older now and really older people drink and stuff party just like my sister she is 22 and like my brother he is 18
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Tell her that you are worried, explain to her that your not trying to be her 'parent' but a best friend and a sister.
Tell her that you miss hanging out with her and things have changed in the last few months.
Let her know that you miss her company and would like to hang out again. Maybe she'll see the difference and she'll hang out with you more like old times.
The best thing to do is to talk to her... she's not going to know how you feel if you don't talk to her.
Hope I helped :)
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Just tell her that you're her sister and that you love her and that you aren't trying to bud in on her life, but you are just worried about her. If you come off sincere and not in a parental way I'm sure that she would listen. I think it's wonderful that you care for you sister that much. I'm 15/f and my sister is 21. It's a bigger age difference but I was in a situation almost identical to this one..so I know how you feel. =]. hope i helped!
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Tell her about this, tell her your worried and how you're feeling about it. You're right your not her parent, but your her sister, this would mean more to her from you then it would from her parents. =]
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Just let her know your worried about her. & that you don't want her to get hurt. cause you care about her. there nothing wrong with caring about someonee. =)
♥ Risa
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Explain to her that you are worried about her. And explain that you dont like the way she is acting now, that you like the old her. Just tell her all youre feelings. Thats really all you can do.
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maybe you should talk to her...and just tell her that you care about her alot and don't want anything dangerous to happen to her...
hope i helped =D
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