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My friend and i have been friends for 2 years and her parents dont let me hang out with her cuz i went out with a blck guy and they talk behind my back and call me a slutt cuz she tells me and they dont like my mom either and thats messt and racest and i need help so.. my ? is wat do i do were awesome friends and we can only hang out at skool!!!
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you can write a letter and give to your friend to give it to her parents and write like why are they doing this
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Ok, so I have been best friends with this boy since kindergarten. I recently switched schools and asked him out. I wrote him a letter telling him how I felt about him. He ended up saying no, and I was crushed. I haven't talked to him since. What should I do? (link)
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just talk about it with and the in a couple of days you will get over it
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I just moved in to a house in Lake Park, NC. I have lived here for a week and I like this girl that lives across the street. I don't have the nerve to ask her out. Can someone tell me a good way to ask her out.
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just walk over to her and tell her how you feel and then get to know her then ask her out.
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Me and this girl have been best friends since the first grade. And we haven't talked to each other in two years. Now we have reunited and started talking on the phone. I sent her an e-mail and asked her if we were still best friends, she said no, maybe, maybe not. Then she said she had 3 best friends. And she is acting so careless about it. Like she doesn't care about how I feel about the situation. What should I do? (link)
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you should tell her how you fell and you want to start over again.
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My BFFL and I have been BFFL for almost 2years now. We NEVER fight which is great, so there hasn't been any problems w/ fighting but Now there is. She has another BFFL.First, we hated each other then we liked each other and now he has a g/f that he LOVES & she loves him and now we extrememly dislike each other, again. I'm at my dad's now for two weeks and I try to talk to her but shes always "busy" or with him, so she says she can't call & he's even before me on her myspace! I'm losing her! =[ HELP (link)
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you can try to get alone with him or her sometime when you want to hangout
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There is this boy I like at school. But not until the other day when I saw my best man friend
and all of a sudden bam!! I was in love with him. I am not sure I should like him because my best lady friend likes him. I am not sure what to do to? I do not want to loose a friendship or a crush. (link)
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just ask your lady friend if you can like him she should understand.
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Yesterday my friend wanted me to sleep over her house another day but I cou ldn't because I had a bbq to go to and she wanted to come. So I called my parents asking if they could ask my aunt so they did but she said no. Then she got pissed at me because I wanted to go even if she couldn't go. I think it is really dumb but I don't know what to do. Last week she got mad because she couldn't sleep over my house. What should I do? How should I talk to her because I want her to stop getting mad at me over stupid things. (link)
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just sit down with her and try to talk with her try to make her undertand that its not up to her if you cant do that or you have to do this
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my friend and i are recently getting in fight and they are mostly about her bf(im 14/f by the way)her bf said some really mean stuff to me and my friend was mad at him about it for like 5 min and then forgave him.she always does that when hes mean to me or her. Should her and i stay friends or should we go our seperate ways?
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tell her she should stand up to her boyfriend if he treats you bad and her bad she should break up with that jerk. And its not a good reason for you too to be fighting
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Right after I met Kate she was my very best friend. Now, Kate is moving. When I asked her parents why they had to leave, they had such stupid answers, and I'm going to miss her like crazy! I'm so upset that she's leaving me, it feels like the whole world is crashing down. Now what? How will I deal without her? (link)
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you can still keep in touch with her like call her in stuff and when you people are like on vacation or something you can vist her or she can vist you
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Hey my name is Rachel and iam 17 years old and my sister moved in with my 4 year old niece and my 2 year old nephew and now they are sleeping in my room since we only have a 2 bedroom house and now iam sleeping on the couch and they are sleeping in my room and I don't think that is fair and when I talked to my mom about it she said I was being selfish am I being selfish?I have no privacy whatsoever and I think as a teenager I need all the privacy I can get and I have none how can I get more privacy?
please help me.
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your not being selfish well its hard for you since your big sister has come back home well how about this you can ask if you can sleep in your room and they can sleep with there mom. I used to do that when i was little
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i feel like my mom is running my love life. when i was 13, i met this boy. i fell madly in love with him and to this day, 2/3 years later, i'm still crazy about him. he liked me a lot. i think he still does but he's just hurt about all of this that's been going on. my mom ADORED his best friend. she told me that if i was going to like anybody that it could only be his best friend and her mind was set. she said that the other guy was ugly and stupid. so, i pretended to like his best friend infront of her. she was so happy and every time i might have hinted that there was something for the other guy, she would get soo pissed. so, i told my best friend about what was going on, and she was the only one that knew. but, then in 8th grade, my mom saw the one she thought was ugly at a party and saw how much she thought he cared for me and she liked him and stuff. and then i was at the hospital on christmas because i had a really bad cough that was non-stop for 3 days and 3 nights and the only thing that made me stop coughing was when she said his name. she dumped my boyfriend of 1 year over the internet because she says that he was sending me inappropriate things. i thought it was gross, but it wasn't worth dumping him for. he said he was sorry. but, she really shouldn't have done that. but, i recently met this guy and she says he's ugly and she doesn't like him because he's ugly and he carries things in a bag. the only reason he brought a bag was because we were going in the pool so he brought an extra change of clothes. she finds the stupidest reasons for things. she thinks he's weird or something and he's not like that, he's a very nice person and he has excellent table manners lol. but, i'm tired or her running my love life. i feel like she wants to control who i can and can't like. i've talked to her about it, but she just doesn't understand. she doesn't think anything she does is wrong. and i think all of these 3 circumstances have everything wrong with them
1) TELLING ME I COULD ONLY LIKE HIS BEST FRIEND
2) DUMPING MY BOYFRIEND WITHOUT MY PERMISSION!
3) TELLING ME I CAN'T LIKE A BOY BECAUSE SHE THINK'S HE'S UGLY!!!!!
now she's telling me i have to like the one she thought was ugly in the first place and i still love him, but, i'm kind of just hanging around and waiting for him to come around. because, recently he was getting into things like smoking pot and stuff and i want him to outgrow it and i also don't want to make a move on him like that. i want to hint it and stuff. but, there's nothing wrong with liking someone and him getting a little jealous with it. deep down i really care about him, but that's besides the point
it'advice about my mom please
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OMG what kind of mom would do this tell her its not up to her who you should like she is not you she should really not control your love life.
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I've caught my dad in porn and sex chat rooms so many times. Everytime he talks to me its not the same anymore, we used to be sooo close and now i cant even look him straight in the eye anymore. Hes always out of the house, and my mom works at nightt. I went to his work one day he wasnt there, and then a lot of people called the house asking for him. When he got home I asked him where he was at, he said golfing in the morning with the hugest smerk ever it disgusted me and i wanted to just cry. Then i was like what about later he said he was at work. But those people that called me at like 5pm said he wasnt there. Then he always locks his computer, and one day i caught him using a web cam, then i found lub. and a vibrator. He gets home so late on the nights my mom works. What i want to know is what should i do, cause for all i know he's just a guy looking at porn. (link)
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OMG Tell your mother that is some evidence that he is cheating on your mom
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I'm 16/f and I have an older sister (just turned 18)and an older brother (21). Well my sister and I used to be really close (we're only a year and half apart) but ever since a few months ago, she's started hanging out with these guys that are way older (like my brother's age)and I hate it because we used to do everything together but now her and my brother are always together.
She was a cheerleader in high school so she barely ever drank and she's never done drugs but ever since cheer for her senior year was over she's started partying a bunch more and I now she's gotten high a few times. I know weed isn't all that bad for you really but it just isn't her!
My family and I went on vacation to the Virgin Islands a few weeks ago and like 4 of the nights we were there my brother and sister went out clubbing and stuff with this guy that came with us. I love my brother and everything but he's such a bad influence on my sister.
She's moving to Austin after the summer is over (we're in Houston) to go to college and I know it's just going to get worse. She's really pretty so guys are constantly all over her and I'm just afraid she's going to get herself into trouble. I know she's had sex with 2 guys--one long term boyfriend and another guy she dated in April after she broke up with her boyfriend. In April she was still 17 and the guy was 21.
I don't know if I should say something to her or not because sometimes I just feel like I should mind my own business and not act like her parent but I just don't know.
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well she is like older now and really older people drink and stuff party just like my sister she is 22 and like my brother he is 18
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to make a short story short..... i like him, he likes me. my mom doesn't like him because she just doesn't like the way he looks. but he's really a nice guy. he invited me to a party. i really wanna go. how do i convince mom to like him? i need a really good stratigic well thought out plan. ideas? (link)
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tell your mom never judge a book by its cover and invite him over so she can get to know him better
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Hey,my name is Rachel and iam 17 years old and my granny is ruining my life I know that she is 88 years old,but I don't think this is an excuse for what she is doing to me and the rest of my family.my granny tells me that iam to fat for my own good and talks really bad about my mom and my sisters.on my 17th b-day she made me cry becouse she told me that my mom didn't love me or care about me.I know it's not true,but it still bothered me that my granny would say something like that to me her youngest granddaughter.my 36 year old cousin helped me feel better when my granny made me cry.my granny also tells my aunt how to do things in her own house even though she is 68 years old and she stands over my couse like a hawlk while she folds dirty clothes.If I don't make my bed or fold my dirty clothes she yells at me what should I do.I have to deal with this every weekend all weekend and Iam fed up with her nonesince what should I do? (link)
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omg your grandma is so mean!!! you know what you can do stand up to her and say i am done with this stop talking to me about my mom and my family and you better stop this
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Okay, this may not seem like a problem, but I started babysitting for this one family this summer. They have a pretty big house and good jobs, so it's not like they are poor. I think they overpay me though. I know I shouldn't complain, but they paid me $40 for watching a 4-year-old and a nine-year-old from 6-11pm....and they pay me $100 a week to watch the 9-year-old while they are at work during the summer....watching the nine-year-old basically consists of watching tv or watching him play nintendo or watching him fish. it's not a hard job, and I enjoy it...should I say something about the high pay, or just take it as them appreciating me and being nice? I don't want to get more than I deserve.... (link)
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well its really up to you and uh its really alot of money if your really that poor take the money
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so i'm 14/m and she's 14/f...she really likes me..and i think i like her too...i wanna go out with her...but her parents are way to strict and so are her cousins...she's not allowed to go on a date until she's 18..i can't wait 4 years...wat do i do??? (link)
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hmmmm tell her parents you really really like her and you will protect her and take care of her on your date
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