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i saw your answer for how to put a pic. of yourself on your profile. ive tried that several times, but it keeps tellnig me that the file is bigger than 15k, and it wont let it. no matter what pic. i use.
you might have to first shrink the picture. go to your documents, or wherever you store your pictures, in a folder, or whatever. then find the picture you want, double click it, and crop it. my picture had the same problem at first, but once you crop, it should work.
okay well im really sick of not being popular. i have a couple of friends, but sometimes they just get sick of being with me. today in school we were reading reports to the class. the person who read their report got to choose another person to go next. NO ONE PICKED ME! my "friends" chose their other friends and then the nerds even got chosen before me. finally, this girl that no one likes picked me and everyone was laughing at me because i was the last one to read my report. i just want to be popular. now i DEFINITELY don't want to be the most popular girl in the school, but i just want some really nice friends who would take a bullet for me. i'm sick of going home every day crying, because no one ever talks to me or saves a seat for me. everyone has their own groups (clicks) and im not in any of them so im just the odd one out. even my best friends have a click and they won't let me in it. i just feel like i'm in the middle of everyone. and its not like im shy because i talk a lot and stuff, but i guess im still too boring for everyone. no one even trusts me with their secrets (including the 6 friends i have.) and i don't tell secrets and my friends know that but if they have a secret to tell eachother, they'll make me leave and then i can hear them laughing and stuff. and no one even tells me who's going out with who!! my closest friend had been dating a boy for 3 days and she didn't even tell me and i felt like a loser when everyone knew it and i was just finding out. i feel like im left out of everything, and alot of people pretend to like me and they'll hang out with me once in a while, but then they start their own clicks again and i can't get in any of them. And in AIM profiles when everyone lists their friends, I'm always close to last even if I know that person really well. I feel like I'm just not as "likeable" to people and they think everyone else is funnier and more fun than me. And I'm not mean to everyone and I'm never boring, but I just feel like I'm treated like a piece of crap. One second someone will want to hang out with me and the next second they're friends with someone else. So many people say I'm their "best friend" and I'm so "nice" but they don't want to hang out with me. I just don't get it. I don't know what to do. How can I be more "likeable" to people so people will want to hang out with me and be better friends with me? How can I make A LOT of friends? I've tried everything but I just can't get in to anyone's click. How can I do this? Please don't make me feel worse then I already do. I just want to die.
Thanks, I will deffinitely rate.
well, start off by just looking on the bright side. i know, i know, it sounds stupid but, if you just had some positive feel for the problem you might get somewhere. one time in my life i felt exactly how you were feeling, and i know it's really tough. but i started making friends outside of school. i joined a lot of community typed organizations, i went to dance with kids from other schools and towns nearby, and so much more. now if doing that sort of thing might be uncomfortable for you or might be moving too fast, start small. there are tons of ways to meet new people, and create new friends.
so my dance is on friday i want to go with this guy and we have gone out like twice this year already but i really want to go with him but i am tired of waiting! so i was wondering, do guys think its creepy if a girl asks them out??
thanks
i'll rate high
honestly, it all depends on the guy. some guys think it's like you're coming on too strong or desperate, others accept the idea. but from looking at what you wrote, and how you've gone out twice this year, i say it wouldn't hurt at all to ask. what do you have to loose? good luck =)
So how do u upload a picture of yourself on your advice column? lol I'm not the best w/ computers. thanks!!!
on the left, find profile settings. scroll down to "Part III: Stuff we show to everyone". Find "Upload a picture of you:" and hit the browse button. find the picture you want to upload, double click, and hit submit at the bottom of the page.