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Best Friend? F/14
My BFFL and I have been BFFL for almost 2years now. We NEVER fight which is great, so there hasn't been any problems w/ fighting but Now there is. She has another BFFL.First, we hated each other then we liked each other and now he has a g/f that he LOVES & she loves him and now we extrememly dislike each other, again. I'm at my dad's now for two weeks and I try to talk to her but shes always "busy" or with him, so she says she can't call & he's even before me on her myspace! I'm losing her! =[ HELP
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you can try to get alone with him or her sometime when you want to hangout
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well you should try getting alone with him or her but if it that doesn't work you should tell
her what's going on.
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ouch. just remember: the closer you pull her, the more she's gonna run away from you.
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its not that your losing her, its that she found a boyfriend that she really loves. thats the way things usually go, when you find someone you love, that person becomes the most prominent person in your life. your not losing her, she just has to split her time between you and him now, and shes gonna lean towards spending more time with him bcuz hes her boyfriend. and the whole myspace thing...that basically means nothing...if your getting mad over what ORDER your in on her myspace...then your WAY over-thinking things.
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I'm sorry, that's short hand that I don't recognize "BFFL" Best Friend's Father-in-law?
Just wondering if anyone else thought the same thing.
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its normal for all friendships to have problems. Let your friend know how you feel and that it bothers you. This guy obviously means alot to her and she obviously wants to spend time with him. Yes he may be her boyfriend but you will always be her bestfriend. Maybe call and talk to her when you know she wont be busy. for example before she goes to bed or early in the morning. plan days that you and her just hang out all day without her boyfriend.
Kait♥
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you should juss talk to her about it. that's all you can really do. if she doesn't say much, pushes it side, er doesn't pay much attention to it, give her some time. if she appreciates your friendship & wants to be your friend, she'll talk to you about it. juss because she has another friend doesn't mean you're being replaced by him. give it some time & tell her how you feel. you can have more friends too. eventually she'll see that you guys have been friends way longer & maybe she'll decide not to be friends with him.
-hope that helped!♥
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