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this girl...


Question Posted Sunday July 9 2006, 1:10 pm

so i'm 14/m and she's 14/f...she really likes me..and i think i like her too...i wanna go out with her...but her parents are way to strict and so are her cousins...she's not allowed to go on a date until she's 18..i can't wait 4 years...wat do i do???

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xMakeDamnSurex answered Tuesday July 11 2006, 10:18 pm:
Try to get along VERY well with her family. If they see that you're a good guy, they may make an exception for you. And don't give the girl any reason whatsoever to tell her family anything bad about you.

I hope this helped =) Good luck.

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sHakeitOff answered Monday July 10 2006, 2:58 pm:
that sucks. i know a couple people that cant date for a while and it really sucks, especially when i liked one of them. i've been in your situation twice =[ soo here's the advice..well there isnt much you can do. you can explain to her that you like her but since she cant date for 4 more years that you are still going to date other girls (if that's what you want to do) and tell her that once she's 18 if you two are still in touch to call you and maybe you two can go on a date. hope i helped, good luck. =]

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jumadel answered Monday July 10 2006, 2:49 am:
Hi, if her parents won't let her out until another 4 years then there isn't much you can do. If she goes to your school then you could see her there. Otherwise if her parents won't let her out then it's up to her to talk to her parents about it. Just ring her up and stuff like that. E-mail her. Talk to her parents and maybe you guys can have an arrangement. I think her parents are being a little to strict. Make an arrangement like what time you would be coming home and you won't go far. Let her parents know that you can both be trusted. Otherwise there isn't alot you can do. Daniel.

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JazzyGotDaAnswer answered Sunday July 9 2006, 9:56 pm:
sorryyy but i dont think there really is much that you guys can do because your so young. i hope things change so yall can go out'



Jazzy**

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Bluebell78 answered Sunday July 9 2006, 9:16 pm:
there is nothing you really can do because its her parents choice. take this from me becuz this is how my parents are. cant date till college. but my sister is turning 18 this year and id like to see if she can date yet. if you love her then you can wait for her of if your up to it talk to her parents and tell them how you feel about her and see if they give you a chance. i hope i answered your question. please feel free to ask me any more questions!! Good Luck!!

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icegirl1011 answered Sunday July 9 2006, 7:15 pm:
hmmmm tell her parents you really really like her and you will protect her and take care of her on your date

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kick_me answered Sunday July 9 2006, 6:01 pm:
well
if your like inlove! with her you should wait...but im guessing your not so
dont go all in the shadows for this one girl tht you like there are alot of other girls try them out and by the time she is 18 and you foun no girl for you and you still have feelings for her give it a shoot. good luck

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Exquisitechick answered Sunday July 9 2006, 4:32 pm:
Hmm, i guess you should talk to her family, let them get to know you && stuff. Make a good impression and just be very nice. But, you also have to be yourself too.

Good luck

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Meghan09 answered Sunday July 9 2006, 4:00 pm:
Try to talk to her family and let them get to know you. You will have to take things slow at first like you and her should try to see if you can come over for a few hours and hang out. That way her cousins and family can get to know you. Make sure you are respectful and look her parents in the eye. Eye contact is a really important thing. Be sweet and charming, also be yourself. Have your girlfriend talk to her parents about getting to know you, while you two are just friends, then go from there. They will respect that you are taking things slow and giving them a chance to get to know you. I hope I helped.

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caramella answered Sunday July 9 2006, 3:07 pm:
there are three things you can do here you can either get to know her even more till shes like 18 then go dating the more you know her the better or you guys can go on group dates meaning you have your freinds and her friends around OR you can leave her and move on with your life

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im_just_me answered Sunday July 9 2006, 2:46 pm:
well.
it seems to me you rlly lyk this girl but yeahh i agree with you 4 years is a rlly long time. but if ure not willing to wait that long. then find sumone else. i would say that do it behind there bak but that always ends up bad. trust me.

im sorry i didnt help you out much.

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