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Dreams Of Cheating =( please help me
Ok, I have been having dreams of being with other men even though I have a bf. I love my bf and would never cheat on him. I used to have those dreams a lot but it stopped for a while but now there back =/. I hate it, I used to just get up and forget about it, its just a dream right? But now they are really bothering me. I love my boyfriend so much and our two-year anniversary is coming up. We tell each other everything but I haven’t been able to tell him about this cause he can get very jealous. He tells me stuff like that and it really wouldn’t bother me. Should I tell him? Is there anyway to make the dreams stop? Do they mean something? I used to like all the guys that I dream about, but i really don’t like them anymore. This is how my last dream went...
We were on school busses and they left us at what looked like a mall but also a school. Any way my bf was with me but we got separated and I hung out with my friend and we found out there was a concert on the roof. we went up there and one of my bf's friend that I used to like was there. Anyway during the concert someone bumped into him and he feel on me and kissed me, I kissed him back and then stopped and started crying. He said come on you don’t like him he doesn’t treat you right don’t cry, don’t you like me? Which made me cry more and I ran downstairs and then woke up.
This guy is the one I dream of the most and he’s attractive but I love my bf and think he is much more attractive so why am I having these dreams! And do I tell my bf? I really want these dreams to stop I never even think of those guys and I end up dreaming about them! AH! Please help
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mkay. you shouldnt tell your bf quite yet. try spending more time together doing things you both like. your dreams may not mean you dont love your bf or you want to cheat on him it may mean that your relationship isnt as "good" as it was in the beginning. after you try spending time together and you still have the dreams. you should tell your bf about them, tell him you dont like the dreams and all and ask him what he thinks about them. hopefully, he wont think much of them, or even better they stop before you "have" to tell him. eventually, you may feel guilty and feel you have to tell him or the relationship wont last because relationships are about honesty. you could go either way. hope i helped and good luck.
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Dreams are there sometimes to show you a clue to a part of your life. It isn't saying that you want to cheat on him, and that you don't love him; but it could mean that the relationship for one of you ( or both ) isnt as strong as it used to be or could be. Try to do more activities with eachother and try to make the relationship more fun like it was in the beginning. Hopefully that will work.
If it doesn't work, then confront your boyfriend. Don't tell him about the dreams just yet. Simply respond to it as in, do you truely care about me because I really love you and I don't want anything or anyone to ever come between us. And after his response, in a calm and polite manner tell him about your dream.
I hope I helped.
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"To dream that you are cheating on your spouse, mate, or significant other, suggests feelings of self-guilt and self-betrayal. You may have compromised your beliefs or integrity and/or wasting your energy and time on fruitless endeavors. Alternatively, it reflects the intensity of your sexual passion and exploring areas of your sexuality. It is a reaffirmation of your commitment.
To dream that your mate, spouse, or significant other is cheating on you, indicates your fears of being abandoned. You may feel a lack of attention in the relationship. Alternatively, you may feel that you are not measuring up to the expectations of others. This notion may stem from issues of trust or self-esteem. "
I got that from dreammoods.com
I hope it helps!! :)
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Ok, I have reoccuring dreams a lot too, and I was once told (by a pshyciatrist) that it means there is something you are longing to do or something you want or have wanted that is still on ur mind somewhere deep down in there. Or it means you or someone close to you will or is going through something that may not be simple at all.
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I went to myjellybean.com and found this in the dream dictionary.
"Cheating - in a Relationship
If you dream of cheating on your boyfriend, it means you will be entangled in a situation that is not in your best interest, perhaps even illegal. You may have behaved in a way that compromised your values. To dream that you are cheating with your boyfriend's friend means you are feeling neglected by your boyfriend. To dream that your sweetie is cheating on you, means you are scared of being abandoned. You may feel some lack of attention in the relationship."
Hope for the best!
~*Brianna*~
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