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advice fast please!
to make a short story short..... i like him, he likes me. my mom doesn't like him because she just doesn't like the way he looks. but he's really a nice guy. he invited me to a party. i really wanna go. how do i convince mom to like him? i need a really good stratigic well thought out plan. ideas?
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tell your mom never judge a book by its cover and invite him over so she can get to know him better
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Have him come over before you even bring up the party. Tell your mom you want her to get to know him, beacuse you think he's a good guy. Tell him you want your mom to get to know him, also. If that still doesn't work then when you go to mention the party tell her a few friends will be there or whatever. That way your not lying, but she doesn't have to know he's going to be there. :)
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Leave him out of any conversations with your mom about the party. Just tell her you want to go, and leave it at that, don't tell her it's because of him. She's probably not comfortable with your feelings for him and that's typical, a lot of parents aren't, so play it down and tell her you're just friends, there's no reason she needs to know much more.
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The best idea would be to ask your guy to come over and meet your mother. That way she can get to know him in the safe environment of your home.
Tell him that you know it would be old-fashioned but if he could ask her permission to date you she might relent and say yes. If he really likes you then he wouldn't mind doing this for you.
He doesn't need to alter how he looks but if he acts polite it will go a long way to making her feel that you would be safe with him.
I hope that these suggestions help and wish you all the best.
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