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Boy troubles & trying not to hurt a friendship
There is this boy I like at school. But not until the other day when I saw my best man friend
and all of a sudden bam!! I was in love with him. I am not sure I should like him because my best lady friend likes him. I am not sure what to do to? I do not want to loose a friendship or a crush.
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just ask your lady friend if you can like him she should understand.
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just tell your best lady friend that your in love with your best man friend, and ask her if its ok with her.
if its not, then you should just try to get over him, but if its ok and you just really love him that much, then flirt with him a lot and ask him who he likes and then he might ask you out.
but even if she says its ok, people just usually say that just to be polite and nice, even if they really arent ok with it. so if you think you can live w/o him and can get over him, then even if she says its ok, dont go out w/him or even tell him that you like him.
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What I would do is not let either one of them know that you like him and just act like everything is cool (I know that may be hard). Then when they break up you go to him being all buddy buddy start some small flirting and then he will get the hint. And to not loose your friend over that is make sure she is ok with it first before you just jump right into it. That is what I would do to keep them both cool with me and not hate me or anything.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at truelovers2104@yahoo.com)
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Talk to your friend first, make sure she is okay with the fact that you like him. She will most likely say yes, it may be hard to talk in person so you can talk on the phone or IM. If its okay with her that you like him, then you should flirt with the guy! It doesnt matter if hes your best friend, some of the best relationships form from best friends dating! You may find you dont like him as much as you think, or you may find that you two are perfect for eachother! Your friend wont let the guy come between you guys, so if you find out hes into you, she will back off for you.
hope this helps :)
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