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me and my friend fighting
my friend and i are recently getting in fight and they are mostly about her bf(im 14/f by the way)her bf said some really mean stuff to me and my friend was mad at him about it for like 5 min and then forgave him.she always does that when hes mean to me or her. Should her and i stay friends or should we go our seperate ways?
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tell her she should stand up to her boyfriend if he treats you bad and her bad she should break up with that jerk. And its not a good reason for you too to be fighting
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I am 14 too and I have same problems!!! So tell your so called friend if she's not brave enough to stand up to her boyfriend and defend you and her feelings then she doesn't deserve your friendship at all!!!
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This guy doesnt deserve a girlfriend if he treats you and her like this. He's just using her, tell her that, and if she doesnt accept it just show her our advice.
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You should definatly stay friends, but tell her that because of how her boyfriend treats you, you don't want to hang out with him at all. Also, that you would prefer not to hear what he has to say about things, if he has no respect for you, then just remove yourself from the situation as much as possible. Just try to be there for your friend though, if he is being mean to her also, she's going to need a shoulder to cry on.
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Well friends are the most important things in a teens life so you would need to talk to her about her guy and show her how he really is
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Look when I say this it's from experience. If you think she is nice and funny and hangs out withyou a lot and you like all of that stuff then stay her friend. I have done this and I don't know what I would do without her.
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You both should stay friends because that is kind of a dumb reason to give a friend up (over a boy). But what you do need to do is talk to her about it and let her know what he says is hurtful and if she was a real friend (since he is her boyfriend) she would make him stop. You just need to let her know how you feel and where you are coming from after you do that she will pretty much understand and try to fix it. But you have to let her know what is wrong in order for her to fix it.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at truelovers2104@yahoo.com)
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No i dont think you should give up your relationship up about a boy but i know what you mean. sit down and talk to her and tell her how it makes you feel. tell her you dont enjoy and and would like to tell him that its not nice and stuff. just talk to her on the phone and tell her it hurts and have her talk to her boyfriend. hope i helped!!
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Well, when people have boyfriends they're really forgiving about some stuff. I mean, she probably loves this guy and she's not going to get him upset by repeating that he was mean to you. Just think of it as if he were single and mean to you. What would you do? You can't exactly make his gf do all the work anyway because she ISN'T his mom to be telling him about manners towards people. He is his own person and so are you, so I say YOU do something about it. :) Your friend should not be involved in the whole thing because his actions are not hers, so just stay with her.
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