Ok my friend smokes a hookah pen for fun and she thinks i should try it and i am interested but some things happened with my aunt from smoking and i don't want that to happen to me so do you think it would be okay if i smoked it every once in a while?
All tobacco is bad for you.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hookah#Health_effects
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i never went to school, i los my parents, am homeless, i live in the street, i am 27 yrs old, i never had a child, girlfriend, friends and i am a gentleman , iwant to die
Try to realize your thought processes and see if you can find another way to view things. Have you tried to get help from the state for being homeless? Maybe there's a church that can help you? Honestly at 27 you don't really need a girlfriend or a child, I know a lot of guys your age who don't. Try to maybe think outside the box, maybe offer to rake leaves, shovel snow, mow grass, clean windows,.. any way to make money... Please don't die, there is always a solution, it just may not be easy to see.
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k;; well me nd this guy have been dating 2 months;; we have only made out but talked about him fingering me; he felt me up nd he played with me down there many times he tried getting farther but i stopped him;; we were at the movies nd he felt me up;; the started ggoin down;; i felt a little uncomfortable then he just started fingering me ;; then i felt good i let him keep doing it;; i finallly stopped him; im 13 am i a slut?
When I think of slut, I think of a girl who does things with a lot of guys. But don't worry about the label, it's the least of your worries. 13, I feel, is far too young to be doing that. Especially after two months. Please don't do any more sexual things, or you might end up with an STD or pregnant. While I get that it feels good, you have the rest of your life to do that stuff. Also, if this guy ends up breaking up with you, it will hurt a LOT more if you guys have done sexual things than if you hadn't.
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I am a graduating high school student. During my elementary, I graduated as a valedictorian. that is why My parents are expecting me to do good in school and get good grades. Now, I got a grade of 77 in calculus and if they'll learn about it, they would surely be mad at me. I don't know what to do. I love my parents and I did my best but I'm not really good in math. I could not let them down... Please give me advice on what to do/say and perhaps some good study habits in Math because I think it might help.
It really doesn't matter if you graduated elementary as a valedictorian. No one will ask you that (like an employer) and elementary isn't the hardest thing ever, at least compared to high school. Unless you went to a super advanced school? I don't know why your parents are putting so much weight on it.
You are going to have to accept that you can't please your parents all the time. It will come back to bite you, whether it's the person you're dating or the major or job you wanna pick. So you might as well start now, with this math grade you got.
However, if you really do want to bring your math grade up, google "khanacademy" and you'll find some good videos, and ask your teacher for extra credit. But do it for yourself, not your parents :)
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Okay, so there's this French food (i think it's french) and it has like mashed potato inside with little green things and it's wrapped in like.. this bread-ish type thing. It tastes amazing.. so I was wonder what it's called?
Potato Blintzes. They're yummy :)
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When I was younger, I was molested for 2 years by my stepbrother. A year after, my boyfriend cheated on me, and my last boyfriend only wanted to date me because he wanted sex. I have always had trouble trusting guys, and I always am awkward and scared around them - even my own dad. It's hard for me to get close to a guy, and I've always thought that they were all the same. How do I get around this?
Being molested is certainly not a healthy thing to experience. If you haven't told anyone about this, you should. He could grow up and do it to someone else.
However, I'm not going to sugar coat this for you.
Most guys DO only want sex, but not ALL of them. I have had tons of guy friends, for years, and after they found out that I wasn't sexually attracted to them, we stopped being friends. While I'm hurt, I also realize that men (and women) are simply animals. We are biologically wired to want to have sex. Some men can't help it.
However my past two boyfriends did not just want me for sex. One wanted all of me, (as in personality and sex) and the other didn't even want sex. And the one I have now likes all of me as well. These are the types of guys who are really picky and won't just date someone to have sex with them, because they just can't. They need the girl to have a connection with them & a personality.
There are guys who will really commit to you, trust me. You will just have to put yourself out there, don't waste your time on the guys who just want you for sex. You'll know if they do or don't. Just move on until you find a guy who's worth your time.
Don't be awkward and scared around them though. They are just people like you. I'm sure you would be confused if someone was scared around you just because you're a girl.
And about your dad. Tell him you don't feel close to him and let the conversation go from there.
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I grew up in SouthWest Ohio and I definatley talk/express myself like a true Ohioan with all the "please?, queer, sucker, gymshoes, pop", etc. One problem... I live in New Jersey now. I moved in Jan 07. People here are mean/self-centered/rude and just not friendly & take themselves wayyy too seriously.. I'm a very outgoing and friendly person but I feel like I can't talk to people here because they'll either look at me like "excuse me, do I know you?" or make fun of the way I talk. I like to joke around and have fun [without making fun of other people] and I can't seem to find anyone cool like that. I've tried being quiet and wearing what everyone else wears but it's boring.
I'm a great friend to have but people only want shallow friendships where they don't really give a damn about what happens to their friends as long as as they are still happy.
Any idea on how to get through this? I'd really like to be my friendly self again...
PS, I'm 16/female, incomming Junior.
yeah, people can be like that in new jersey. buuuut i live here and i'm pretty nice! if you have a myspace, i can add you if you like [=
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im thinking about taking a bus instead of a plane on a trip next week. last minute i know. im in college so every dollar counts and buses are cheaper. im going through 2 and a half states. does anyone know anything about greyhound busses and how reliable and safe they are? any experiences, comments? thanks!
f/19
I went on one. It was alright... Don't worry too much. Have fun.
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ok i have a few questions:
1)what would make a hard drive go bad on a 2yr. old computer?
2)my computer won't stay on for more than a minute without restarting itself (i've unchecked the box that says "restart in case of system failure") so yeah and i asked a question about it on here earlier last month around mid october and someone said that i would probably need a new hard drive. i also tried the other suggestions to do a system restore but when the computer restarts after the system restore is complete is says that it couldn't restore it. so how much does a hard drive cost? i have a dell xp home edition, not sure of the model number.
3) my dad is very computer savy. i want him to look at it because he'll most likely know whats wrong with it but i've looked at porn on that computer and i didn't clear my internet history before this happened. so, could porn have destroyed my hard drive? i would die if he somehow found out that porn is what destroyed my computer.
please help and thank you very much for reading
I will just help you the best to my knowledge. I haven't fixed computers in YEARS and I never actually worked on a hard drive itself(but i did try to repair them.. )
1) Hard drives get old. They break. It's happened to me and I tried to fix it very badly, but I couldn't. I got a new one, and quite honestly I'm happy I got a new one.
2) Don't bother. Hard drives very in cost though. A good one would probably be around 50+ dollars. I got a really good one for 25 dollars though (80 GB) so look out for sales!
3) Porn did not destroy your computer. Unless you are talking about viruses, because then it is possible. But if your hard drive is malfunctioning, then probably not.
The last bit of advice I have is that if you want to get your stuff back, try to see if you can conect a second hard drive. Then boot into that one (keep the other one connected too though) and go to "My computer." Then you will see the other hard drive there and you can copy and paste things to your new hard drive. You can also delete whatever you don't want your dad to see. This is only if your hard drive is somewhat good though. If it is completely fried, then it might not work, but I don't think it's that bad.
The only thing I'm questioning is if your hard drive is bad or just your computer (like files and stuff.) But I hope I helped!
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this isnt really advice im just curious. one day this question popped into my head and ive been thinking about and asking other people as well. i already have an opinion of it but id like other perspectives. the question is, do you think one can be deep IN LOVE with another person, if the feeling isnt mutual? not just love them but be truly IN love. also could you please explain why or why not for your answer =] thanks.
Yes. They're called stalkers. Haha! But really. I think you can, because one person can be really awesome but the other one isn't. So then the one who isn't cool will likt them, but the awesome person won't like an uncool person. You know?
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What are some different ways to eat white rice? I've tried it with vinegar, but I'm wondering other ways. I eat it often but I get tired of eating it by itself or with soy sauce. I'm just curious as to how I can spice it up and make it more flavorful.
I put mayonaisse on it. Haha! I'm not even the only one... I'ev heard about like 3 people who like it too. I also kind of like with with that sauce (ketchup and maynaisee together?) Yeah. It's gooooooood.
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Um I have a really personal love life question and id rather not post it on public internet, so I was wondering if a couple of people could volunteer to answer it? (ill send you a question to your inbox)
thanks
sure =]
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so i forgot how to write a summary and i have to read a small, smallll article on something inparticular and write a summary about it, what do i say?
Combine sentences, shorten sentences, state only the main facts. That;s pretty much it.
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well im 14 and for some reason i just think its totally pointless to have a relationship before you can drive. dont get me wrong i have nothing against people who do have relationships but is this like totally wrong? i feel weird cause my friends are all like OMG he is sooooooo hot! and im just like whatever doesnt matter to me
You're right, but not completely. Most relationships at that age, especially based on appearance, end very quickly. Not all of them though. Never generalize! :) I know a girl who dated a guy from when she was 12.. and she's like 15 now. Other people's relationships don't matter anyway.
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Okay.
So I have a boyfriend (but besides the point, I'm kinda crushing on another guy.)
Anyway,so me and my friend we're always together, and we're always hugging and just touching.
So today we were goofing around, and he was hugging me, and hehheh, I felt that he had a boner, cuz well I could feel it on my leg, ha.
So I don't really know about that stuff, does that mean he likes me?
Oh.. He likes you. But I don't mean HIM, if you know what I'm saying.
He might like you though, if you guys are always hugging :)
Buuuuut it might be for the wrong reasons. If anything, just ask him!
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okay so there is this kid named mike, and i have been on and off liking him, like im kinda confused cause he likes this other girl. But deep down i know i REALLY like him.
well last night i had the best dream,
idk where we were but like i guess i was cold and he like gave me his sweatshirt to wear and we were like holding hands taking a walk and stuff...
idk but this dream made me like REALLY really happy!!! and i have this like vibe that it meant something but i cant figure out what.
its making me mad cause i want it to be true so badlyyyy!!!!
so like does anyone know what this means or am i just wanting something so bad my mind is playing tricks on me?!?!
i really want it to mean something, i really want that to happen
P.S we are good friends we hang out and talk alot so yeah =]
helpp
If you beleive in dreams then go to www.dreammoods.com
Personally, I think dreams are just dreams. They don't mean a thing. They are just feelings, experiences, thoughts, ideas all combined into a visual thing. Sorry.
But! Maybe you should make some moves. He might even like you now, and maybe you are right. Just keep talking to him and stuff. Don't fall too much into the 'friend zone.' Flirt :)
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the iPod Touch recently came out. It looks awesome. My question is, do you think I should wait another year so Apple can improve it? I've looked on wikipedia.org that each year, Apple improved the iPod each year, making it better.
You should just get it because if you say they're gonna make a new one next year well, they'll also make an even better one the year after that! Or maybe you could just wait a little while and wait til it gets cheaper :)
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I'm a junior in high school and i want to start a big community service project to impress college...any ideas??
to be honest, you should do it because you want to help people not to impress a college. once you do that, the ideas will come to you. i absolutely hate it when people do things to impress someone or something. do it for yourself.
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What would you consider flirting for a guy who is relatively shy? Now, I don't mean shy as in personality-wise, but he's not the type who greets his female friends in hugs, and he's not the type to put his arm around a girl's hip when they're walking, and he wouldn't rest his arm on his female friend's shoulder...you know. He's not really the touchy sort. Nor am I, really unless the other person anitiates, but what would you consider flirting for this type of guy?
Thank you.
what the heck is the other commenter talking about?
anyway,
i would say if he's acting different
then that's flirting.
but mostly, i guess they just don't flirt.
ask him "do you flirt? how?" if you really want to know :P
i don't know if that helped much, but tell me if you find out anything! xD i want to know too ..
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Ok well I don't ever show how i feel, like my inner personality. And I'm trying to show that I'm a very bubbly person and I love hugs so I like to hug people.
There's thsi girl that hugs a lot of people a day but when i hug ssome people...they're just being akward about it and it's just..yeah
Why?
no offense
but i don't hug people who aren't really close friends
or people who smell bad or are unattractive
haha..
so just hug your close friends :)
and if they're still being weird about it
well, some people just don't like hugs!
so just as you are trying to show that you like hugs
they are trying to show that they don't!
=P
and don't hug for no reason either.
hug to say hi
or if something really good happens or really bad
yep. that's pretty much it.
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