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to young?
well im 14 and for some reason i just think its totally pointless to have a relationship before you can drive. dont get me wrong i have nothing against people who do have relationships but is this like totally wrong? i feel weird cause my friends are all like OMG he is sooooooo hot! and im just like whatever doesnt matter to me
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THATS GOOD. im 18 and im having my first REAL relationship. i can drive, i know how to deal with homework, friends, work, my future, and MYSELF. dont think your weird just because of that. i think that it is a very smart thing to do and its exactly what i did.
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You have no idea how much I WISH you were the norm. You have a much more level head than 99% of your generation that Ive encountered.
It is relatively pointless before you can do much about it.
Thing is, that kids are finding ways to do some things about it early. If you've been on this website, you have probably seen questions from girls as young as 12 and 13 who are having sex. One that stands out in my memory was a 13 year old girl who was having threesomes with another few 13 year old girls and her 14 year old boyfriend.
That seems to be about all they can do, is imitate adult sexuality, but its definitely happening. When I have kids I shudder to think sometimes of what climate to bring them up in and what kind of things they can get themselves into without supervision.
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Okay I disagree with a lot of stupid people below because dating varies in age. And the dating age is usually 15 anyways. You only have another year and you'll be more accepted to date. About the driving part my cousins are like 15 16 and they can't drive and they both have boyfriends that drive them. Guys that are older love cute, sweet, young girls. It's just something that makes them go crazy. I'll be 15 in 5 more months so I know exactly how you feel right now. I don't think about dating because its just not something I want to do now. But if you want to dont let older people tell you that you can't its bull shit. I know people that are like 12 and they have boyfriends. You probably just arent ready and thats okay. Getting into a realtionship sooner is more confusing and very stressful because you're growing up still. But pretty sooon you'll be grown so if ya want to date. Go right ahead!
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No, it's not wrong. You're just more into being single than other people. There's nothing wrong with it, but your time will come.
And I happen to disagree. While it'll be easier to get around & hang out, it's not like you guys can't get rides places.
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no thats perfectly fine. it is kinda lame to go out with someone when neither of yall can drive [and you are way to young to be with someone who can drive] just take it slow.. seriously your a kid, all the guys will still be available.. and the 'omg so hott' guys.. might end up being ass ugly by the time yall are in high school.. it happened to A LOT of guys where im from.
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There is nothing wrong about thinking this way it just means you are mature and understand what happens out there in the real life. In my opinion 14 is a young age to date and think about boys and sex etc. But there are other girls out there who don't think the same way you do about this and that's normal. Just because your bff thinks that boy is hot doesn't mean you have to force yourself to think the same way (not saying you are its just an example) you do what you think is right and ok for you don't get under the influence of others.
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You're right, but not completely. Most relationships at that age, especially based on appearance, end very quickly. Not all of them though. Never generalize! :) I know a girl who dated a guy from when she was 12.. and she's like 15 now. Other people's relationships don't matter anyway.
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It's not wrong at all. I wish there were more people like you. I was. I thought it was really pointless dating before 16 years old (even though I still did, but nothing huge came of it and I wouldn't ever have pushed myself to do things).
It's better you aren't interested at the moment. There is PLENTY of time for boys. They only mess things up at your age anyway. Focus on yourself, school and your friends until you're ready to start dating.
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It probably just because you are 14 wait a few years and you will being saying different. If you feel that way then you haven't met the right person yet.
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