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I let him finger me. am i a slut?
k;; well me nd this guy have been dating 2 months;; we have only made out but talked about him fingering me; he felt me up nd he played with me down there many times he tried getting farther but i stopped him;; we were at the movies nd he felt me up;; the started ggoin down;; i felt a little uncomfortable then he just started fingering me ;; then i felt good i let him keep doing it;; i finallly stopped him; im 13 am i a slut?
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awwww come on now no you not you just have a feeling were you want to explore things in life and its boys its ok if you want to do things like that but not really sex but what you should do is talk to some one befor doing it cause your very young and this can be a big mistake in your life you really dont understand it really bt think about it first befor doin it and talk to your mom n dad or aunt or even me ill help you you are a young girl n nice n sweet take care n trust your self all the time love your self and be a leader dont follow no one bt your heart and mind and wen you are ready then you should do it you dont have to rush into sex sex is a big word
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No, I don't think that you are a slut but more curious. I think that since you are 13, you shouldn't go any further than that. It's best to wait till you are older, because you don't want to regret anything by the time you are older. You are not a slut, Sluts are girls who have no respect for themselves, and they don't have any standards. A slut is a person who just don't care, they are willing to have sex with any one for anything.
P.s Don't be afraid to say No if someone goes further than you want.
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no worries girl, haha i did the same too! well first i felt really bad and i was like shit, but i realized im not a slut because a slut is when a girl has sex with different men like every night, if its with ur boyfriend then its totally fine, dont worry about it! haha :)
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you're not this is just your body responding to something that makes it feel good, just be careful about who you do this with and how far it gets ,, you don't wanna get a bad reputation
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You're not a slut but if you're into this guy you shouldn't move so fast. If you feel uncomfortable at all you should stop it and let him know.
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if you are not comfortable with this then you need to make sure that you put a stop to it. If you do end up going all the way though, make sure that you are both tested for any diseases and use a condem. Also, you might want to think about birth control. You are not a slut! Many girls go through this so don't think you are alone. Hope this helped and good luck!
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no, you're not. you guys are going at a pretty healthy rate with moving to the next step. but be sure that if you go all the way to use a condom. always be safe :) take care.
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well i would say yes like i hve friends older than you hat do tht and they r allkinda slutty but since u are 13 that also isnt very good i think it is a little early to bethat close with a guy u have only been with 2 months
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If your only sleeping with him or letting him finger you then no your not a slut..
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when you refer to someone as a slut it would usually be one of those girls that sleep around with a ton of guys so you're not a slut however don't you think that you are a little young to let this guy feel you up i understand that you are growing and want to experiment but you have your whole life ahead of you to think about sex so for now concentrate on things that really matter and enjoy your life because if you do end up sleeping with this guy and you two break up he's going to start talking about you and you will be referred to as a slut
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When I think of slut, I think of a girl who does things with a lot of guys. But don't worry about the label, it's the least of your worries. 13, I feel, is far too young to be doing that. Especially after two months. Please don't do any more sexual things, or you might end up with an STD or pregnant. While I get that it feels good, you have the rest of your life to do that stuff. Also, if this guy ends up breaking up with you, it will hurt a LOT more if you guys have done sexual things than if you hadn't.
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