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Yesterday me and my boyfriend were lying in bed and he started to rub his penis on my clitoris. He did that for a while and then he came. I didnt think that was a problem because he wasnt inside me but then he started fingering me. Is there a chance that his sperm went inside me? Could I be pregnant? Pls help! (link)
Yeah, and Yeah.
Try going to a local clinic or something that hands out free birth control pills...but before you do that, try a pregnancy test first to see if it even is true.


what is powderpuff? (link)
it's where the cheerleaders and football players switch for one game.
like the cheerleaders play football and the players cheer.
haha, it's kinda of cool actually. =D


I'm 16/f and I have an older sister (just turned 18)and an older brother (21). Well my sister and I used to be really close (we're only a year and half apart) but ever since a few months ago, she's started hanging out with these guys that are way older (like my brother's age)and I hate it because we used to do everything together but now her and my brother are always together.


She was a cheerleader in high school so she barely ever drank and she's never done drugs but ever since cheer for her senior year was over she's started partying a bunch more and I now she's gotten high a few times. I know weed isn't all that bad for you really but it just isn't her!


My family and I went on vacation to the Virgin Islands a few weeks ago and like 4 of the nights we were there my brother and sister went out clubbing and stuff with this guy that came with us. I love my brother and everything but he's such a bad influence on my sister.


She's moving to Austin after the summer is over (we're in Houston) to go to college and I know it's just going to get worse. She's really pretty so guys are constantly all over her and I'm just afraid she's going to get herself into trouble. I know she's had sex with 2 guys--one long term boyfriend and another guy she dated in April after she broke up with her boyfriend. In April she was still 17 and the guy was 21.


I don't know if I should say something to her or not because sometimes I just feel like I should mind my own business and not act like her parent but I just don't know.
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maybe you should talk to her...and just tell her that you care about her alot and don't want anything dangerous to happen to her...
hope i helped =D


I might have oral sex with my boyfriend so I was wondering, when he cums, are you supposed to spit or swallow it? What is more common? (link)
swallow.
and don't like let it sit in your mouth for very long or else you'll gagg or something. just swallow it. it'll be fine =D


OK Green day is smokin' hot right now, they are on covers of magazines and are on tv, so, how come when i go to chatrooms to meet my friends from school, so many people say they suck...Why are they so popular when so many people hate them, i mean i loved them since i was a baby, my dad put their music on before i was born for pete's sake, so ...why? (link)
people just have different tastes and some don't like them that much. but if you do, that's okay.


there's this girl *j*...and she used to be my best friedn...she sent me this e-mail saying stop e-mailing her..i was like i did'nt e-mail her..and i checked too..none of her contacts are with me..then i said nicely i'm not e-mailng you so stop e-mailing me...then she says you think your so tough...you aint got no boobs or ass...and your a size b and i\'m a d..this pissed me off...but i was still like why are you looking and stop e-mailing me...then she has her mom e-mail me saying stop e-mailing me daughter..i new this was *j*...b/c she spelled address wrong..and other things too...then i thought about it and was like ok...all were doing is telling each other to stop e-mailing each other..(if that makes any sence)...i want to tell her that...but all she\'ll do is e-mail me back as her mother...so shud i e-mail her??...if you want me to send the e-mail..just tell me... (link)
psh...just stop emailing her.
it'll piss her off.
and besides, you don't need to be wasting your time on something as stupid as that.
you're obviously too good to be wasting your time talking to her about absolutely nothing.


okay, so i'm 14/m and she's 14/f and i really like her but i don't know where i should take her on our first date (if she'll go out with me) if you live in st. louis area, (or anyware) got any advice? (link)
-movies
-hangout at the mall
-hangout at your house
-go in a big group somewhere
...anything. =D


i am a 21 year old girl who has just had my life turned upside down. i just realised that i have done nothing with my life that will get me anywhere i want to go. i really want to be a primary school teacher but i am unsure of the routes to take to become one. i am currently an assistant nursery nurse about to qualify. i also have half of an HND in accounts but quit after realising i ould not sit on my own in an office all day on my own. (just isn't me). does anyone know what routes there are to getting into primary teaching? If so how many years do you have to study for? (link)
go to a local primary school and try to ask them...


Okay i'm 12/f about to turn 13 in 2 weeks =] ! I really like this boy and yesterday i went to his house to hang out and i d k if this is slutty or what ? Well we was over there watching the Grudge and i was just laying by him, then we like moved to the floor and all the sudden he leaned over and we started making out. I like got on top of him and we like started having dry sex with are clothes on. Well he knew my turn on spot is my neck so he was kissing my neck and i just got really in the mood so he rolled over on top of me and we kept on doin it. Well then we stopped cause we heared someone upstairs so we were just laying there. And i let him finger me. And i was giving him a hand job all night !! Like every minute. Then hes like how bout you suck it for meee ? and i was like omg i never sucked one before soo yeah.. but we went downstairs but then we came back up after we did some more stuff.. okay now heres where it gets bad. We were laying on the couch and i like sucked his dick about 3 times and he wanted moreee. but we didn't have a condom . Well he fingered me again and left a huuuge hickey on my neck. Wow thats alot of stuf. Do you think thats slutty and just give me some advice on what i just told you . I feel slutty and guilty and i feel like hes useing me. (link)
i don't think it's slutty.
and i mean...if you like him, then try and find out if he likes you too.


Ok so I'm 16/f, and I feel really weird because most of my friends have done something, and I've barely even kissed.
Everyone I meet is always like 'how can you still be a virgin?' and it feels a bit uncomfortable.
The things is that I always hear older people say to keep it, that they regret doing it in the first place, but why? My friends dont seem to regret it. And almost no guy would go out with someone who's not sexually active. At least no guy I've come across thinks differently.
What should I do? (link)
just wait for the guy who doesn't care.
if someone really likes you, then that won't matter to them.
you guys can just work your way up to doing things that are comfortable together and stuff...like that. lol.


I think I might be pregnant.. I had sex with my boyfriend without using a condom..about 2 weeks ago..He was supposed to pull out in time and he claims he did.. but "down there" was wet like "his stuff" was all over it... as if he pulled out as going ...!
I know this was a STUPID thing.. to not use a condom and whatnot.. but its too late.. and i want to know if you guys think im pregnant!?
Im like paranoid now.. and feel dizzy all the time.. ! My periods not supposed to come for a while either.. so I dont know.. plus, its realllly irregular and I dont even know when to expect it!
HELP!!! (link)
eh...you might be pregnant.
take a pregnancy test!!


Iam 17 and I think I may be pregnant and my parents said if I get pregnant before I finish highschool they will kick me out and I have no where else to go besides my parents what should I do?please help me! (link)
take a pregnancy test and make sure it's for real. and if it is...maybe you could stay with a friend or something? maybe an older friend that doesn't live with their parents anymore.
=D


Hey, Im a 16/f and recently i stayed over and one of my guy friends house, and we were fooling around and ended up having sex, and he told me he wanted our relationship to stay as friends but still be able to do things like that. Do you think thats wrong? (link)
ugh i've been in a situation like that before. don't do it. it's not wrong....but it's really gonna end up messing with you. you're gonna think he's got real feelings for you when he doesn't. but if you don't think that you're gonna think that, then go for it. it could be fun.
=D


lately ive been wanting to have sex with my boyfriend of 4 months but i know im not ready for it..at times i think i am but sometimes i think im not, im afraid that one of these times im going to think im ready and actually have sex with him. how do i stop doing this? or should i jsut do have sex with him? (link)
just work your way up to it by doing different things. and once you're comfortable enough and think you're ready...then do it. just make sure you think he's the one you will always wanna remember as the guy you lost your virginity to.


I saw in a lot of the movies these days, I was just wondering...

If you have a sexual pleasure by using a vibrator, do you consider that as a virgin or no?

Also, do you have to have sex with a guy to lose your virginity? (link)
you're a virgin until someone actually sticks their penis in you.
and uh...idk how to answer the other question lol sry.


i just started my period today :[
as some of yall know.
and i was wondering if anyone could give me tips.
it would mean alot to me. (link)
i heard that bananas help period pain =D
and so does chocolate i think...


Ok when i was on a cruise there was this sickness and my mom got it and we were in the same room and now after about four months i have been feeling like im gonna be sick all the time and i don't know what to do. (link)
yeah, you should go to the doctor.


Alright. Well I was involved with this guy, we'll call him B, and me and B were together about 3 months and I was madly in love with him. I ended up lieing to him.. alot.. in the beginning of the relationship. And I slowly started confessing. The last time I confessed the last lie to him he took a tantrum fit and called me a liar. He broke up with me. He said he'd never take me back. Now he's sending me texts from his phone saying he loves me. Now. I'm with a guy.. moving on from B.. we'll call him T. He was my first ever love, and we decided to get back together after me and B broke up. T doesn't know about B and his text messages.. but everytime I talk to B, it makes me want to get back with him and leave T.. I don't wanna hurt T, however.. and I love them both so much. And B keeps saying he loves me yet he doesn't think we'd work out. I don't know what to do because I love T so much until B starts sending text messages and calling me.. then it makes me forget ALL about T and want B back. Then once B goes poof, I want T back. If your not confused.. try to give me some advice on what I should do. I can't just stop talking to B, and I can't just break up with T. (link)
okay...my advice...if you truly like T...then just tell B to stop contacting you, if it's gonna make you want him everytime he talks to you. it's for the best....hope i helped??




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